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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ Purva

My simple points. Samrat is shown as a man who has zero respect for his wife and has hurt her physically, mentally and emotionally. He has hurt other women like Trisha, Kanchan, Anu and Aditi mentally and emotionally. I wanted Samrat to experience the same as these women felt and be in their shoes. If Samrat had beaten up Diwakar I would have not said that he be treated like a woman. Simple as that. Samrat is shown to think that a woman is inferior and a 2nd class citizen. I wanted Samrat to be in that position. If you understood this differently, I cannot control that.

I found Shashi stating Urmi may have deserved the beating quite sickening and that was my reaction towards her. Most people would react harshly towards Shashi, as being a woman she was insulting an another woman. Again, please feel free to take it literally if that's how you see it. I don't think there are mad elephants running on the streets that are programmed to go after Shashi because I said it.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just cant explain in words what i felt that time 😭specially in second epi when her in laws were trying to make her conscious she was shouting "Samrat ji hme mat mariye"🤢😕
That was really horrifying
I got scared seeing her state... I had tears in my eyes😭
No girl deserves this harsh treatment
Samrat is someone No matter what happenes can never realise worth of their wife ...He is beast not a human ...😡😡😡
Urmi should leave the house Its not about her rights on the home or something else But that place will give her horrifyng memories and above all there will be people to taunt her and Samrat can easily attack her there...
please CVs punish Samrat and give a good msg to society that such cruel acts are not acceptable in any case😕😕
If urmi's dad and grandma are against her She must lead her life independently
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: suresh555

@ Purva

My simple points. Samrat is shown as a man who has zero respect for his wife and has hurt her physically, mentally and emotionally. He has hurt other women like Trisha, Kanchan, Anu and Aditi mentally and emotionally. I wanted Samrat to experience the same as these women felt and be in their shoes. If Samrat had beaten up Diwakar I would have not said that he be treated like a woman. Simple as that. Samrat is shown to think that a woman is inferior and a 2nd class citizen. I wanted Samrat to be in that position. If you understood this differently, I cannot control that.

I found Shashi stating Urmi may have deserved the beating quite sickening and that was my reaction towards her. Most people would react harshly towards Shashi, as being a woman she was insulting an another woman. Again, please feel free to take it literally if that's how you see it. I don't think there are mad elephants running on the streets that are programmed to go after Shashi because I said it.





I would like to say you have a very creative imagination regarding shashi 😆 I couldn't help but laugh lmao ...I am so sure you did not mean it literally but as you notice this is a very sensitive and emotional topic for many so not everyone would appreciate the light humor you attempted at this moment. I seriously do hope the CVs have a good way to open shashi eyes...I couldn't agree more when you said that people will react harshly to shashi as being a women she thinks urmi deserved it. I was even appalled that urmi's granny and father asked her to withdraw her complaint. I hope she does not do that anytime soon!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: naina2010

It's horrifying to watch it, I told many times that people like samrat can never change, when Urmi had all chances she never showed any courage, but now there is a deeper scar in her life which she will not forget until her death. I don't know what cvs will show, these two couple or not love birds, don't tie them for sake of silly requests like turn positive , handsome hot hunk , my foot.

Beauty is skin deep, it's inner personality not the outer figure. Urmi can file complaint on samrat and send him to jail, and file for divorce and get off that evil bas***d.



Thanks for commenting. I honestly think she needs to leave. There is no point in staying with him. She should take her child and create a new life for herself and for her child. There is no need for her to stay in this abusive relationship.

Riya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pookhi

Today's episode was-I don't have words..so sad and terrifying at the same time.😭 I actually got tears in my eyes seeing the precap.😭
Drunk or not I do not care- No man should beat his wife up that way.
Not only is he not a good husband but he's also a terrible human.
This matter is HUGE and I don't think Urmi and Samrat should ever get together again. What Samrat did to Urmi is unforgivable. He should be hanged to death for what he did!



I agree with you! I was so shaken after watching the episode. He has scarred Urmi for life. What he did is unforgivable, but he doesn't get punished and that infuriates me! There is nothing the CV's can do to justify Samrat not going to jail. However, I understand what they are trying to show is reality. Many women take their cases back or never tell the police to get their husbands punished. That needs to change as soon as possible. No woman should tolerate such abuse!

Riya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dumas

TODAY EPISODE WAS TERRIBLE I CAN'T STOP HEARING THE SCREAMS EITHER AND THEY SHOULD NOT SHOW HER STAYING WITH HIM SHE NEEDS TO LEAVE HIM BUT MAKE SURE HE GET PUNISHED FIRST



I felt the same way! I was traumatized till I saw the episode on Monday or Tuesday in which they show Samrat going to jail. When he was taken away by the police I was truly happy!

Riya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaila123

Hey, I agree this is total garbage! When you show stuff like this you are encouraging this junk.We have to teach our sons to respect women.I want Samrat to get punished to the fullest extent, hope he gets dumped by his wife,he loses all his money,and he gets an incurable disease from one of the hoes he sees on the side.



That is exactly what I wished upon him when I saw the episode. I hate men who think they can take advantage of people who are not their size. I don't condone any type of violence, but I hate when people take advantage of their strength!

Riya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -WhatSoEver-

I am more amazed to see a modern girl like Urmi who was suppose to be a strong character is shown as a doormat and dumbest one ever!



I agree, I am amazed. However, I think what this goes to show is that even the strongest and most modern women can be victims of abuse!

Riya
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenoopul

Hello friends,

Watched this epi & hubby was around- we have a 3 year old son too- we were both traumatized!!!!The way he carried the little one downstairs showed premeditation of his evil intentions! Urmi should stop listening to that Tauji and just move away from this house with her son- she needs to find a job and stand on her feet- to hell with Society or Parents...where were these when she was being severely beaten by this Raakshass??? Samrat at must not be left off the hook so easily- he has to go to jail!!!All my sympathy for all those women out there who are victims of domestic violence around the world



I couldn't even watch the whole scene. I just kind of skipped over it because it was too hard to watch. I truly feel sorry for women who deal with this. I wish I could help all women who deal with such situations.

Urmi should move out! She needs to stop worrying about others and start worrying about herself and her needs. She needs to realize that her family- her father and grandmother only care for their so called respect and not her. She needs to break off her relationship with the people bringing her down. She also needs to realize that people like Samrat never change and that he should be punished for his crimes and his place is in jail.

Riya

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