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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nailah_EjFian

As a father, I would speak to my son to try and share his feelings first... I would give him the chance to sort it out and the options of me handling this matter... then I will speak to both Devraj and Rajendra directly..


if I was Devraj where I know my brother were at wrong, I would simply apologise to BB but my main concern would be my friend and the pain I caused him... I would have mend the situation there and then..


And if I was Suman - impulsive as I am.. I will be really upset with Shravan and not talk to him for another day till he keep pacifying me ❤️


good point...honestly, apologizing is what it takes to mend a relationship...i think devraj shouldve told rajendra to apologize to vijay and daadu but im pretty damn sure daadu wont think its sufficient enough...😡
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bucky

I think the first offs should be to keep all ego, pride, vanity, prejudice aside and have a sensible talk. I feel nothing is unsolvable unless a person gonna's stick to the above mentioned abstracts.

Dadu is no saint, neither are Devraj or Vijay. Both parties have been in the wrong at some point or the other.

Had I been Dadu I would've apologized. To accept something has chances of a change and can go a long way.

yup both families should just apologize and move on...i mean, these insults arent that bad compared to something serious occurring (which will happen in the future leading to the split)
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

If I turn out to be K Dadu with 'I am always right' attitude I guess I will call Rajender directly without much dawaat wala drama and ask him to manage his own business without disturbing my family. I will rather cut ties with him than insulting his brother who isn't at major fault!


If I am me at Dadu's place instead of the 'I am always right' Dadu I will apologise sincerely and even ask Rajender to mind his own business...I won't bring in Devraj!


If I turn out to be Devraj and K Dadu insults me for something my younger brother did while K Dadu too is at fault I will say a simple sorry and leave the house. I won't fight back as my family is at fault but I even won't listen to K Dadu's speech on how he is always right. I will even scold Rajender for being a jerk! Will try mending my relation with Vijay!

I can understand Devraj's so no major changes will occur with me replacing him!

hmm interesting either apologize or not ..its better to avoid further confrontation bc it will unnecessarily welcome unwanted trouble
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bucky


Perfectly sensible👍🏼


@b I think I'd too like Devraj to behave like you said. He doesn't have majority of the things in hand and what's best in such a situation is not letting any further damage to it.

i think both parties should just apologize and avoid any direct further confrontation...its better to to just remain good friends but not interfere much in their personal lives..
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

Thanks...🤗

Devraj does try controlling things but sadly he isn't good at it!

lol he's also thinking from a professional POV because if the vest deal doesnt happen major losses will occur..
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Posted: 5 years ago
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If I'm at Daadu's place, first I'll talk about it with Vijay, know his views. Then would talk with Rajendra, give him a piece of my mind & mind his own business.(would have felt guilty If I'm me)


If I'm Devraj, I would have gone behind Vijay at that moment after reprimanded Rajendra, apologize to him, also would ask Rajendra to apologize for his behaviour. If learnt that Daadu got to know I would say Sorry to him too.

Nice topic Lavanya👍🏼

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Posted: 5 years ago
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If I was at Daadu's place I would also talk to Vijay first and ask him what actually happened. I would leave this unnecessary drama and then talk directly to Rajendra and not to Devraj. It's not his fault and he would never hurt Vijay like that.

If I was in Devraj's place I would apologize to Vijay the very same day and explain to Rajendra that he made a mistake and he shouldn't have spoken to Vijay like that because he is his friend and he has no problem against his family. I would also say to Rajendra that he has no right to talk about his father like this because he is much older and deserves respect.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cherrydreamsxx

If I was at Daadu's place I would also talk to Vijay first and ask him what actually happened. I would leave this unnecessary drama and then talk directly to Rajendra and not to Devraj. It's not his fault and he would never hurt Vijay like that.

If I was in Devraj's place I would apologize to Vijay the very same day and explain to Rajendra that he made a mistake and he shouldn't have spoken to Vijay like that because he is his friend and he has no problem against his family. I would also say to Rajendra that he has no right to talk about his father like this because he is much older and deserves respect.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: MusicOfTheHeart

If I'm at Daadu's place, first I'll talk about it with Vijay, know his views. Then would talk with Rajendra, give him a piece of my mind & mind his own business.(would have felt guilty If I'm me)


If I'm Devraj, I would have gone behind Vijay at that moment after reprimanded Rajendra, apologize to him, also would ask Rajendra to apologize for his behaviour. If learnt that Daadu got to know I would say Sorry to him too.

Nice topic Lavanya👍🏼

I agree with your points👍🏼

Thanks!🤗

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