My simple points. Samrat is shown as a man who has zero respect for his wife and has hurt her physically, mentally and emotionally. He has hurt other women like Trisha, Kanchan, Anu and Aditi mentally and emotionally. I wanted Samrat to experience the same as these women felt and be in their shoes. If Samrat had beaten up Diwakar I would have not said that he be treated like a woman. Simple as that. Samrat is shown to think that a woman is inferior and a 2nd class citizen. I wanted Samrat to be in that position. If you understood this differently, I cannot control that.
I found Shashi stating Urmi may have deserved the beating quite sickening and that was my reaction towards her. Most people would react harshly towards Shashi, as being a woman she was insulting an another woman. Again, please feel free to take it literally if that's how you see it. I don't think there are mad elephants running on the streets that are programmed to go after Shashi because I said it.