Traumatized After Today's Episode!? - Page 2

Originally posted by: edabella

I am surprised at the risks the CV's are takin' w/this show. In this show, the main villian of it, is the main heroine's husband of all people 😕 & there isn't much romance on this show at all which is one of the main reasons as to why it's not my type of show. It lacks romance. Maybe if Samrat improved we would be seeing more romance on the show but he ain't improving.

Originally posted by: -Purva-

Umm sorry but Romance - seriously? This is what is wrong with this generation - they let their hormones do the work of brains. I hope you do realize that you were watching and commenting on an issue like Domestic Violence. Get past the face girl and open your eyes - anyways have seen too many little girls demand romance, ooh and aah over an abusive boyfriend/husband because he is "oh so macho/possessive" etc. and then one day wind up broken to pieces.

I want Samrat killed or imprisoned in a cell full of strong men who treat him like a woman. I They must get Ishaan back for Urmi. I am disappointed even with Tauji who rather than give bhashans to Urmi should have squashed his psycho nephew into a blender.Lets see what he does when the rat boy returns.

I would like Shashi to be stomped under a mad elephant and break her arms and legs. She can then become more useful begging on the streets rather than creating problems at home

Originally posted by: edabella

U are misunderstanding me. I know what it's like to live in a household w/domestic violence. I was abused growing up. It was so bad that I felt more safe at school than at home & my dad used to physically abuse my mom. What I mentioned in the previous post is just the type of Indian serials I am into watchin'. I am quite picky when it comes to Indian serials. Like I prefer moderate ones that have a good chunk of everything- humor, romance, seriousness, & sorrow & have a good storyline, that is quite cliche-free, & in which I like the main couple (s) on the show. Anyways, I am in my late twenties so I am not a little girl. Back to my parents, my dad was never as bad as Samrat but he did change for the better. Now, he usually doesn't raise a hand on anyone in the family.

I pretty much know what type of guy I would like to marry & for me it's not just about if he's romantic & good looking. Ya, like a lot of women, I would like my future hubby to have these qualities but having just these qualities is definately not enough for me. He needs to be warm hearted, respect me, my family, & friends & not be one to feel like resorting to violence quite a bit of the time when it comes to disciplining children, & I would like to not be married to a very serious person. I'd like be with someone who makes me laugh, supports me, who's honest, trusting, not lazy, & who consoles me when I am feeling down.

Originally posted by: -Purva-

@ Violet So what according to you is the definition of "treat (him) like a woman" - are you suggesting r@pe? That would be just about the right way to treat a woman isn't it?

@ RED Let me get this right - you want redress violence against one woman by even more brutal violence against another?

In one single post you have suggested that sexual assault, physical maiming and a life of begging are the right ways to treat women. Way to go - any more brilliant suggestions or are you done exposing all your violent and patriarchal misogynistic ideas?

You know what I'm sick and tired of men who seem to think that they are supporting a life of dignity for women and spout such drivel to show off more of their misogynistic ideas. Get your thoughts right and probably we would see less of violence against women

Hey Hey wait a minute before you jump to conclusions. Are you not assuming my thinking to be a certain way because I am a man? If you took some time and (re)search my posts on this forum, you will find my posts supporting women's rights and 100 % respect for a woman, Why would you not have concluded my quotes about Samrat as that he be treated EXACTLY like he treated Urmi, by the prisoners? He treated Urmi very disgustingly from mental, physical and emotional point of view and thats what I wanted Samrat to experience so he knows how it feels. So, please before you make conclusions about men, stop and think that not all men or women are evil and neither all men and women are saints. I had no intentions of disrespecting a woman ever and in fact I am one of those men who will not stand a woman being treated badly.

Oh and about Shashi, It was my sense of humour with an intention to punish her for not showing any respect to Urmi ( a woman) and being disgustingly cruel to Urmi (a woman) by saying she may have deserved the beating she got. Again, your assumption was to think about how a typical man thinks. You did not see my disgust about Shashi's treatment towards a woman but saw my fantasy punishment towards Shashi and felt offended.

Anyways, though I did not need to defend myself to you, I am doing that so you don't jump to conclusions again

Originally posted by: suresh555