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Posted: 8 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: afreenaamna

It's a TV show with Deewaana.. What you guys were expecting..adarshvaadi premi? You guys knew what u signed up for.
A ghost getting into a girl's bed is wrong no matter even if he is her husband!
Vyom knew Sharanya didn't wanted to leave him..its so obvious..there is not a single reason why vyom should let her go not even one! She was leaving him due to majburi not with manzuri.
The suicide attempt it was not like'bolo tum mujhse shaadi karogi ya nahi, tum nahi karogi Toh main kudh jauga'kinda suicide it was more like 'durr jaogay joh tum..marr jayegay hum.. Sanam Teri kasam'kinda suicide! Which lover's do, the epic kind of lovers.


there is something called giving personal space and respecting someone's decision. vyom lacks both. he could have given her time to clear her head and if he was confident abt how she felt for him then there is no reason to force her to stay. she would have come back to him if she really loved him. he is making sure that before she gets her memory back he needs to make her his. she is an adult and is perfectly capable of making her own decisions and she decided to leave him. this reason is more than enough for vyom to let her go. suicide is suicide dear. either way he is gonna end up dead of things go wrong. both the ways are threatening only.
making suicide threat is fine but a ghost in a bed is wrong?😆. dude he is a ghost not a human. would it have been perfectly fine if the ghost was a girl?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: afreenaamna


Her role is not over yet.. They shot a fb too!! A new character came when she was leaving Vyom..its the timing of her entry which have a huge impact.

But that did not make much of an impact... Sharanya decided otherwise...if that's what it was only meant to...then Shiv would not have any medium to elucidate his story...I think she's the one who would intervene into the marriage.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: spnfan


dont you think its psychotic to commit suicide if the girl rejects a guy? also the way he hit his head against the wall just to make sharanya's family talk is also something a normal level headed guy will never do. the guy never try to under shranaya and claims to love her. she was in coma for 2 years and dont remember anything from her past but instead of giving her some space he is forcing himself on her emotionally. also the way he took her from odhini was nowhere near normal. he told her on her face he is capable of doing zabardasti.
shiv is a ghost and if you are familiar with ghost movies its a very common thing to show ghosts invading personal space. its just to increase the spookiness and horror. he is a ghost neither he can sleep nor he can sexually assault her. also in all the ghost movies whether the ghost is good or bad they will scare the shit out of people at the start. its simply because movies are shown through the human eye and not through the ghost. they might be simply trying to communicate with the humans but since they are invisible it is scary for the humans.

This is just him attempting suicide... If he actually dies the whole world would blame Sharanya for his death and treat her like a b*%$h only for that reason😡

Yes, they will hold her and only her responsible because according to someone in the forum, normal people don't believe in ghosts right? so obviously they will call her heartless and what not because no one will be ready to believe that she was doing it to protect him from a ghost😡

He claims to love her but wants to end up hurting her by giving her a psychological scar where she would keep blaming herself for the rest of her life over his death? That sure is called true love right?!👏

Aisa lover/friend toh dushman ko bhi na mile... who needs enemies when you have friends and lovers like these two deewaanas right?😆

Vyom can be anything but aadarshwaadi and sanskaari, because the show's name is ek deewaana tha so why is Shiv expected to be a complete sanskaari angel even though he is clearly a vengeful spirit here??😲


Edited by Rein123 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: spnfan


there is something called giving personal space and respecting someone's decision. vyom lacks both. he could have given her time to clear her head and if he was confident abt how she felt for him then there is no reason to force her to stay. she would have come back to him if she really loved him. he is making sure that before she gets her memory back he needs to make her his. she is an adult and is perfectly capable of making her own decisions and she decided to leave him. this reason is more than enough for vyom to let her go. suicide is suicidedear. either way heis gonna end up dead of thingsgo wrong. both theways are threateningonly.

making suicide threat is fine but a ghost in a bed is wrong?😆. dude he is a ghost not a human. would it have been perfectly fine if the ghost was a girl?


The first two lines were valid if the girl had memory and still decides to stay away from him.. But here despite of having no memory it doesn't looks like she wants to stay away from him.. She is forced to stay away FORCED! if he would have did what you wanted then dude I would have been bored..I Am happy the way he is.. This is exactly what I wanted for vyom! It's not the beginning of their lovestory it's 5 yrs later..
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Posted: 8 years ago
#35
@Rein you know what's funny..what you wrote for vyom is exactly what I feel about shiv..aisa lover koi dushman ko bhi na de
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Posted: 8 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: afreenaamna


The first two lines were valid if the girl had memory and still decides to stay away from him.. But here despite of having no memory it doesn't looks like she wants to stay away from him.. She is forced to stay away FORCED! if he would have did what you wanted then dude I would have been bored..I Am happy the way he is.. This is exactly what I wanted for vyom! It's not the beginning of their lovestory it's 5 yrs later..


right niw she is not madly in love with him or anything. she might have feelings for him but not strong enough that she wont be able to live without him. from her information he was the guy who she was in love with and stayed with her when she was in a coma. so its natural to have a soft spot for him. esp when her family is head over heels in love with him. it doesnt matter on what basis she wanted to leave him she made a decision and he should have respected it. her decision was to stay away from him not to marry another guy or sacrifice her life for vyom's safety. the decision is more valid since she had a memory loss and dont remember having a relation with vyom. she needs time to clear her head and decide what she exactly wants and as someone who claimes to love her vyom should respect that and give her some space.
also its still not clear whether sharanya and vyom had a love story to start with. all the flashbacks are from vyom's pov. also from the recent released pics and hints there are more chances that she was in love with shiv and not vyom.
Edited by spnfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#37
A guy's, girl friend losses her memory..you don't leave her alone! It's that make her fall back in love with you phase of lovestory which we see in other shows too..i don't get it why people are expecting vyom to leave her or give her space specially when she have lost her memory. She lost her memory not vyom..if he leave her alone now then forget about Deewaana I can't even call him an average lover.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: afreenaamna

A guy's, girl friend losses her memory..you don't leave her alone! It's that make her fall back in love with you phase of lovestory which we see in other shows too..i don't get it why people are expecting vyom to leave her or give her space specially when she have lost her memory. She lost her memory not vyom..if he leave her alone now then forget about Deewaana I can't even call him an average lover.


she only lost memory of 5 years. she is perfectly capable of making decisions and looking after herself. also as i told you its still not clear whether sharanya was in love with vyom or not. just because he loves her unconditionally doesnt mean he needs to act like a pyscho. a person who loves someone unconditionally is perfectly capable of respecting that person's decisions and personal space. vyom is more like an obsessive person than a lover. it seems he is making it sure that sharanya become his before she gains her memory back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: spnfan


she only lost memory of 5 years. she is perfectly capable of making decisions and looking after herself. also as i told you its still not clear whether sharanya was in love with vyom or not. just because he loves her unconditionally doesnt mean he needs to act like a pyscho. a person who loves someone unconditionally is perfectly capable of respecting that person's decisions and personal space. vyom is more like an obsessive person than a lover. it seems he is making it sure that sharanya become his before she gains her memory back.


Those 5 years are those years of Vyom's existence in her life so no the decision she makes is not valid..she lost her memory not vyom! He is suppose to fulfill the promises they made to each other not run away in opposite direction coz she is being rude. The poor girl has no memory for god sake, how is she suppose to react and vyom like a true lover will always be by her side even if he have to keep his self-respect aside and I am proud of it.. It's only coz there is ghost existence in this equation she have to leave vyom.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: afreenaamna


Those 5 years are those years of Vyom's existence in her life so no the decision she makes is not valid..she lost her memory not vyom! He is suppose to fulfill the promises they made to each other not run away in opposite direction coz she is being rude. The poor girl has no memory for god sake, how is she suppose to react and vyom like a true lover will always be by her side even if he have to keep his self-respect aside and I am proud of it.. It's only coz there is ghost existence in this equation she have to leave vyom.

the girl dont remember his existence in her life. for her he is a stranger who claims to be her bf. there is no proof that he is her bf to start with. everyone believes he is her bf just because he said so. he needs to understand that instead of shoving himself on her throat. she is an adult and every decision she makes is valid. just because her decisions makes vyom sad doesnt mean her decisions are invalid. she has every rigjt to decide whether she wants to be with a person or not.

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