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Posted: 11 years ago
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okay I know some of you may disagree, but I don't care, Raghu is acting really mean 😡 and I don't want to put him in the bunch of the trio. shivani has admitted her mistakes due to immaturity, we all make mistakes, I think the problem with Raghu is, he has a serious Inferiority complex and he feels that he is lowly in the sight of rich people, and that is a norm for most poor people, get over urself man, if malik thought that about Raghu he would not have given him half of his property . that says a lot and Raghu failed to see that . all the time Raghu mouth used to zipped now he is wagging his tongue in hurting shivani. 😡 I know about Raghu feelings etc. . btw sumitra family are no better they stole shiv jewels and im sure sumitra is a crook who will want to kill shiv later on, lataji is getting on my nerves also doesn't she know the meaning of forgiveness.. I hate people who preach things but don't practice it., I feel bad for shiv. 😭 but I must say I am enjoying the actress, she is doing a good job 👏 even better than the Raghu. just mypov

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for writing this post East.😊
I think you are speaking what is in young modern ppl minds. Raghu's personality isn't of any existing person in modern world. To understand him I had to look back to old movies of Raj Kapoor, Dilip Kumar and other actors of that period .

Raghu is a very loyal man. He considers Maliksa bagwan. It explains it all. He can't think of disobeying him or cheating on him. For this he accepted all insults from Shivani who acted very mean with him. If Raghu wasn't that loyal he won't stay with her in the first place. For this her love can't change this fact..or this way of thinking. I respect this man. If he allowed himself to search in his heart he might find Shivani's love, but he denied himself ,he doesn't think of himself ..he thinks of Maliksa and his family's honour which made him even keep evil trio in haveli after all what they did for him.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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well said awida👍🏼..may be the ppl like raghu rarely exist in todays world ...bt raghu have some time to accept the feelings inside him afterall this is a serial and hero heroine met one day... 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I appreciate your pov and it's good read different views😛

Agree Raghu always agreed with everything that Shivani wanted but this time it was different, it was about taking their relationship to a different level. Yes Raghu lost his cool on Shivani, but I don't think Raghu ever expected that Shivani would declare that she loves him and it completely shocked him, he reacted. He has always looked at their relationship as that of Malkin/Servant. whatever feelings he had for her he has always kept it hidden. When Shivani confessed her feelings he panicked he just wanted to leave there, because he didn't want to give into those feelings he thought it's not possible because of their different social status, which was obvious when Shivani was hugging him and he saw Dadu's picture. True that when Dadu made Raghu half owner of the property he no longer was a servant, but a malkin in society. The problem is he doesn't see himself that way, he still sees himself as the "Nakur". We all have preconceived notions whether right or wrong to be able to remove these notions won't happen overnight it takes time.

To me they both acted impulsively Shivani by signing away her property, I can understand she wanted to be on the same level as Raghu, and Raghu by signing the divorce papers so fast. Shivani knows deep down that Raghu loves her. IMOP in her desire to make him realize that, she has moved back to the basti without even letting him know. It was obvious she was going to announce her feelings at his birthday party before the short circuit. Shivani needs to slow down and making Raghu realize that the social status doesn't matter, but by being assertive in her attempt to get Raghu to accept her and their marriage I think now Raghu feels like he is being pushed into a corner that's why I think we will see him agreeing with Sumi about his commitment to her. Yes Sumi has ulterior motives and Sumi's family are not good.

As for Latha, maybe being a mother I can understand her point of view. If it was my child, it wouldn't be that easy for me to forgive someone, who put my child in jail and was responsible for him possibly losing his life. I applaud the CV's for showing the true emotions that a mother's goes thru when it comes to the welfare of her child. Latha and Shivani relationship will heal, Latha will again love and trust Shivani but this will take some time. Shivani will have a big part in healing this relationship.

Yes Mansi is doing very well in her portrayal of Shivani. For me both AB and Mansi were spectacular in the first scene of yesterday's episode.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: awida

Thanks for writing this post East.😊

I think you are speaking what is in young modern ppl minds. Raghu's personality isn't of any existing person in modern world. To understand him I had to look back to old movies of Raj Kapoor, Dilip Kumar and other actors of that period .

Raghu is a very loyal man. He considers Maliksa bagwan. It explains it all. He can't think of disobeying him or cheating on him. For this he accepted all insults from Shivani who acted very mean with him. If Raghu wasn't that loyal he won't stay with her in the first place. For this her love can't change this fact..or this way of thinking. I respect this man. If he allowed himself to search in his heart he might find Shivani's love, but he denied himself ,he doesn't think of himself ..he thinks of Maliksa and his family's honour which made him even keep evil trio in haveli after all what they did for him.




Itidal you have written Raghu's feeling very well😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont think so cause its natural how raghu is behaving.For a poor man it would be a magic that a princes fall in love with him.But for raghu i think he loves shivani but his point of view is different.We saw that raghu will not allow a flower to touch shivani hardly.But still now it is his concern towards shivani but if he could left all his limitation may be there will be a awesome realization of being in love with his babyji.He is in hesitation right now how to face his babyji 😆.Cause no any relation could be changed in a second.From my pov it was little bit easy for shivani to accept raghu cause she has money,power everything.So she damn care of anybody but if raghu accept shivani's proposal then people will said that its not love.He is with shivani for the sake of her money.Also he was her NAUKAR...so from naukar to husband its a very difficult journey...It will take time including some wrong decision.But we wish shivani to make him comfortable with her & he will. But give some time dear...😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rekrn

I appreciate your pov and it's good read different views😛

Agree Raghu always agreed with everything that Shivani wanted but this time it was different, it was about taking their relationship to a different level. Yes Raghu lost his cool on Shivani, but I don't think Raghu ever expected that Shivani would declare that she loves him and it completely shocked him, he reacted. He has always looked at their relationship as that of Malkin/Servant. whatever feelings he had for her he has always kept it hidden. When Shivani confessed her feelings he panicked he just wanted to leave there, because he didn't want to give into those feelings he thought it's not possible because of their different social status, which was obvious when Shivani was hugging him and he saw Dadu's picture. True that when Dadu made Raghu half owner of the property he no longer was a servant, but a malkin in society. The problem is he doesn't see himself that way, he still sees himself as the "Nakur". We all have preconceived notions whether right or wrong to be able to remove these notions won't happen overnight it takes time.

To me they both acted impulsively Shivani by signing away her property, I can understand she wanted to be on the same level as Raghu, and Raghu by signing the divorce papers so fast. Shivani knows deep down that Raghu loves her. IMOP in her desire to make him realize that, she has moved back to the basti without even letting him know. It was obvious she was going to announce her feelings at his birthday party before the short circuit. Shivani needs to slow down and making Raghu realize that the social status doesn't matter, but by being assertive in her attempt to get Raghu to accept her and their marriage I think now Raghu feels like he is being pushed into a corner that's why I think we will see him agreeing with Sumi about his commitment to her. Yes Sumi has ulterior motives and Sumi's family are not good.

As for Latha, maybe being a mother I can understand her point of view. If it was my child, it wouldn't be that easy for me to forgive someone, who put my child in jail and was responsible for him possibly losing his life. I applaud the CV's for showing the true emotions that a mother's goes thru when it comes to the welfare of her child. Latha and Shivani relationship will heal, Latha will again love and trust Shivani but this will take some time. Shivani will have a big part in healing this relationship.

Yes Mansi is doing very well in her portrayal of Shivani. For me both AB and Mansi were spectacular in the first scene of yesterday's episode.




I also have a diff pov. I do not agree that raghu loves shivani yet. His reaction was shock and confusion when shivani hugged him. It was like he didnt know wat to do. Rana's picture only helped him to snap out of shock and he pushed her away.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rekrn

whatever feelings he had for her he has always kept it hidden. When Shivani confessed her feelings he panicked he just wanted to leave there, because he didn't want to give into those feelings he thought it's not possible because of their different social status, which was obvious when Shivani was hugging him and he saw Dadu's picture. True that when Dadu made Raghu half owner of the property he no longer was a servant, but a malkin in society. The problem is he doesn't see himself that way, he still sees himself as the "Nakur". We all have preconceived notions whether right or wrong to be able to remove these notions won't happen overnight it takes time.


Agree with you Rekha.😊 Raghu has hidden feelings towards Shivani. But he is afraid of committing a big sin if he admit it. His look at Daaju's pic. His standing for a while before leaving the haveli show that trauma he felt.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poiu123



I also have a diff pov. I do not agree that raghu loves shivani yet. His reaction was shock and confusion when shivani hugged him. It was like he didnt know wat to do. Rana's picture only helped him to snap out of shock and he pushed her away.


I agree with you Poiu. Raghu looked confused in every time Shivani hugged him. But that doesn't mean he doesn't love her. It means that he doesn't like the idea of Shivani falling in love with him. He doesn't allow himself to feel free with her. To hug her. But he do feel. Coz in many times ..even touching her hand made his eyes soft. In that candle scene. In the party before she made a joker of him, in the club. Raghu fell in love with Shivani a looong time ago. But he thinks he is not equal to her. He doesn't have a right to be loved by her. And he has to deny his feelings coz falling in love with Shivani is a great sin. Coz Shivani is his Maliksa's grand daughter. That Maliksa whom Raghu worships. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post n good replies too 👏

i also found raghu's character inconsistent , a bit... he was thinking about how shivani will cope up with evil trio there n worrying , he didn't even think for a moment how she will be feeling after being rejected ... he is ignoring the fact!!! ... he is ignoring that any such thing happened ...

n yes ! rana told him to look after shivani for his whole life ... but after hearing her confession , he panicked n ran away from there , completely forgetting about the vow ... just like he didn't really bother to look what's happening in his house the 3 months time...


n he loves shivani , deep in his heart , there's no doubt about that ... but he is a naukar , had always been n he is fiercely loyal ... he didn't quite react unless n until he saw rana's pic ...
in his heart he loves shivani but his way of life as a naukar n programmed mind is preventing him from seeing the truth n so instead of accepting her love n feeling happy he directly jumps to denying it altogether n tries to believe in his naukar status n constantly says to his heart that it is sin...

it will take him time to come out of the servant mode ... right now he is startled n shocked n determined to run away from babiji...

n as for latha , i understood her until i saw the cake cutting scene ... she lost me there ... otherwise she is behaving as a mother would behave ... but continuing to show grudge n dislike n finding fault in that person everytime the person is in front of her is uncalled for ... which i think will happen in the future ...

n yes Mansi is brilliant last few weeks ... n with a terrific actor like AB as her co-star , i am sure we will get more beautiful scenes n episodes...


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