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Posted: 11 years ago
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Since a couple of days, I am observing the posts and opinions in this forum applauding Kavita and slamming Sandhya😭 with no fault of Sandhya as such.

Her only fault is that she loves her family more than anything else, which might be the case with so many other working women but that doesn't mean that she has no right to be an IPS. She never tried to favor her family through her position , even in yesterdays episode she waited like any other citizen for her turn in front of office. She has a dominating mother in law , a father in law who is a goat in front of his wife although he supports Sandhya but not openly Other siblings are opportunists and tilt on the side they feel heavier.
She has a husband who stands by her in every thick n thin but at the same time would not raise voice against his mother as a mark of respect even if he knows that his mother is not correct (Can co-relate it to my own husband)😆
Sandhya knows that she is in a family where she will have to do all the adjustments , she is trying her best to balance👏.
We should not forget that afterall she is a human being who had her own dreams which were snatched by her fate and made her land in an orthodox family.
(Forum members might not be having idea of orthodox families of Rajasthan where MIL is the supreme power and all activities revolve around her )
On the other hand it is shrewd kavita🤬 who is a true politician and can go to any extent to get her work done.😡
By getting Suraj's mithai shop closed , she wants to give a message to the people of Pushkar that who ever comes in her way will meet the same fate as Rathi's.
I am sorry if I have written anything which hurts anyone but this is my view as I have also come from a very educated family in Rajasthan to an orthodox family after losing my father untimely.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice Post 😛 n Agree with You
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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post
your story is similar to sandy

sandy was the one who requested RP not to misuse IPS powers
and she is tring to balance her career and family

but one thing i dont understand is that
she is not using the IPS brain
there is certainly no necessity to misuse her powers
but when they tried to trap BK , threatening him to pay 6 lakhs PT
she should have expected him to blurt and she should have recorded his voice

to drag this track they can even show the recording misplaced or it has been destroyed something of that sort

sandy is an intelligent cop
she should be shown handling this as a cop more than a bahu
a bahu will not to know the tricks
but an IPS will know for sure

sandy should expect what would be K's next move
and she should plan according to it

in RK track her thinking was amazing
she kept guessing that something is wrong
and tried to find it out

but in K track she is just responding to K's move
through spoilers came to know sandy has planned something big for K

lets wait
but i am certainly dissappointed with the way
cvs have turned sandy IPS to sandy bahu
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post
Agree with u Rama akka...
Sandy is not shown intelligent like before... In terrorist track though she was not an IPS at that time her way of thinking to get that terrorist made the DSP sir to get stunned ...

But now after becoming IPS , becoz of her family nd the promise that she is always giving to bb has made her lose the boldness in facing things...

An unknown fear or confusion is there on her face.. But she s trying not to show that out...

Now , Bhasan is occupying the screen more and Sandy is trying to do her level best to keep up her words she gave to bb...

I dont think bb asking Sandy to save her son's life or anything else like that as wrong but the way CVs are taking that s not up to the mark... The approach s wrong...

Next Sandy s gonna lose the evidence also nd the reason is silly... Dropping the file on the stagnated water nd with no other go , accepting K's condition is totally horrible...

CVs are showing K dominating too much and Sandy losing again nd again... Hope Sandy finds a clever solution to stop K from interfering in their life...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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K can be shown dominting
cause only if the negative character is stronng there will some impact on the positive character to oppose

but show her as smart not dumb
as of now sandy is like any other married woman fighting for her husband's shop

sandy is an IPS
make her make clever moves
and trick in IPS way


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: thala

nice post

your story is similar to sandy

sandy was the one who requested RP not to misuse IPS powers
and she is tring to balance her career and family

but one thing i dont understand is that
she is not using the IPS brain
there is certainly no necessity to misuse her powers
but when they tried to trap BK , threatening him to pay 6 lakhs PT
she should have expected him to blurt and she should have recorded his voice

to drag this track they can even show the recording misplaced or it has been destroyed something of that sort

sandy is an intelligent cop
she should be shown handling this as a cop more than a bahu
a bahu will not to know the tricks
but an IPS will know for sure

sandy should expect what would be K's next move
and she should plan according to it

in RK track her thinking was amazing
she kept guessing that something is wrong
and tried to find it out

but in K track she is just responding to K's move
through spoilers came to know sandy has planned something big for K

lets wait
but i am certainly dissappointed with the way
cvs have turned sandy IPS to sandy bahu

Yes, that's why I co-relate myself to her but I do use my brain at times 😆 unlike her .
I do agree that Sandhya should have used her IPS brain rather than falling into the trap or recorded when Kavita or BK were blurting the truth.
They Should have showed her character more stronger as an IPS 😕than a bahu.
But , probably cv's want Sandy to realize her strength by giving her a blow.
Her character will be at its best when she will learn to turn her weakness into strength.(family)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post & I agree with you have said re Sandy!!!👏👏👏 BTW hope things are going well for you in your real life...🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sparklingcider

Nice post & I agree with you have said re Sandy!!!👏👏👏 BTW hope things are going well for you in your real life...🤗

Thanks for the concern dear...Yes, it was very difficult for a couple of years.🤢... but now, all well.😃😃
Although old habits die hard...and same is applicable to my MIL also😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: meenu21

Thanks for the concern dear...Yes, it was very difficult for a couple of years.🤢... but now, all well.😃😃

Although old habits die hard...and same is applicable to my MIL also😉


Glad to hear things are going well for you & wish you all the best for the future & a continued happy married life!!!😉😉😉 & yes I know from bitter experience about MIL's - my sister's is a right old goat & unfortunately has put me off getting married for life but then thats a whole different story...🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post ..I agree with you . I won't even like to compare Kavita and Sandhya as It would be an insult to Sandhya's character, although every character on the show has flaws ...but even if flaws of all the characters are put together and compared to Kavita, her deeds will still be the worst one.
You told about ur real story in the post as well ..I would say not only the mother in laws in Rajashtan or other conservative areas , even the civilized ones act to be very dominating and want things the way they want to happen.They have this fear that now their son is married he is being taken away which is wrong.
Normally husbands give more importance to their own parents and even siblings as compared to their wife.. Few even impose restrictions on their wife to respect their parents.

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