Why MJ hates Tara so much.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Since MJ is so nice with rest of the world even the horsey gets its fair share of affection(well , it gets the mostšŸ˜‰ ), I was compelled to think why he hates/loathes his wife so much.

After thinking real hard , I have come up with following reasons

  1. First this marriage is forced on him, I know if he didn't want to he shouldn't have married in first place.But as we all know he got married just for the sake of his baba.so, as is human nature , you tend to hate anything, tend to find faults deliberately on things forced on you. That is exactly the case with MJ.
  2. We all know radha chic is haunting him since the start and most of us (D, except u) believe that she was the love of his lonely life and having being forced to give that special place to some one else makes him even more angry.
  3. He thinks she is a gold digger because why would any girl marry some one who is accused of rape and murder and is serving in jail.more minus points for wifey .
  4. To add to wifey's negative points, he has found that she is a liar and is spreading false news to every one which has p* his dear and lovely ma . ohh dear , that was the most unpardonable offence.

Having justified his reasons for hating wifey with vengeance , I am totally against the man handling and domestic violence which he so freely unleashes on her.
This needs to be stopped with immediate effect , this is cruel,gruesome , inhumane and totally unacceptable.
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Gaurishah thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Saba Agree with all the four points you have mentioned dear. MJ has totally given up on his life he only got married for his baba's happiness probably his baba has been the only one who has loved him all these years and believed in him.
He seems to turn into an animal whenever he has to confront Tara. He just wants her to be far away from him, not to meddle with his things, not to interfere in his life. You have rightly said that he thinks of her as a gold digger, liar and dishonest person. No one in their right minds would want to marry some one accused of rape and murder. The way he vents out his anger and frustration on Tara, if anyone else in Tara's place would have sprouted two more legs and run for their life never looking back. The manhandling part is a total no no they should just put a stop showing that.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Saba...well summarized...LOL except me! ...šŸ˜†...

I totally agree with you this manhandling has to stop and does not have to go on and on...the hate is intense enough from Tara's side, for her now he is no less than a criminal...the CVs need to put an end to this physical abuse. The verbal spates and angst can go on...

Also what I did not like is after the manhandling there is no trace of the marks or pain the next day or later when she has met the stranger! This does not make the pain to be very realistic!

I hope tomorrow he notices...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Maybe it also because the life in prison has brutalized him. The life in a prison is very different to what we are used to: is tough and cruel. There are many cases of people who were imprisoned for minor crimes and when they were released they've started to commit "real" crimes. It is a system that changes a person for the better or for the worst.
For sure MJ is not the same person that he was before. The life in prison, the allegations, the way his family and society treat him now changed him a lot , but the "real" him seems to come out every time that a person is in danger. It's a natural feeling that he can't totally control it.
In different circumstances he would not have treated Tara the way he does now even if she had been a gold digger.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gaurishah

@Saba Agree with all the four points you have mentioned dear. MJ has totally given up on his life he only got married for his baba's happiness probably his baba has been the only one who has loved him all these years and believed in him.

He seems to turn into an animal whenever he has to confront Tara. He just wants her to be far away from him, not to meddle with his things, not to interfere in his life. You have rightly said that he thinks of her as a gold digger, liar and dishonest person. No one in their right minds would want to marry some one accused of rape and murder. The way he vents out his anger and frustration on Tara, if anyone else in Tara's place would have sprouted two more legs and run for their life never looking back. The manhandling part is a total no no they should just put a stop showing that.

Thanks Gauri šŸ¤—
well , we have to agree that he has got valid points to hate her and be far far away from her and I am fine with his thinking but as you have said he has to stop treating her like a punching bag every single time.
And Tara ,she is only staying in that mansion only because it is a daily soap , in real world any girl in her place would have packed her bags much earlier and left the damned haveli long long back .

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ddFan2012

@Saba...well summarized...LOL except me! ...šŸ˜†...

I totally agree with you this manhandling has to stop and does not have to go on and on...the hate is intense enough from Tara's side, for her now he is no less than a criminal...the CVs need to put an end to this physical abuse. The verbal spates and angst can go on...

Also what I did not like is after the manhandling there is no trace of the marks or pain the next day or later when she has met the stranger! This does not make the pain to be very realistic!

I hope tomorrow he notices...


šŸ˜†šŸ˜† the stranger makes her forget all the pain šŸ˜‰šŸ˜†
I think he will definitely notice but it would take time , probably this would be one of those signs with which he will relate to his wife
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dia_F


Maybe it also because the life in prison has brutalized him. The life in a prison is very different to what we are used to: is tough and cruel. There are many cases of people who were imprisoned for minor crimes and when they were released they've started to commit "real" crimes. It is a system that changes a person for the better or for the worst.
For sure MJ is not the same person that he was before. The life in prison, the allegations, the way his family and society treat him now changed him a lot , but the "real" him seems to come out every time that a person is in danger. It's a natural feeling that he can't totally control it.
In different circumstances he would not have treated Tara the way he does now even if she had been a gold digger.

@bold: that is absolutely correct.
yup, his reflexes override his harshness when he is with the stranger girl.Well till now he has just saved her in various situations.Lets see how he actually interacts with her.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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quote to saba ...Thanks Gauri
well , we have to agree that he has got
valid points to hate her and be far far
away from her and I am fine with his
thinking but as you have said he has to
stop treating her like a punching bag
every single time.
And Tara ,she is only staying in that
mansion only because it is a daily soap , in
real world any girl in her place would have
packed her bags much earlier and left the
damned haveli long long back ...no saba..i have seen too many women who bears domestic viollence daily..but at very next day they smile like that nothing is happened..atleast in india woman becomes pet of her husband..there is no option for them na
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _SONA_

no saba..i have seen too many women who bears domestic viollence daily..but at very next day they smile like that nothing is happened..atleast in india woman becomes pet of her husband..there is no option for them na

Sadly true
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sabaSpeaks

@bold: that is absolutely correct.
yup, his reflexes override his harshness when he is with the stranger girl.Well till now he has just saved her in various situations.Lets see how he actually interacts with her.



Agree with you both the real personality of MJ shines out in his shack. That is the real him. And Tara too is being herself there. Fun, naughty, the Bhai of Bhopal kind of girl. We have to give credit to the CVs for bringing in a very innovative way the different side of the same person.


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