What Do you think Urmi.....

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Posted: 11 years ago
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What do you think Urmi should do, but look deep within when answering?

I opened this discussion because I would truly like to know how others feel, and maybe our posts can help someone who is going through this. Also, the cvs could read our posts and truly see how we feel and the direction we want the show to go in that will be positive for everyone.

I have never been in Urmi's position, but I know I could not have taken Samrat for so long and at this point finding the strength I want her to stick to that and never go back to that house.

The abortion issue I really have two opinions. I think abortion should not be taken lightly, as it is killing a possible life and for some it may be a personal opinion of morality etc. others may just be looking at the logical side.Logically I would say abortion.
My other opinion is that if she does not have the abortion, she can raise this child on her own. Maybe she can let the courts help her to get full custody of the child, based on the abuse she endured in the marriage. I don't truly know her options legally, but I would like to know that either way she will have some rights to live her life the way she pleases without going back to that Monster Samrat.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: dumppurvi


What do you think Urmi should do, but look deep within when answering?

I opened this discussion because I would truly like to know how others feel, and maybe our posts can help someone who is going through this. Also, the cvs could read our posts and truly see how we feel and the direction we want the show to go in that will be positive for everyone.

I have never been in Urmi's position, but I know I could not have taken Samrat for so long and at this point finding the strength I want her to stick to that and never go back to that house.

The abortion issue I really have two opinions. I think abortion should not be taken lightly, as it is killing a possible life and for some it may be a personal opinion of morality etc. others may just be looking at the logical side.Logically I would say abortion.
My other opinion is that if she does not have the abortion, she can raise this child on her own. Maybe she can let the courts help her to get full custody of the child, based on the abuse she endured in the marriage. I don't truly know her options legally, but I would like to know that either way she will have some rights to live her life the way she pleases without going back to that Monster Samrat.


i think abortion of baby is not really correct here which means killing an innoccent baby ..

in my opinion she should give her baby to someone else maybe gaurav and rashmi ..😲

as i really dont want that samrat to ruin his and her baby ...

and i think as this show has taken place of punar vivah ...they will definately show a remarriage of ishaan and urmi like pardes...cvs of sbb also said this ..that it willl be coming twist ...⭐️😆😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Samrat urmi are lead pair story revolves arnd them nd this is not a typical unrealisric drama..nd sorry but urmi doesnt need another man nd specially that ishaan..she can be on her own..nd wat segu talking abt I donno but must be a speculation..this is a real drama..as of nw I just want to see samue confrontation nd urmi shud fight him alone not with nybody..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I love the idea of giving the baby to Gaurav and Rashmi (not sure how much of a road block Samrat will be in achieving this). I think if the baby is a girl, Samrat and his mother may have no objection.

I definitely would not want to see Urmi with Samrat even if he reforms and becomes a saint, imagine Saint Samrat Singh Rathod 😆

I seriously do not see a problem if Ishaan and Urmi happened. Urmi had a dream of a happy marriage with a partner that loves her. Ishaan has all the qualities that Urmi and her parents were looking for. Just because Ishaan was Samrat's friend once upon a time (which he no longer is) would be a stupid reason why two people that can make eachother happy, should be stopped. Some may argue that Urmi does not need a man and can make her life as a strong independent woman, but to me, it's like why should one be alone in life if there is a chance of happiness? Urmi should not have to alter her dreams just because of one bad experience.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kabeerrachna



i think abortion of baby is not really correct here which means killing an innoccent baby ..

in my opinion she should give her baby to someone else maybe gaurav and rashmi ..😲

as i really dont want that samrat to ruin his and her baby ...

and i think as this show has taken place of punar vivah ...they will definately show a remarriage of ishaan and urmi like pardes...cvs of sbb also said this ..that it willl be coming twist ...⭐️😆😛



Was thinking the same, give the baby to Gaurav and Rashmi, Rashmi's eyes will then be opened to Samrat's rattiness, baby will remain within the family and will have loving parents.
Is Urmi qualified enough to get a job? Would be good if she moves in with Trisha tho Trisha bugs me at times. That girl is headed down the garden path as well with that other loser :(
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Posted: 11 years ago
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To the idea that Urmi should give away the baby, Samrat will never let Urmi give that child to anyone else. Urmi won't be able to prove anything.

Samrat slapped her in front of only his family. They would not admit to it. Even of they do testify to the slap, I'm not so sure Samrat's rights would be taken away.

Urmi in this case was not happy about the pregnancy. Even when Dilwakar commented earlier about her too becoming a mother, she wasn't keen to the idea at all.

Her right to her descion is wanting to abort should not have been taken away from her.

Edited by likarsh - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very nice post.
My opinion honestly is that Urmi should abort the child. I am personally don't agree to abort when a partner or the person him / herself is happy with it. But in this case Urmi has many problems, the foremost and important is her life partner itself is complete spoilt.

As a women I personal feel that a child needs both parents love, not just one. I feel child will be able to tell what they miss, I am not saying mother cannot take care of child, I am saying in the nature a new born child needs both father and mother.

And I don't see abortion is crime or killing. It is 100 times better to not bring the child into this world for our own egos and pleasures and society pressures, than to bring them the new life into this world and make them suffer.

Coming to giving the baby to Gaurav and Rashmi I don't like it and i know Urmi herself will not be happy to do it. Urmi last happiness will also be shattered. Her life itself is in such a pain and she can definitely not be able to take any more beyond this , and samrat like men are like leeches in the society, he will make her life hell after this.

I want Urmi to abort the child, and show samrat that she can still choose as a women what she wants and show to him that woman is stronger and can look for happiness and restart her life . She too can remarry and find her best partner and be happy.

If a first marriage has turned out to be hell it does not break her , she has right to remarry the person she likes to be with and lead a respectable life in this world.

I also would like to see Ishaan in Urmi life back after rats divorce.

Edited by naina2010 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Why should Urmi be expected to carry her pregnancy to term and give away the child when she wanted to abort? It's not as if she were conflicted. She was not happy at all and wanted to abort the pregnancy. Her wishes and rights are being totally ignored.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think you all have valid points. These matters are so subjective and yet one can relate to the varying opinions.
At the end of the day I want Urmi and the baby to be happy if it means:

She aborts the baby

Don't abort and raise the child on her own, even though we know that will be extremely difficult, but many women have done it and is still doing it
I guess it depends also on the strength of the woman and support system they have.
Then, some women originally don't even seem to have the strength , but they become strong and build character due to the situation. We know Urmi is really delicate, but then did we expect her to walk away from Samrat, especially so soon? So, maybe she does have the strength after all.

Initially, I did not want Urmi with Ishaan, because of the friendship but then the valid point that Ishaan and Samrat are no longer friends was stated, it has somewhat changed my mind. Urmi deserves an ideal partner and if faced with the choosing Ishaan, I guess it can't hurt. Who cares about Samrat anyway!!

Giving the baby to Gaurav and Rashmi is not a bad idea at all. Then as another post said, would Samrat make sure this does not happen.

Urmi is in a really tough situation and I can only hope this show is going in a logical direction. The overall idea is a good one for awareness and it allows us to talk about things women go through all over the world and many times things do not go our way. Women have to suffer so much.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Getting an abortion is not the solution as I do not believe the situation warrants it. The only time abortion should be looked at as a solution is if there are indications that child will be serioulsy deformed or maybe pregnancy was as a result of rape. So this is not the case here.

Unfortunately, at this stage it will take a miracle to make Samrat realise his faults. He is not only abusive to his wife but also to his parents and brother. He will continue to treat Urmi with contempt and once the baby is born, if it is girl, he will probably ignore the baby. Urmi is in a very difficult situation as she knows that life with samrat will be hell and the prenancy has complicated matters. It may have been better if she had slipped and fallen and as a result aborted the child.
I am curious as to where this story is heading. Ishaan will definitely be a better match for Urmi.

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