Vansh Kotari's is better than Vansh Rathi for all

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Whether we agree or not, the fact is if the truth is revealed at this stage will be the kids. Ved is already feeling scared of losing his father's love and company the moment he heard about Vansh's father planning to send him with his mother away from him. So he fears what if his own father also does that and in that fears he is already clinging to Suraj. He is under the impression that he is the universe of Suraj and suddenly if he comes to know that there is one more person to share his love and that too, he is his rival (as he thinks right now) Vansh? Added to that he was under the impression that his father never lies and was shocked with Mohit's truth and now if he realizes his father and even his mother who is an IPS officer and advocate that not to hide anything and never to lie have lied to him for the last 6 years and they have given away their child to someone else and never bothered to be in touch with that child. They will also instill fear in his mind that there may come a day when his parents might abandon him also like Vansh. Added to that he will go scot free lying as he knows that everyone in his family lies and have been lying for the last 6 years and who knows what else is hidden form him or what is actually the truth.

On the other side, Vansh who is puzzled at his father's behavior and is clueless about the reason for his movement to Jaipur from Ajmeir. He thinks his father is the best father who loves him a lot and do anything fro him. He has so much blind belief in his father that he has not even asked his father why he cancelled his birthday party or why he should not go to school? For such a kid, if he comes to know that he is not their son and he was son of Ved's parents, how will it affects? He will be shattered. One things his parents didn't wanted him and so they easily handed him over to someone else and didn't bother to meet him even once. he will hate Surya and will not be happy and call them Papa & mamma. On the other side, he will also feel sad that he is not AA's son and whatever the love they showed him was not genuine but they tried to love him only for the happiness of their daughter and will drift away from them. And his loving sister Bulbul will become a villain (vamp) in his eyes because, she was the cause for his status.
Even though we are angry at Ankur for acting so impersonal and insecure, his doubts are also not baseless. Vansh and Ved are not at the right age to understand what happened 6 years back and why it happened. So it will be better for Rathi's move slow and make arrangements to just meet him up as relatives and not as his own family. If they take drastic steps to bring Vansh back to RM as Surya's son, the chances of both kids get in to trauma are more.
Not only that, even other kids will be shattered thinking what all might have been lied to thema nd they will not be able to trust the elders hereafter.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Lol...not only vansh and ved even we r not able to understand what happened to surya 6 yrz back...
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No one donates his baby to fulfil a childs wish and that too offer himself when nobody else is in this favor!!!


Coming to the topic...
Yes I completely agree that though AA r doing bad with RP they r still not doing wrong with vansh bcoz if he knows the truth he will be shattered he will neither love surya as his parents nor accept AA...

Ankur is thinking right but since he is himself a very selfish person he is assuming others to be the same and that's why he is insecure abt RP meeting vansh...
Bcoz if ankur was in place of RP he could never sacrifice even a small thing for others and this is a baby...and he would end up snatching the child...thats why he thinks same abt RP...problem in his mind but not bad for vansh!!!


Ved... Yes good pt... He was in fear of hurting suraj knowing truth but more fear abt revelation of his dadz status...
But I wont blame that child too much and wont say that he doesn't love suraj the way suraj loves him bcoz u can't expect maturity from a child and children generally at this age have these complexes...
But once the truth comes out surya have to make him understand that its no big deal that ur dad is halwai... They.have to make him realize impt. Of this profession rather than progressing to make ved proud... Bcoz love means that u accept person the way he is and feel proud to represent him in front of whole world...
But since ved is a child... I don't have any anger regarding this matter... Seen these kinda situation alot... Suraj will also understand this though he'll be hurt initially

Nice post...u brought up a good topic
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said,
Surely VANSH is going affect, suraj cared for bul bul and gave his own son, now the total family is going to suffer...
VED AND VANSH bond wil be also affected...
Whole RP KIDS wil feel uneasy and it wil take time to accept VANSH AS BROTHER..
Do Suraj and sandhya have idea to get back vansh?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Zona, I didn't talked about Suraj's profession and Ved's inferiority complex about it. I am talking about his attachment to Suraj and how he will react if he comes to know that he has one more brother with whom he needs to share Suraj. And also that if Suraj can gave away Vansh to someone, what if he does it for Ved also? Such doubts will spoil that child.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavi_jai01

Well said,

Surely VANSH is going affect, suraj cared for bul bul and gave his own son, now the total family is going to suffer...
VED AND VANSH bond wil be also affected...
Whole RP KIDS wil feel uneasy and it wil take time to accept VANSH AS BROTHER..
Do Suraj and sandhya have idea to get back vansh?

I don't think Suraj & Sandya have any idea to get back Vansh as their son but they do want to have a cordial relation with him as his aunt and uncle. They want to stay close to him and be part of his life.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: deejagi

Zona, I didn't talked about Suraj's profession and Ved's inferiority complex about it. I am talking about his attachment to Suraj and how he will react if he comes to know that he has one more brother with whom he needs to share Suraj. And also that if Suraj can gave away Vansh to someone, what if he does it for Ved also? Such doubts will spoil that child.



Yea but that's not gonna happen so soon...
M not much concerned about this
EDIT/]We don't even know whether vansh will be back with surya or just AA will realize and let family meet them...
Or may be vansh will never know surya r his parents...bcoz he is grown up now nota bay that his parents keep changing and he can adjust...even misri was just 2 or 3 yrs when she came back to RP so she could adjust and vansh six...
This will be a permanent mark for his life.
..so everyone has to think twice b4 doing this... It's not just a story of revenge or love now that bb wants child back for revenge and surya bcoz the love... It's about child now... His feelings matter now
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Posted: 10 years ago
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superb post dee
i missed many epis in between
so iam not the right person to judge VV or surya
but one thing i would like to say
cvs are handling every sensitive issue just like that
be it BS, KD or BD
and baap of all bloopers chavi issue has been buried
wont an aunt come to wish the child on his b day
atleast a phone call
the answer would be WAW ( wait and watch)








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Posted: 10 years ago
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Zona, it is not just Vansh, if this happens, the whole HG will talk about this and they will also talk about Misri and Kahna incident which will come as shocker to all the kids. so though it is 3 kids who are directly affected, the other 2 kid sin family will live in fear about their identity and whether they are the biological kids of their own parents (whom they treat as parents) or do they have some other surprise later. Misri who proudly calls her mother as Meena maa will be shattered that she had swapped her to get a boy and never wanted a girl child. She willnot be able to understand Meena's love (twisted) and how she stopped Misri's child marriage by accepting her crime, but will never be able love Meena.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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yep vansh will have a big heart break and that trauma will definitely have long lasting impact on that poor kid ,thats y what ankur doing is not wrong in keeping rathis away , he can trust surya but bhabho will spill the beans for sure... now AA are well wishers of vansh and they have given a better parwarish to vansh compared to ved ...but bhabho has become ziddi of getting back vansh without thinking about how vansh will take that truth ... and when ved comes to know the truth i think he will ask surya why did they pick vansh and not him that vansh is now leading a luxurious life and he is undergoing the embarrassment of being a halwai's son ... ved may feel like his parents were unjust to him coz this is what i have understood what ved is...


btw yesterday was ved scared of losing his father i thought he was scared of facing his friends the next day šŸ¤”

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Posted: 10 years ago
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@ thala, you are worrie about Chavvi šŸ˜†šŸ˜† may be they will show her later, if they plan to in a FB that she fought with Surya for handing over the child to AA and discorded all her bonds with RP or Sandya would have asked her to go back to Dileep which would have resulted in breaking relationship. Or the classic case will be that, she would have asked for Ved claiming when they could give Vansh to Ankitha, Sandya's SIL, even she has the right on VED as she is also Sandya's SIL. and od refusal has left RP for ever.
My only earnest pleading is that, let them not show her with Zakir, who may be serving Scotland yard police.šŸ˜‰

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