Love, trust and a mystery...!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ok, I understand why everyone is so upset over Antara saying Satya was right that Raghu would be angry and etc...and you also all think he is right to be angry with her and she should apologise...
But as majority of us here in the forum are women, I want to ask you all something:😳

Why should Antara apologise? she did nothing wrong. Just because you fall in love with someone does it stop you from going out and getting lifts from other people?...think about it. She had no way of knowing about the bad feelings between Satya and Rahgu - why? because the man she loves told her nothing. He stormed off in fact.

Then Satya, who she knows nothing about is there being polite. Anyone one of us would be polite back to someone like that because our upbringing demands it. She behaved rightly, politely and keeping to herself. He was pushy but as she knew nothing about R and S's history I'm guessing she gave in because deep down she is thinking 'they are like brothers' and we've all been there, wanting to get in the good books of the family our loved one belongs to...

Also where does Raghu come from saying he can't trust Antara? didn't he just the day before say that Antara meant the world to him? so now why is he saying this?...he more than anyone should know what Satya is like and Antara knows nothing...Did she kiss Satya, or went off because she wanted to get to know him properly?..Did she do something that told Raghu he cannot trust her at all?😲

I would have thought Raghu's alarm bell would have gone off the moment he heard the series of problem Antara and Satya faced on the road, he should have known Satya was playing games.

Because of all this, I am against Antara even apologising. Raghu should trust her because he loves her, just as she trusts him. If they don't trust one another than their love is weak (which I know isn't.) and someone slimy Satya will win.

So come on Raghu, believe in your love and your Miss Kaul. You know how she is and that she thinks of you day and night.

Coming to why Raghu doesn't trust, well it's because for the first time in his life something/someone belongs to him totally. Think about it, he has no one in his life. Antara is the only one he could claim as his own. Added to the fact Satya constantly needles him about how much he ows DM Raghu is naturally very possessive about Antara...she is the one thing he did not have to work for, nor owe to someone else's largess or given as reward. She chose him, Raghu, all by herself...But he should talk about all this to her, rather than letting little things get to him and making it big.

In his own words, complications turns into big serious problems...

Finally a little mystery...😆

In the beginning we saw Raghu's flashback, he was like a teenager when his mother died...then last week we saw DM's flashback of Raghu being a smaller child. What is going on? how old was he when his mother died...or did he actually work for DM before his mother died?...mystery!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice post..i totally agree with u.agar antara ki galti h toh raghu ki b barabar h as he told her nothing bout satya ...the crap
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankusanu

nice post..i totally agree with u.agar antara ki galti h toh raghu ki b barabar h as he told her nothing bout satya ...the crap


Being in love does not mean you can read minds!😆😆😉

This is a lesson for Raghu, he needs to speak up. I understand his past is painful and he wants to keep it from her but he needs to tell her so to avoid these situation again.

Can you imagine the crap Satya will tell her and she won't know any difference because the man she loves, raghu, is keeping her in the dark!

Come on, Raghu. I know you are all macho and keep things bottled in but now that you are in love you need to share this with the person who means the world to you!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i completely agree with you ... i really felt bad as Raghu said her so ...she is no way wrong in her behaviour ...why wd she apologize? Raghu have trust on ur love n ur misscall...isnt she ur whole world ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pampz

i completely agree with you ... i really felt bad as Raghu said her so ...she is no way wrong in her behaviour ...why wd she apologize? Raghu have trust on ur love n ur misscall...isnt she ur whole world ?


The more I think about it, the more it's his fear that was talking.

He loves Antara. She has become his whole world to him. Then Satya comes, and seems to being wooing her, and Raghu knows Satya hates him. He fears losing her (maybe he also feels at a disadvantage as well)...

But he is wrong to say he doesn't trust her...and that is why Antara should not apologise.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Serena.V

I totally agree with you


Thanks dear. The way everyone was going on I thought why is no one even seeing Antara's side of things?

Love does make one possessive which is why one should be careful because you can smother love before it can bloom into something wonderful.

I am making allowances for Raghu as I adore bad-boy-with-a-heart-of-gold-hero and I understand his past made him what he is today.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think neither Antara nor Raghu are to blame here. If I was in Antara's place and some guy like Satya was talking to me and looking at me like that, I would have told him off right then and there. I could tell from yesterday's episode that Antara wasn't comfortable with him, but I can understand why she didn't say anything---because he's Daya Mai's son and she knows Raghu respects her so much. Maybe she could have made this more prevalent today to Raghu, something along the lines of "if I'm rude to Satya, that'll only create a hindrance in our relationship."

I don't blame Raghu either. It's not that he doesn't believe her...he's just worried about her safety. I can understand why he can't really tell her about Satya's actions. How is he supposed to tell his girlfriend "My so called brother is lusting over you." Wouldn't that just make her feel embarrassed and uncomfortable? But he still tried his best today, yet Antara overlooked it.

Anywho, it's clear from the spoilers that they're moving on from this small argument. And stupid Satya's plans are all going in vain.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey dreamygal!! Awesome analysis of both the characters!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: imli123

I think neither Antara nor Raghu are to blame here. If I was in Antara's place and some guy like Satya was talking to me and looking at me like that, I would have told him off right then and there. I could tell from yesterday's episode that Antara wasn't comfortable with him, but I can understand why she didn't say anything---because he's Daya Mai's son and she knows Raghu respects her so much. Maybe she could have made this more prevalent today to Raghu, something along the lines of "if I'm rude to Satya, that'll only create a hindrance in our relationship."


I don't blame Raghu either. It's not that he doesn't believe her...he's just worried about her safety. I can understand why he can't really tell her about Satya's actions. How is he supposed to tell his girlfriend "My so called brother is lusting over you." Wouldn't that just make her feel embarrassed and uncomfortable? But he still tried his best today, yet Antara overlooked it.

Anywho, it's clear from the spoilers that they're moving on from this small argument. And stupid Satya's plans are all going in vain.


Off course neither are to blame here. But Antara should not apologise at all.

However, Antara being new to the place and therefore unware of the history between these two is more in the clear than Raghu.

I know men don't actually speak about what truly matters😆😆...but in this case Raghu should have been a bit more cool headed and gave her some facts. By the way, Raghu doesn't know Satya is lusting after Antu (we the audience know it, off course) but Raghu knows Satya of old, and guessing from the scenes shown so far Satya is spoilt rotten and used to getting his own way - this is why Raghu is not saying anything because it is going to make him sound petty and insecure as he has no concrete proof.

Yes Satya was being too creepy and almost in her face yesterday but again Antu's character comes into play - she is polite and totally unwary of her own beauty so would not think 'oh satya is looking at me because I'm beautiful and wants me therefore I should stay away from him' but more in like you said he is DM's son and I'm also guessing because he is the nearest thing to a brother to Raghu. More than anything this was the deciding factor as to why she kept quiet in the car. If you recall, she was worried DM, the closest thing to Raghu's Mum, would not accept her. Never once did she say or think these people don't matter as they are not blood related. So to cap it in a nutshell Antu thought she was going out wit her devar!!😆😆😉

Off course Raghu is worried...he worries for her the moment she steps out of her front door...who could forget the bodyguards?!😉😆😃...point is he should stop and think and express it clearly rather than being all macho and keeping mum.

But all in all this is leading to the major event that will stretch their love and trust in another way...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: punnubaby

Hey dreamygal!! Awesome analysis of both the characters!!


Hi dear,😊

No not much of analysis of character than a situation.

It just struck me wrong that a woman should apologise for something that in the face of it is not wrong. On top of that she is not being trusted by the person who loves her.

The deciding factor here is love. Will love make Antu apologise even though she has nothing to be sorry for (unless its for making him worry but we know she did not do it intentionally). And will Raghu apologise for not trusting her? she has made it clear he has won her over...

What would you do if in real life you are faced with this situation? 😃

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