Raghu behave yourself! - Page 2

Originally posted by: dhakarn

Good post n good replies too 👏

i also found raghu's character inconsistent , a bit... he was thinking about how shivani will cope up with evil trio there n worrying , he didn't even think for a moment how she will be feeling after being rejected ... he is ignoring the fact!!! ... he is ignoring that any such thing happened ...

n yes ! rana told him to look after shivani for his whole life ... but after hearing her confession , he panicked n ran away from there , completely forgetting about the vow ... just like he didn't really bother to look what's happening in his house the 3 months time...

n he loves shivani , deep in his heart , there's no doubt about that ... but he is a naukar , had always been n he is fiercely loyal ... he didn't quite react unless n until he saw rana's pic ...

in his heart he loves shivani but his way of life as a naukar n programmed mind is preventing him from seeing the truth n so instead of accepting her love n feeling happy he directly jumps to denying it altogether n tries to believe in his naukar status n constantly says to his heart that it is sin...

it will take him time to come out of the servant mode ... right now he is startled n shocked n determined to run away from babiji...

n as for latha , i understood her until i saw the cake cutting scene ... she lost me there ... otherwise she is behaving as a mother would behave ... but continuing to show grudge n dislike n finding fault in that person everytime the person is in front of her is uncalled for ... which i think will happen in the future ...

n yes Mansi is brilliant last few weeks ... n with a terrific actor like AB as her co-star , i am sure we will get more beautiful scenes n episodes...

Dhanya this is my perspective, 😊

For a mother her child is everything to her, and it is not going to be that easy for her to forgive Shivani and keep up the pretense that everything is okay between them, for Latha it is not. The events that happened to Raghu due to Shivani is not something that happened long ago it is farely recent, so the pain is still fresh. It will take time to heal and Shivani will have an uphill climb to show to Latha that she really does love Raghu, all of the mistakes she made are in the past she will not do anything to intentionally hurt him. The cake cutting scene Babs said that Latha was always the first one that Raghu gave the slice to, it was a special moment between Mother and Son, even Shivani acknowledged that Latha has the first right, but again Babs intervened and made sure that Raghu would give it to Shivani. Latha and Raghu looked at each other they both felt bad, even Bela felt bad for her mother and brother, I think Latha was hurt that's all.

Hope I made sense😛

Originally posted by: awida

I agree with you Poiu. Raghu looked confused in every time Shivani hugged him. But that doesn't mean he doesn't love her. It means that he doesn't like the idea of Shivani falling in love with him. He doesn't allow himself to feel free with her. To hug her. But he do feel. Coz in many times ..even touching her hand made his eyes soft. In that candle scene. In the party before she made a joker of him, in the club. Raghu fell in love with Shivani a looong time ago. But he thinks he is not equal to her. He doesn't have a right to be loved by her. And he has to deny his feelings coz falling in love with Shivani is a great sin. Coz Shivani is his Maliksa's grand daughter. That Maliksa whom Raghu worships.😊

we differ here. Raghu may have a soft corner for shivani deep down.
But its not love yet. Or lets say it will take time to grow to
love deep down. And then ages to come to surface. Hence the brother comes in.
to speed up the process.

I agree with some points and disagree with some 😳

I agree that Raghu is indeed suffering from a inferiority complex .. he knows well that as per his promise to Malik-sa , he got to take care of Shivani for entire life and not just 3 months which is possible only if he remains her husband forever , so when he actually backed off and rejected Shivani's confession because of his servant status , it does show his inferiority complex there which I feel is quite human and realistic too for any man who carries a self-respect and will not want the relationship in future to suffer from this status issue and so he feels its better to put a full stop on it and part ways on good terms 🤔

But I disagree that Raghu should hv accepted Shivani's love proposal just to make her feel good .. that would hv looked forced and something Raghu would do only to make sure Baby ji is not hurt 🤔 .. Raghu's acceptance right now would not hv come from his heart but more out of pressure to satisfy his Malkin by saying a yes to her love proposal and so the underlying inferiority complex would hv always remained in Raghu which would hv resulted in a half-hearted relation between them ... Thats why I m glad he rejected his proposal and actually broke her heart .. Tomorrow when Raghu will accept her , it will b straight from his heart and not out of any force or pressure ... So the heartbreak of Shivani was much needed here to make both realise that they got come to a same level at a point to b able to connect to each other .. its not about Shivani coming to Raghu's level or Raghu coming to Shivani's level but its more about both starting to connect as husband-wife at a same level and not as Malkin-servant anymore which is possible only when they will re-build the relation once again after the initial heartbreaks ...


Coming to Latha , I m not reading much into her expressions for now as long as she dont openly speak out anything against Shivani ... She may not hv that attachment with Shivani anymore for the past issues and so dint enjoy Raghu feeding cake to Shivani but at the end of the day I feel she still wants Raghu's happiness above anything else ...

Originally posted by: rekrn

Dhanya this is my perspective, 😊

For a mother her child is everything to her, and it is not going to be that easy for her to forgive Shivani and keep up the pretense that everything is okay between them, for Latha it is not. The events that happened to Raghu due to Shivani is not something that happened long ago it is farely recent, so the pain is still fresh. It will take time to heal and Shivani will have an uphill climb to show to Latha that she really does love Raghu, all of the mistakes she made are in the past she will not do anything to intentionally hurt him. The cake cutting scene Babs said that Latha was always the first one that Raghu gave the slice to, it was a special moment between Mother and Son, even Shivani acknowledged that Latha has the first right, but again Babs intervened and made sure that Raghu would give it to Shivani. Latha and Raghu looked at each other they both felt bad, even Bela felt bad for her mother and brother, I think Latha was hurt that's all.

Hope I made sense😛

I understand what u r trying to say rekha ... n i saw latha's pain too ...what i didn't get was the way her face twisted in didlike which made the scene look like a typical saas-bahu moment... n i wrote that in future we may get many more instances like that... just like shivani couldn't forgive raghu for his betrayal n always blamed him n jumped to conclusions we may lstha doung the same thing too...

Originally posted by: dhakarn

I understand what u r trying to say rekha ... n i saw latha's pain too ...what i didn't get was the way her face twisted in didlike which made the scene look like a typical saas-bahu moment... n i wrote that in future we may get many more instances like that... just like shivani couldn't forgive raghu for his betrayal n always blamed him n jumped to conclusions we may lstha doung the same thing too...

It's quite possible that Latha will behave that way because she no longer trusts Shivani. She will not be as ready to believe what she has to say and will find fault with her actions. This attitude towards Shivani will continue until she believes fully in her heart and again has faith that Shivani won't do anything to hurt Raghu. Unfortunately only Shivani can change her perspective by her actions not by words, Shivani will have to be strong and work hard to gain her trust, and she will but it will take some time.

Originally posted by: poiu123

we differ here. Raghu may have a soft corner for shivani deep down.
But its not love yet. Or lets say it will take time to grow to
love deep down. And then ages to come to surface. Hence the brother comes in.
to speed up the process.

Originally posted by: awida

Do yoi think brother coming is to make Raghu jealous?😲

Good idea.😃

I was thinking the brother is coming to help his bhabhi win over his brother . And also maybe make his brother see things in a different way.

Originally posted by: poiu123

I was thinking the brother is coming to help his bhabhi win over his brother . And also maybe make his brother see things in a different way.

Bela is too serious and correct. Maybe this one will be naughty and clever and prove to be a good devar and friend to Shivani.