How much has Sandhya changed Sooraj??

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Remember guys? The very first time, Sooraj explains to chotu about his ideal wife?
He wanted a wife who would wake up early in the morning, do all the work that His Bhabo asks her to do. Cook hot snacks in the evening for everyone. Serve them all the food, when they are all busy playing. He will work for the family outside the house and his wife would work for the family inside the house.and in the night, they would both massage Bhabos legs before going to bed.

He didn't hesitate to break a traffic rule or two, never wore helmets, didn't hesitate to bribe officials for smooth running if his shop. He had even mentioned once that if he had to lie for the good of his family, he would do it without hesitation.

Then yeah, he got married to Sandhya. Saw a few things through her eyes and even agreed to certain things and started following rules and stuff. But somewhere, Sooraj has loved and supported Sandhya soo much because deep down, Sandhya is the kind of wife that Sooraj had described to chotu. She might not know to cook and do other household chores, but she has always gone out of her way to help the family. Has taken all of Bhabos rants with the patience of a saint, has taken many blames upon herself just to protect the family integrity. Even she has either lied or hidden the truth at times for the good of the family.

So yeah, we still actually don't know to what extent Sandhya has affected Sooraj's thoughts and beliefs. He might still be the same man who thinks its okie to lie if it's for the general good of the family.
If Sandhya's two words can help open the parlour, Sooraj still might think that there's nothing wrong. Also, technicAlly, Emily has not used any of those products. So, Sooraj's thoughts might be that there is nothing wrong in using Sandhya's power to undo the wrong that has happened to the family.

I feel, it takes more than a couple of years to change the very foundations of your beliefs. Probably, for the first time, Sooraj will see a Sandhya unwilling to help him with his dream of a perfect happy family. How will Sooraj take it? How will he react? We all know that he is capable of going to great extents to get things done way if he wants to. Even Bhabo had mentioned once that Sooraj never gets angry over anyone easily but if he does, he can be extremely stubborn.

It will be interesting to see Sooraj's reaction.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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If it happen. , we ill see more drama in future. And anas ill get more screen space.

Nice thread.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes naina ur r right...

Till now Suraj has not asked direct help from Sandy...

Sandy has done a lot for her family...

1st it was fb track where bb challenged Sandy to prove his real face...
2nd it was the Momily issue... again a challenge by bb...

In all these cases Suraj has never asked Sandy to do anything... This is the 1st time he is gonna need her help nd to his surprise Sandy is gonna deny...

This will definitely be shocking nd I am not sure how this is gonna burst...

It might be either RP on one side nd SurYa on the other or Sandy alone in one side...



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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Naina this is my take. Sooraj has trusted Sandhya and her instincts but he had always wanted her to prove to his family her loyalty.
He supported Sandhya but that has always been conditional, his support always came at a price tag for Sandhya. Walk on the glass pieces that Bhabo throws at her. But the only solace was he was always a balm to Sandhya's wounds and as long as she walked on those glass pieces he went all the way to realize her dream.
Sooraj is still the same man who believes wife has to stay in husband's family, need to obey the orders of husband's mother, need to worship MIL and forgive her wrongs let whatever that be. And in a final analysis at this point if he has a choice between Sandhya and his family his loyalty will be tilted towards his parivaar only. So Sandhya's refusal to help Momily can def ensure sparks between them.
Sooraj will change and there is only one woman who can change him. Hit his ego like anything so that he is forced to transform, forced to change the paradigm of Bhabo worship, look at his marital life in a new light. That woman is Kavitha.
That is for the exact reason CVs bought back Kavitha. To give Sooraj that shock treatment and I am sure she will def give him one big one this time
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice Post
I think Bhabho/RP will definitely put pressure on sandy dis time..No doubt they all hv birthright to do this..but i hv Doubt.will Suraj also do same? most probably not..RP ppl know dat through suraj they can do emotional atyachar on sandhya..If suraj also want his wife should use her position n help his family Then God bless Sandy.
Edited by parth26 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Naina this is my take. Sooraj has trusted Sandhya and her instincts but he had always wanted her to prove to his family her loyalty.

He supported Sandhya but that has always been conditional, his support always came at a price tag for Sandhya. Walk on the glass pieces that Bhabo throws at her. But the only solace was he was always a balm to Sandhya's wounds and as long as she walked on those glass pieces he went all the way to realize her dream.
Sooraj is still the same man who believes wife has to stay in husband's family, need to obey the orders of husband's mother, need to worship MIL and forgive her wrongs let whatever that be. And in a final analysis at this point if he has a choice between Sandhya and his family his loyalty will be tilted towards his parivaar only. So Sandhya's refusal to help Momily can def ensure sparks between them.
Sooraj will change and there is only one woman who can change him. Hit his ego like anything so that he is forced to transform, forced to change the paradigm of Bhabo worship, look at his marital life in a new light. That woman is Kavitha.
That is for the exact reason CVs bought back Kavitha. To give Sooraj that shock treatment and I am sure she will def give him one big one this time

Sometimes, DABH can be extremely depressing. Who wants a man whose love is conditional? And has a price tag attached to it?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@shruthiravi Sooraj worshipped his family so he wants his wife to do it and considered his wife also in the family.so he tried to fulfill her dream even bhabo resists.he didn't say Bhabo is right but he believed her as god(One of the worst reason to hate this show) as same as Sandy trusted her father.the real thing is Sandy's father and bhabo both are stupids to have such a principles.yeah Sandy is the main protagonist of this show may you inspire all but from my view she is a stupid,selfish,ego person and the worst main lead I ever felt.compared to all Sooraj has far more good principles but his weakness is he has no pride.love on Sandy is conditional but he has other responsibilities too.he tried to fulfill all responsibilities.to make Sandy the great Sooraj become weak and sentimental.that's all.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@susee it is the worship part I hate in Sooraj. Respect for mother is fine, but worship is strict no no.
Sandhya is emotionally weak and with family ties she can be blackmailed.
Show can progress only and only if Sooraj stops Bhabo worship. Otherwise he is a nice balanced guy. But when it comes to Bhabo he becomes weak and this weakness is not giving strength to SURYA relationship rather Bhabo is always between them,
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post Naina. Agree with both your and Shruthi's posts.

Yes, Suraj expects Sandhya to be like him though he not said it in words. In fact, even before he could say those, Sandhya herself did it by supporting and protecting his family.

This is the first time that Sandhya is going to refuse this favor so curious to know what would be his reactions.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Oye Naina ki bachchi!
Why don't you start DFL i mean 'DABH FANTASY LEAGUE' and ask interesting questions.
E.g:- When will next aangan drama take place?
- Which color kurta will sooraj wear next time?
- When will next time Bhabho utter her fave dialogue : 'Ek langdo...'
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