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Posted: 11 years ago
I just don't understand ppl's inability to accept and respect other ppl's opinion . . .and that's what frustrating me so much . . .one thing i would really like to know is this important to watch every single epi of this show to give an opinion on sandhya's expressions ? .😕 . .expressions are not related with the history of character . .if we are saying that she needs a lil improvement on her angry expression it does not mean we are bashing her . . .we are just stating our genuine opinion . . .and i see ppl so openly call zakir a negative character . .ofc since he has behaved rudely . . .i think that's enough to label him as a negative character . . .well ppl can look at zakir from whatever angle they prefer . .there are many threads where zakir has been called mean, evil and what not . .but we never land in those threads defending him neither we report such posts stating that our sentiments are being hurt coz we arn't kids we understand that perception differs from person to person . . .and my biggest frustration is how ppl are labelling us as outsiders and giving us so many options and suggestions . . .the show is for everyone, actors are for everyone but we are not for everyone . .give whatever suggestions you want to give to the show or actors but pls don't try to guide us . . .as long as zakir is part of this show we are also the viewesr of this show . .and we will be giving our genuine opinions. . .if anyone does not like it that's not our problem.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Some one open wu thread for today. I havenot watched full episode.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Sonali_11

In my opinion Deepika is doing a perfect job as Cadet Sandhya, her expressions and everything goes well with the situation she has been in .. Naturally when you fail u loose the confidence and for getting it back u have to work real hard , more over when there r evil ppl like Zakir and officer Singh around who leave no stone unturned to demoralise you , you do need a partner like Suraj to build up the confidence all over again..
when she started off she had to suffer from cramps pain and then the pregnancy scare, All was well portrayed by Deepika and hats off to Cv's for such a realistic portrayal ..people who have just started watching the show can never connect with the characters of the show as they r a bit deep and we have been seeing every little detail of it since day one , so they can't really comment on what Sandhya is about.

Its fiction , so obviously there would be twists and turns and to add more spice they make it look like everything isnt smooth for Sandhya but later she wins ..Ofcourse shes the lead so they'll give it all in detail, Zakir is a cameo he wont be around for a long time , a negative character so obviously he would be bashed, usually grey shaded or villians of a particular show are very much disliked by audience , but fans of Neil have made it a matter of ego ..they bash Sandhya to either glorify Zakir or to defend his wrong doings ..Healthy discussion is ok , but some people just want to prove their point and keep arguing even when they know they are wrong, which is something I don't like. Secondly all the Neil fans have an option , they can read written update and catch up with Zakir scenes only rather than seeing the whole show and judge what Sandhya is doing ...
As far as Im concerned as I love the show , i have to bear a character like Zakir no matter how irritating i find him ..
I woud like to add , i really want Deepika to win best actress award for all the hard work she has put in for this training track ..I know she has already won few but for this brilliant portryal she deserves many more 😳



@red : have to disagree here straightaway...when did we report any post saying zakir is being bashed...have u read comments in our AT..we ourselve speaks against zakir..coz we r mature enough to understand that it is a grey shaded character unlike the likes of u who just cant stop scanning our AT and keep reporting each n every post...for your kind information we love neil in negative role he has done that before too..its nothing new for us..we r not like u guys who cannot take criticizim...we r the one who do healthy discussion here..u guys have made this place a fanclub where no one should criticize the character sandhya...

for u guys she may be the best actress...i respect ur love for her...but that does not mean whole world have same opinion about her..i have seen many shows and just one scene is enough to say who is brilliant actor and who is not..so we have seen far better actresses...and about about awards..do they mean anything..jiski trp high uske actor or actress ko ko de do award irrespective of whether they deserve it or not..see this is neutral opinion...u guys r biased...

why this intolerance towards criticism ...kya pehle kisine sach nahi kaha is forum..may be its new for u guys..right ???

u want criticize zakir..go on who is stopping u...asks the mod ..if its us or dabh members who are obsessed with reporting posts..

and by the way we dont even read WU coz one of us watch zakir scenes and tells us what to skip and what not to skip so pls dont bother about our pain in watching the episodes..coz we dont waste our time..itna tho dimaag hai...so pls all of u guys stop advising us what we should do and what we should not..

it would be gr8 if u guys show maturity in understanding the fact that ur show and ur characters have drawbacks...is it such a big deal.. LOL
Edited by nneeiill - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: thala

agree with you sonali

deepika deserves more award this time and iam sure she will win

she is giving perfect expressions for this track ⭐️
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stones are throwed on the tree which bears fruits😆

is this a frustration ?😕ramya i really want to know is this a FT or a AT what u have to say in this regard ?
or the rules are applicable to our AT exclusively...?😕
the frustration is why the rules are so conveniently broken by old members and noone is doing anything in this regard ? and ppl are moral policing us ? it is not tht we are scared or things like tht it is just tht it is FRUSTRATING ! hence the frustration
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Posted: 11 years ago
I am finding it hard to understand why there is so much resistance to difference in opinion and why negative feedback is being categorised as bashing with the aim of glorifying others, in this case Zakir. How is it logical that any amount of negative comments about Zakir is acceptable just because this character is grey or negative, however, honest opinion about lead's expressions or lack of it constitutes bashing? I disagree that one needs to watch every episode in order to be able to connect with the characters, and I say this with authority as I watched every single episode for almost two years and still failed to connect. My belief was that something will click one day for me to "connect" to this top rated show. Sorry, but it never happened and I took the option to stop watching and bashed myself for tolerating this for two years. I agree that Zakir has appeared as negative and has made derogatory remarks in an unpalatable manner. But having said that, I still feel that every one of his action/comment is accurate no matter how harsh. I have to bear with the show that I am disconnected to simply because I love Zakir's character and Neil's fantastic portrayal of this character. As for Deepika winning multiple awards, good on her, she is a hardworking individual, and I have no issues with that. It is my belief that there is no end to success and usually it is attention to constructive criticism that leads one to new heights.
Edited by Neerjalaher - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
I dont no wat this thread is turning into lol. I feel frustrated to peek in this thread. Either there is too too much frustration or so much arguments or praising, wishing for actors which is not a frustration. And hope people dont make this an episode discuss thread pls
Edited by -Ramya- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -Ramya-

I dont no wat this thread is turning into lol. I feel frustrated to peek in this thread. Either there is too too much frustration or so much arguments or praising, wishing for actors which is not a frustration. And hope people dont make this an episode discuss thread pls


i dont know about praising or wishing as far as i know this is frustration thread which is meant to state our dissatifcation regarding the character or actor or can convey dissatifaction about the forum post as a forum member i expect the mods or viewbee to pay attention rather getting frustrated in turn, i clearly see this thread is used as a platform to mock neil fans it happened wen someone said tht our AT is spamming ka adda in this frustration thread again it is happening wen one of the member mentioned her frustration regarding the expression of the lead actress the ppl are coming out with the false accusation on neil fans which isnt tolerable...i hope tht mods would take any action regarding this matter but if they chose to remain silent fine with us we will handle it at our own end...i hope next time if someone comes in our AT with the rules and regulation they will first take care about the rules and regulation tht is broken freely by the old members... to point out some...

1.calling members spammers or at as SPAMMING KA ADDA IS clearly against the rules of IF
2.moral policing at any cost is against the rules of IF the preaching attitude of some members need to be checked
3. spamming each post with TFS or TFS akka is against the rules of iF
4. passing personal comments to the members in the name of healthy discussion isnt allowed in IF
5. entering the AT without becoming a member isnt allowed
6.making multiple post on actress as actress rocks or how beautiful her smile isnt allowed the AT are meant for it... tom we can also come with the posts how handsome the actor looks or the eyes are beautiful or smile is great ...but tht would clutter the forum...we have our AT for tht
we would love to follow the rules and regulation... but we expect same from the other members or should we assume tht all the rules and regulation are meant for our AT...
Edited by arti07 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
Aarit07 and nneil , I don't think there was any need to quote and reply me back ...I was giving my opinion on our lead's performance in the show n as its the training track I discussed Zakir and Singh's attitude cause they are the ones who have been demoralising Sandhya nd treating her badly,In the same way in another post on our forum I praised Roma and Rahul for being good friends .. I wonder all the people above have preached us to respect each others opinion but they are themselves not able to do so that is why I find their statements very contradictory.

To be honest , I not only find Zakir's character irritating , I don't like the actor who is playing the character...The team has been telling him the same and few scenes were edited too..If he has been doing shows as a lead ,he shoud have learned to improve himself by now .

So guys if u really claim to respect others opinion , prove it to me and don't come up with any silly justifications to change my opinion ..Just let it be .


Edited by -Ramya- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
^ read ur comments again u quoted neil fans tht is why we replied we dont care if u find him undeserving...ur views respect it wat took u so long to state...go ahead😆
and there is no frurstration regarding this mods u can happily remove the comments as it isnt related to the topic
Edited by arti07 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
aarti07 I did say Neil fans but I didnt talk about any particular member but you and nneil quoted and replied me back as if I was talking about you both.
Regarding my suggestion to Neil fans ,It was given in a good will .See, why would someone invest time to see something which they don't like ? I don't atleast .
If someone is interested in watching the show or not ,If someone likes cadet Sandhya or not , its up to them why would I be bothered anyway ?
Aarti I didnt state my opinion about actor Neil earlier as morally I thought It doesnt look good to say such things infront of his fans as they might feel offended...But since all of you were cool with respecting each others opinion I stated things honestly.
Edited by Sonali_11 - 11 years ago

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