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Bharathi

@b2011

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Secondly, sorry to say this, he is just not wise enough to understand the situation. He will learn it though!

@niruba: I do not agree with the above. Suraj is wise enough in understanding and solving issues. It is the other way round, Sandhya is immature in handling the situation. She could have easily said she will speak to them on Monday and will see into the matter and then explained it. She has to learn many things.

Suraj who filled the slip to visit Sandhya in her office, who was willing to pay the restaurant bill, etc. suddenly wants Sandhya to use her ASP powers for Mohit.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

@subha this was expected. Sooraj expects Sandhya to help family if she can. According to him if her power can help Sandhya why she cannot use it.

Denying help to family is not going to go well with Sooraj. See Sooraj knows all the karthoots of his family and what type of a person Sandhya is.

Irrespective of that as I was saying if there is a choice between Sandhya and family his balance is tilted towards family.

It is for Sandhya also to learn where her family stands when she says No to them and that includes Sooraj.

Sooraj needs some strong jhatkas to wake up and smell the coffee. He needs to grow up to stand for what is right than what Bhabo will feel.

Having said that its Sandhya's immaturity that she thought her family will understand her. She should have handled the situation more tactfully than out right refusal.

So it is learning phase for both of them and it is natural. They need to come out of this getting more closer.

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HalleNJ

@HalleNJ

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: b2011
Secondly, sorry to say this, he is just not wise enough to understand the situation. He will learn it though!

@niruba: I do not agree with the above. Suraj is wise enough in understanding and solving issues. It is the other way round, Sandhya is immature in handling the situation. She could have easily said she will speak to them on Monday and will see into the matter and then explained it. She has to learn many things.

Suraj who filled the slip to visit Sandhya in her office, who was willing to pay the restaurant bill, etc. suddenly wants Sandhya to use her ASP powers for Mohit.

I accept your points aka. That's why I feel this misunderstanding is reasonable coz you can't point out who is 100% right or wrong.

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AhamyTed

@AhamyTed

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

earlier SurYa were nt perfect as a couple...bt nw they r ...

according 2 me a percet couple is dt who love as well as fight wid each other...

i m happy dt Suraj is angry bt i don't wnt dis anger 2 last 4 long...😒

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Sooraj needs some strong jhatkas to wake up and smell the coffee. He needs to grow up to stand for what is right than what Bhabo will feel.

Having said that its Sandhya's immaturity that she thought her family will understand her. She should have handled the situation more tactfully than out right refusal.

So it is learning phase for both of them and it is natural. They need to come out of this getting more closer.

I think Sandhya saying "no" upfront is actually a sign of maturity. She needs to be able to stand tall against the family if need be. If she sets the rules upfront then they won't keep trying to misuse her name as they have been doing. By saying she would see and then look into it later just avoids the issue. Then the family will keep asking without thinking about whether it is appropriate or not. Better to deal with this conflict upfront now instead of constantly being requested to do inappropriate things and having to work around it. She can still look into the issue and try to solve it by appropriate means. But the "no" was the best thing she has ever done.

I agree that Suraj needs to grow up and stand for what is right. At this point he is too emotional about his family and it actually causes his siblings more harm. Mohit and Chaavi are spoiled because they have never had to pay for the consequences of their poor choices because they know they can manipulate Suraj. Chaavi hopefully will gain some maturity in her sasural. But if Suraj and Babho keep bailing Mohit out, how will he ever learn? If Mohit realizes he can't manipulate them, hopefully he will be more careful with his choices.

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