raghu is digging his own grave.... - Page 2

Even aftet being stood up for a date and watching raghu having dinner with sumi, shivani actually lets him remove her earrings , looks at him in a pleading questioning manner why he did this and on top of that even feels happy raghu compliments her in the end. Not done. I dont appeciate a woman who has no self respect. I have no hopes for her now. She will never leave the house. Raghu will never get the space.

Originally posted by: jyoti06

Dhanya I hv been watching soap for 17-18 yrs too .. in fact even now watching 10 soaps at a time 😆and thats why I m also trying to see these characters more form a human angle ..

Just how u r trying to reason out Shivani's actions , I wish someday u also try to reason out Raghu's action too instead of always putting him under the hammer .. Raghu's reason going back to her is simple too if u really want to reason out ... its because he has hidden feelings for her and cant really leave her alone even if he processes his mind against it ...

if u just judge it as right and wrong when it comes to Raghu , then I can very well say Shivani dont really deserve a man who actually plays with her emotions and CVs should not unite them as well ...

Even i am trying to see from human pov...

I just don't get that why is it when i say something for shivani its automatically percieved as against raghu... seriously i can't figure out... can't a person discuss what he/ she relates to iin a show... i relate to shivani more n i feel she is more human of the two... n so i see the serial mostly as shivani's empathiser... n evdn so i haven't bashed raghu or called him names as is the case here vice versa... in fact i have always made posts on raghu when he does something good n relatable...

About bringing raghu under hammer its his actions only which is responsible for it... when shivsni keeps clingung on tto the hope which he himself gives her bec if his mixed signals , she is forcing himself on him... when raghu keeps on goung back on his own plans n words he has hidden feelings for her! In fact as far as i remember only a few including mysrlf here belueve that he loves her... n i still believe that he actually loves her... n he has this wied thought that only he cpuld hurt her...

Ofcourse shivani doesn't deserve a man like raghu... n raghu doesn't deserve a girl like shivani who loves him like anything...he is not used to such kind of love... just as shuvani isn't used to such kind of rejection... 😛 u could say that... what's right n what's wrong that i find in a serial is entirely my pov... i don't want anybody else to agree if they have a diff piv... what's the fun if all stares in the same direction...

Raghu did a bad thing to Shivani today.. left her with Karan when she was expecting to have dinner with him.. but this was equally hard for Raghu as well.. he had to literally talk himself into it... and walk away.. .. but he compounded it by eating dinner from Sumitra's hand and complementing her for it... it was very painful to watch Shivani's hurt look and the single tear rolling down her face.. ..(awesum acting by MS 👏)

No wonder Bela had that outburst..😕.. someone has to knock sense into Raghu's head.. 😕.. its true when she told Raghu that its better you send her out of the house in one go rather than hurting Shivani inch by inch.. 😕.. (and us viewers too 😆) ... But Sumitra cleverly diverted Bela's words by saying that Raghu was doing all this for Shivani's "good"...😡... (Sumi's unrepentant evilness is really admirable 😆 )

But Bela's words had worked and pierced Raghu's armour... 😉.. he quickly ran upstairs after his Babyji and tried to make up for the hurt by helping her with the earrings and complementing her about the red sari.. 😳.. loved the scene where each one was silently talking to the other through their thoughts.. 👏

Finally, the shocker.. Raghu discovered that Karan is secretly in love with Shivani 😲 (damn 🤔) .. now Mr. God will be doubly charged up to bring Karan-Shivani together 🤔 .. I hope Shivani soon finds out the truth and puts an end to this nonsense.. 😡

Originally posted by: dhakarn

Even i am trying to see from human pov...

I just don't get that why is it when i say something for shivani its automatically percieved as against raghu... seriously i can't figure out... can't a person discuss what he/ she relates to iin a show... i relate to shivani more n i feel she is more human of the two... n so i see the serial mostly as shivani's empathiser... n evdn so i haven't bashed raghu or called him names as is the case here vice versa... in fact i have always made posts on raghu when he does something good n relatable...

I thought u see it as RaShi fan .,.. but now that u cleared it that u see it as Shivani's empathiser , so I can uderstand your POV now .. but in my POV , if I was just a Shivani fan , I would never want her to go back to a man like Raghu either and would hv actually preferred someone else for her and not someone who keeps rejecting her ...but as RaShi fan I will definitely want them to end up together but only after Raghu not only realises his love but also makes up to her for all the heartbreaks 😳


About bringing raghu under hammer its his actions only which is responsible for it... when shivsni keeps clingung on tto the hope which he himself gives her bec if his mixed signals , she is forcing himself on him... when raghu keeps on goung back on his own plans n words he has hidden feelings for her! In fact as far as i remember only a few including mysrlf here belueve that he loves her... n i still believe that he actually loves her... n he has this wied thought that only he cpuld hurt her...

there is difference between loving her and hving hidden feelings for her ... feelings dont necessarily mean love ... and I always said Raghu has feelings for her not exactly love and I still maintain the same ...

Also there is no second thoughts that Shivani is indeed forcing herself on him and thats what is making him do what he is doing today ..again my POV ..if she did give him some space and mayb just ignored him things could hv been different and his hidden feelings could hv evolved into love realisation too in due coarse of time but that does not mean what he is doing currently is right either ..

Ofcourse shivani doesn't deserve a man like raghu... n raghu doesn't deserve a girl like shivani who loves him like anything...he is not used to such kind of love... just as shuvani isn't used to such kind of rejection... 😛 u could say that... what's right n what's wrong that i find in a serial is entirely my pov... i don't want anybody else to agree if they have a diff piv... what's the fun if all stares in the same direction...

yes there is no fun if we all share same POV ...😃

Originally posted by: a_uma

Raghu did a bad thing to Shivani today.. left her with Karan when she was expecting to have dinner with him.. but this was equally hard for Raghu as well.. he had to literally talk himself into it... and walk away.. .. but he compounded it by eating dinner from Sumitra's hand and complementing her for it... it was very painful to watch Shivani's hurt look and the single tear rolling down her face.. ..(awesum acting by MS 👏)

No wonder Bela had that outburst..😕.. someone has to knock sense into Raghu's head.. 😕.. its true when she told Raghu that its better you send her out of the house in one go rather than hurting Shivani inch by inch.. 😕.. (and us viewers too 😆) ... But Sumitra cleverly diverted Bela's words by saying that Raghu was doing all this for Shivani's "good"...😡... (Sumi's unrepentant evilness is really admirable 😆 )

But Bela's words had worked and pierced Raghu's armour... 😉.. he quickly ran upstairs after his Babyji and tried to make up for the hurt by helping her with the earrings and complementing her about the red sari.. 😳.. loved the scene where each one was silently talking to the other through their thoughts.. 👏

Finally, the shocker.. Raghu discovered that Karan is secretly in love with Shivani 😲 (damn 🤔) .. now Mr. God will be doubly charged up to bring Karan-Shivani together 🤔 .. I hope Shivani soon finds out the truth and puts an end to this nonsense.. 😡

Originally posted by: Latha.I

sorry to interfere...@bold...did Raghu not already tried it...did he not tell to shivani that she cannot be his wife...is not giving divorce papers is a way to say to walk out of the house...will we really appreciate if Raghu mericlessly kicks her out of his house???... again we will find fault with him only...ri8??... even now trying to set her up with karan is a way to send her off...into a better life...is it not???... well her happiness lies with him...that's a diff issue... but I really cannot support Bela's speech...Raghu very well understand what shivani is going through... he has been telling to himself that... maybe Bela should take a moment to think from her brother's point too...

Maybe you are right.. if Raghu had thrown Shivani out.. the same Bela would have ranted at him ..😕😆 (and us too 😳)... which is better only time will tell... a clean swift break which will progress the story or these gut-wrenching scenes which keeps the viewers on their toes.. 😉😆

But even if he is trying to get her away slowly .. he should stop sending her mixed signals... 😲

well what i think is that if Raghu can see a portrait for shivani as intense love for Shivani and he once said that he loves her, Raghu agrees to that.. But he doesnt see that Shi left her each and every penny to be with him, she was not used to this life but she adopted it just because of him.. She does houshold chores because of him.. She belived that he is not dead even when the whole family believed it.. He deosnt agree that babyji love him, but karan making a portrait made him believe that he loves her.. May be Shivani should make a portrait for Raghu now then..😆😆.

@jyoti : i do watch the serial as a rashi admirer...not a fan...as i have said mysrlf i am not in the fan stage yet... its kriya only i am true fan of... n neither am i shivani fan nor raghu fan... i relate to shivani more as a human that's all... but i admire rashi as a pair n both shivani n raghu as human beings...individuals... n i guess for watching a serial n discussing about it n presenting my pov, enjoying the serial is enough... no need to b a fan of someone...my policy...i know there r many fan groups in the forum n especially in the colors show u mentioned ...i am not one of them...

Shivani is forcing herself on raghu ...similarly raghu is giving her mixed signsls n also trying to decide on her life... both r at fault ... but shivani is more often brought under hammer than raghu here n people find fault with her all the time ...i don't find anybody questioning them why r thry doing it n why can't they see from shivani's pov...including myself... i would appreciate it if we keep the discussion on serials n characters n situations n not try to question povs... no offense jyoti... 😃

Nice post dhanya. Good reviews by all.
Raghu give promises to everyone but never fulfills.
He gave promises to sumi , she has turned into evil. What about Karan? Will he became a dracula ?
He promised Baburam that he will pay the debt. I thnk he totally forgot about it and it seems like the goon also forgot about his money.
Raghu = promises promises and promises.

Originally posted by: a_uma

Raghu did a bad thing to Shivani today.. left her with Karan when she was expecting to have dinner with him.. but this was equally hard for Raghu as well.. he had to literally talk himself into it... and walk away.. .. but he compounded it by eating dinner from Sumitra's hand and complementing her for it... it was very painful to watch Shivani's hurt look and the single tear rolling down her face.. ..(awesum acting by MS 👏)

No wonder Bela had that outburst..😕.. someone has to knock sense into Raghu's head.. 😕.. its true when she told Raghu that its better you send her out of the house in one go rather than hurting Shivani inch by inch.. 😕.. (and us viewers too 😆) ... But Sumitra cleverly diverted Bela's words by saying that Raghu was doing all this for Shivani's "good"...😡... (Sumi's unrepentant evilness is really admirable 😆 )

But Bela's words had worked and pierced Raghu's armour... 😉.. he quickly ran upstairs after his Babyji and tried to make up for the hurt by helping her with the earrings and complementing her about the red sari.. 😳.. loved the scene where each one was silently talking to the other through their thoughts.. 👏

Finally, the shocker.. Raghu discovered that Karan is secretly in love with Shivani 😲 (damn 🤔) .. now Mr. God will be doubly charged up to bring Karan-Shivani together 🤔 .. I hope Shivani soon finds out the truth and puts an end to this nonsense.. 😡