Yeh Bandhan Toh Pyaar Ka Bandhan Hai

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Would like to take the spotlight away from ShraMan & talk about two of my other favourite relationships on the show - Shravan/Pushkar & Suman/Nanaji

Shravan/Pushkar
How refreshing was it to see Pushkar angry with Shravan not because of what he did to Suman, but because he was genuinely worried for Shravan; worried for his wellbeing, worried for all the pain, & anger he hid inside him all these years. The betrayal he felt with Shravan not confiding in him & the helplessness at not being able to do anything came across so effortlessly, without the need for long dramatic dialogues or loud proclamations of love by Pushkar to Shravan. Such a beautiful bond..so pure, so truthful, & so moving.

Suman/Nanaji
Another beautiful bond.. of faith, of trust, of strength. Even though Nanaji knew nothing of the hurt Suman went through nor the gravity of it, he couldn't help but tear up, watching the plight Suman was in. He asked no further, but understood that his little doll was hurt badly. And what a beautiful lesson he taught her, so telling of the way the world functions - our need to compartmentalize will always cause us to put one person in the category of right & another in the category of wrong, but does that classification take away from what we do & who we are? NO. What is most important is us our sense of self-awareness of what we do (as Nanaji pointed out) & that's the way forward. We cannot run our lives based on other people's interpretations of our actions. Suman hurt Shravan, no doubt it was a low blow, but her heart knows that she never wanted to hurt him. But she does know that she did end up hurting him anyway. All these years that she did not contact Shravan may be viewed as wrong by me, or by Shravan, but that doesn't take away from the fact that she did genuinely want to make it up to him. And that is the way forward - she should listen to her heart, & do what her heart tells her to do.

It was heartwarming to see ShraMan have these two people who genuinely care for them, & love them.
P.S The forum's been on fire lately, with everyone stepping up to defend either Shravan or Suman. Both of them have been wrong at various points. However, they do not require justifications or glorifications because they are best left with their flaws, which make them real. What they need is redemption & looking beyond what they did, to what they can do now to make up for the time lost & the damage done.

Cheers,
Samridhi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Pushkar confronting shravan seemed very realistic and relatable

Instead of using high dramatic dialogues...cvs kept this as real as possible

Mata-rani guy seems very superstitious person
He is blaming shravan ...and sumo too

Nanaji-suman bond I really adore their scenes...



I don't understand why Suman is staying with her maternal family...
What about paternal family?????
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great post Sammy! I really loved pushkar shravan scene.. Pushkar was actly worried for shravan.. He was sad angry because shravan hid all his pains from him.. I really liked their scene... Well did anyone notice shravan was very restless..??!
. And yeah nanu sumo scene was simply superb.. He is his only support in the house along with daboo..even mamaji to a lil extent..
Loved the advice he gave to sumo.. I was lil emotional watching their scene..
I hate this mami arghh! Accident Hua he chot nai lagi he u r lying.wat d heck...
Precap is interesting.. Shravan was shocked wen he came to knw abt sumo's accident..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --fero--

Pushkar confronting shravan seemed very realistic and relatable

Instead of using high dramatic dialogues...cvs kept this as real as possible

Mata-rani guy seems very superstitious person
He is blaming shravan ...and sumo too

Nanaji-suman bond I really adore their scenes...



I don't understand why Suman was staying with her maternal family...
What about paternal family?????


i guess sumos father was an orphan😲
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: mannu100



i guess sumos father was an orphan😲


I guess no 😆
He's not an orphan
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post..I agree with you
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Posted: 9 years ago
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nice post really the two people only good in the show they genuinely care for shraman .. episode was filler one as I expected be.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yummy Lamboo also cares for Silly Sumo. In the precap chk his reaction when moron maasi blabs bt her accident. He was way to worried to be just a detached, disinterested family friend. For him IT WAS, IS & WILL ALWAYS BE LOVE & NOT DOSTI. But now aft all this heart break & jagda not sure how the CVs ll break the ice & get these 2 together. I think that's y they brought in this 20L + 3L + 4Rs + 5Paise plot. To get them to meet more often at some pretext.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Angels11

Yummy Lamboo also cares for Silly Sumo. In the precap chk his reaction when moron maasi blabs bt her accident. He was way to worried to be just a detached, disinterested family friend. For him IT WAS, IS & WILL ALWAYS BE LOVE & NOT DOSTI. But now aft all this heart break & jagda not sure how the CVs ll break the ice & get these 2 together. I think that's y they brought in this 20L + 3L + 4Rs + 5Paise plot. To get them to meet more often at some pretext.

Agreed. And one thing you have an amazing sense of humour. Too funny.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely post Sam
I liked the episode because it gave us an insight into ShraMan's hearts via Pushkar & Nanaji respectively..it really touched me to see that ShraMan have thse 2 people who really love them so much..who hurt at the thought of them hurting & who want the best for them. I hope they always remain a pillar of strength for ShraMan. Also I like how Nanaji's words played out in the context of whatever that has happened so far..in some way his words were so relevant for the forum as well where everyone is out to judge, & categorize the leads as either black/white & right/wrong when clearly that is not the main point..what is most important is what the heart feels & that is what ShraMan & we should all do..both of them made mistakes but their heart is pure & they deserve love, forgiveness for that. Hope they put their brain/ego aside & listen to their heart.
the precap was lovely as Shravan clearly looked concerned learning about Suman's accident.

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