Originally posted by: victorias
i did not understand why arjun married radhika? . he could easily persuade sam . why did he wreck his own plans for revenge and got married . can any one tell me?
Why marry Radhika?!
Hahaa, the truth or dare marriage! I was like WTH is happening here?!
I think the best way to understand what was going on in Arjun's mind is to think back to the "dulha bhaag gaya" scene, where Arjun disappears from the wedding stage.
On wedding day, as Arjun arrived looking the part of a perfect dulha, did you guys see his expressions - he was getting cold feet - he did not look like a guy who was ready to be married to Sam. Arjun kept thinking of Radhika and all her words to him. Then when he saw Sam walking towards him, he freaked out, and just ran away from the stage / mandap. As he went to recollect his thoughts in a corner somewhere, there he was further convoluted with thoughts regarding Radhika.
Next we have the Saral beat-down, and Arjun telling Radz to just go away from all this mess. Before he beat up Saral, his mind kept replaying moments where she tells him of her completely trust / faith in him. And after he saves her respect etc and advises her to not waste her life on an undeserving friendship, Radhika takes back everything she had ever said about trust and faith, and guts him further in the heart by calling him pure evil (because of Nandini's lie). Of course she was trying to get a reaction from him so he would realize how wrong he is and to spill the beans to Sam. But in all this mess, he was so upset, angry and confused that he decided to call her bluff, just to one up her. Like a battle of egos.
The thing is he knew she wouldn't back out - how many times in the past had she backed down!?! None! So how was this different? And yes he started the wedding as an ego thing - but he could have stopped it anytime, except he didn't. Remember when I said for Arjun, it was always a turn-on that Radhika would always be giving him a good fight by matching her wits and ego. This was nothing different. Partly, it was ego but subconsciously he also did not want to let her go completely. And so he went with along with it, much to Nandu's long face, LOL.
Radhika on the other hand had no clue she would end up getting married to him, lol. I don't think she realized in that moment she had it in her to completely match Arjun's ego and wits! Hence her conversation with her mother was so different the following morning, as compared to Arjun's convo with his sister. And then when he came to pick her up and play the part of the doting husband, he was just natural at it like that is what he wanted to happen. He carrying her to the car and talking about Savitri ... that was all Arjun being himself.