what are they showing..?!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just watched this show over this weekend.. So I don't have much rights to comment on it...
Just putting in my views..

In the name of women empowerment they are showing women getting harrased at home and in laws.. Be it the mom adjusting for her daughters happiness or the wife being tortured by the husband...

Cmon.. He is just a husband.. Not human god that urmi listens to him .. Eating food though she doesn't want to...

She can plainly refuse.. I don't think a woman needs to bow her head so much ..

What are they trying to show by a husband torturing his wife mentally..

I don't think woman shud b shown so weak.. She should stay strong... This is a wrong example for today's woman..!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know they r showing us how woman getting harrshed in home
but dear it is reallity they showing us truth
and they aware us through dis show
And the day vil come when urmi vil stand againts
her husband
so dear plz think positive 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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They are showing this abuse from the husband because it happens everywhere.

But I think the difference will be where the heroine of this show will stand up against this bullying and take her life back from a control freak who does treat her like a piece of property.

The idea I think of the CV's has always been to show that women of today will not stand for this kind of injustice and admit to their mistake and move on.

I know it has been awful to see what SamRAT has done so far but I think Urmi is awakening from her fantasy and realizing that she is not going to be quiet and take this Bull Crap anymore.

So soon you will see a stronger and more assertive Urmi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: manuluvpari

I know they r showing us how woman getting harrshed in home
but dear it is reallity they showing us truth
and they aware us through dis show
And the day vil come when urmi vil stand againts
her husband
so dear plz think positive 😃

I got it dear.. They try to show urmi rising against her husband.. But I feel this should not be shown this way.. Its not the reality.. I have never seen such a thing happening in an educated family.. I will straight away give my husband if he ever misbehave with me.. We are power.. We earn equally as our husbands.. We are as educated as they are.. We are never less important than anyone.. So rather than this kinda story they should show some better stuff..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Urmi needs the help of Aamir Khan on the show. How cool would that be to have him present a lesson to Urmis husband.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: stunninstar

I got it dear.. They try to show urmi rising against her husband.. But I feel this should not be shown this way.. Its not the reality.. I have never seen such a thing happening in an educated family.. I will straight away give my husband if he ever misbehave with me.. We are power.. We earn equally as our husbands.. We are as educated as they are.. We are never less important than anyone.. So rather than this kinda story they should show some better stuff..!!


I beg to disagree that educated women would not stay in these kind of relationships.

Women like the actress Halle Barry who is famous and has money and had options to leave stayed for along time in that abusive relationship.

Women with low self confidence and self esteem do stay and sometime leave and come back to abusers.

It is more Psychological than educational. Yes there are women who have strong foundation and understand their worth would not take this kind of Bull Crap from any man.

The main crux of this show is to show the abuse then show how a women of today will stand against it. And I think the CV's are showing that Urmi is slowly but surely
understanding that her husband is not right and not fair in his demands.

Many of us want a fast solution to this but in reality it does take time and courage to stand up and move on and admit that one has made a mistake and leave.

In this case Urmi's family will play a role in her decision and the famous saying will come up ... "What will the society say? "

Let us wait and see how strong Urmi is going to be against all the odds.

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