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Posted: 11 years ago
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We have been debating on whether Tara is justified in the stand that she took that night. Whether she was right or not to go on a revenge mode.

So for those who did not think that she was justified in her act today they were in for a surprise . Tara is not out to take revenge blindly but to seek justice for what was done wrong to her. The way she tells herself that more that MJ she is hurt by hurting him shows that she is not totally blinded by anger. She really wants to find out which one is the real MJ . The beast who tortured her or the savior who rescued her. You now cannot real fault Tara as her intentions too like MJ are noble.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I like the whole reversal of the "power" here. Tbh, the current track annoyed me. So I chose to well, let the episodes pile up, and boy that was a good decision. But the point lies in the fact, that MJ limited to making her stay away. He threathened her, but this lady till now destroyed the most important thing out there to him. I don't remember MJay affecting things that held sentimental value towards her. Frankly in simple terms, he used her own mindset against her.

She chose to believe what she heard about him, she chose to judge him based on the "facts" she heard whilst she was eavesdropping. And he used that against her, 'to keep her away'.

I'm fine will the whole revenge bull, later justified as I-wanna-know-the-real him. Sure go ahead, know him, save him, go skinny dipping into the sunset. I mean, I was giggling through the whole of 13th November episode, and predicting her rant (12th November). . until she goes and destroys his dark room. Woman, that is cruel. Plain cruel. You play along with his psychology, sure. But do not destroy stuff. And she has her answer. If he was the Jaanwar he would have manhandled her right there and then. Not close his eyes and mentally be like, "Woman, you are testing my patience, get away before I do something I'd regret later."

Shit, happens but there's a limit between fun and not-fun. I mean, no photocopying those pictures don't mean shit. Those had value. The duplicates don't. It's like any certificate. You have the original and you have a xerox. The xerox may be physically present there but it hold no value. No one will accept a xerox unless you true copy it and that needs the original which this mahan woman has destroyed.

Mriyunjays reaction was something like, you've destroyed the important stuff. I'll help you destroy what you've left behind.


It was a good track. Teach him a lesson and what not, Tara has her answers right in front of her. She just needs to stop her so called revenge which is revenge which she is desperately trying to convince herself as trying to find the actual guy. Cause if she analyses the incident, like the dark room one. She has her answers. But the woman wants revenge. She wants to play around with him. Bottom line, it is a good track but the dark room incident ruins it. I feel so. And disclaimer: this is my opinion, so I donot appreciate anyone ganging up on me like the previous incident. 🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have seen your frustrations and its totally understandable. I probably would have done the same and let the episodes pile up but I feel this show is refreshing. I like the casting and the story is really fresh. There is a lot of experimenting with story line here and I also like that they have packaged it well. Ya there are going to be some parts where I probably don;t disagree but I am ready to take the ride as I feel this is far superior that a lot of shows that is out there.

When she went of the rant I too was like what's wrong. However somewhere I feel because all the odds are stacked against MJ and you know all of them are out to get him your heart does get pulled alot more towards him . Not just that Tara did put her self in this situation unlike MJ who was forced to accept this relationship.

I agree that his intentions were for her to stay away but she too was not at fault. What is her fault when Meethi was the one who spread the rumor or her bangle got stolen . He too choose to go based on "facts" and to the hardluck of these two the facts just kept surfacing. His scare tactics were extreme whether it be trying to rape or burn her hand or push from the mountain . The pictures were sentimental from a memory point of view but l would surely call this actions towards her as a "the sentimental bodily wound," . She, the person is all she has and hence he did strike at the only thing that she cared about ..Also if he had really done some irreparable damage to her then what. Over here agreed his hardwork went down the drain but its not like he cannot redo atleast some of them again.

I was thinking exactly the same thing when i watched the dark room scene. if he really was a monster he would have just charged back and hurt her . When she was taunting him you could see it took all his strength to not do anything against her. I just loved the way he controlled his anger despite him losing the things that were close to his heart. As she did not destroy all the stuff i think we should give her a lifeline to lean on. Atleast she realizes that he is being good whether it be for the right or wrong reasons. As long as she connects the dots soon I am ok for a little bit of the vengance. Everyone gets angry and so did she. Its just that she needs to get out that mode fast and learn from the clues thrown her way that MJ actually is her friend.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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But how exactly her hurting him and ruining his things, her finding out the real him? It doesn't make any sense.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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To be honest I would say she was justified in her behavior if she was willing to give the man a fair chance.. irrespective of what he does whether it be him controlling his temper or taking the blame for her actions in front of his father she is prepared to think the worst of him... I can comprehend her state of mind and feel bad for both her and MJ but I want her to look at each situation separately and try to figure out why the man who saved a stranger is refusing to retaliate while she burns his memories and continues to silently torture him in-front of his family members.. they both regret their actions portraying their humanity yet I feel tara's judgement is clouded by his past actions and will continue to remain so until something drastic takes place..!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

But how exactly her hurting him and ruining his things, her finding out the real him? It doesn't make any sense.



I guess by seeing how long he will tolerate and be nice. She is going to test him upto his breaking point where by she will see whether he will revolt back. Don;t ask me how will she determine the breaking pointšŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

But how exactly her hurting him and ruining his things, her finding out the real him? It doesn't make any sense.



Why do I feel that she wants to make him pay for whatever he 'did to her', it's like she strives to do but but her morals don't really allow her to. So she calls it - knowing him. If she just analyses the situations at hand she has her answers but. .
Edited by AraBearxx - 11 years ago

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