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Fatima

@Fatima_Q

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

I'm with you on this one UMDU ji. You've covered all the bases...I just want to add...

How hypocritical...that Suraj suddenly is concerned about how Bhabo will make 5kg of sweets all alone and like the good son decides to stay back to help. What about the 2 ton bomb that's going to blast on the very same Bhabo's heart when she finds out about SurYa's deception?

Also...Sandhya stands before her parents' photo and asks for ashirvaad. But I wonder if they are smiling or frowning down on her for her deception. 😕

Granted Bhabo is rigid...one can argue that she is even wrong...but 2 wrongs suddenly don't make a right.

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Fatima

@Fatima_Q

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: sita11
Superb post maam 👍🏼
the whole show is so fake🥱
i hv stopped watching it since last 2 weeks
just make a sneak peek at this forum for knowing the happenings in the show

I agree Sita...plus SurYa are so thanda...that it's getting a bit boring. 😆

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ladyterp

@ladyterp

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ami_dabh
Finally, AK-47 fired in the full swing.🤪.🤣.

I was about to add following point but you'd covered it:-. <font color="#3300ff">"The youngsters may argue that girls do go for
call center jobs in the night. Yes they do but mostly in bigger cities
and with the approval of their parents not on the sly.</font>" -- I didn't take approval of my parents. They're unaware about it until I informed them. If I asked them then they'd never allowed me to work.👎🏼.

So, Sorry I have nothing to offer..😔..

I better go for a jogging with Oppan Gangam Style..

Ami, wow. You are a brave girl :-) Wait until you have your own kids...I'd like to hear what you will say then.

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-SamiR-

@-SamiR-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: UMDU
Thank you SamiRji for your inputs. I like your practical take on things , but my problem is my die hard romantic predisposition. I wanted the future tracks to be full of romance atleast 50% of the serial time devoted to that. This past one year went by without DBC. We accepted it hoping for it to take place sometime in the near future. With so many problems as listed by me , all their energy and thinking will go into solving them and remaining tense all the time. Kya apko lagta hai aise mahol main romance possible hai ?Let me be politically correct here and say , we watch the serial for other reasons as well like a supportive husband, fight against traditional mindset etc etc...However the main USP of the serial is the romance between Suraj and Sandhya. If that takes a backseat permanently and we are made to wait indefinitely than the serial to my mind will lose its charm.

I would have to agree with you that romance has taken a back seat. The few attempts CVs have made recently have gone in vain; the mattar romance wasn't portrayed that well, and the hug in the latest epi was only ordinary. There are foreseeable opportunities for romantic scenes in the future track, but I don't know if CVs will take these opportunities 😕. I was anticipating the daily scooter rides to and from Ajmer 😳, but if the rumor about taxi driver is correct, then not much hope left for scooter romance . (oops, I'm focusing on spoiler rumors again ). But like you said, it's hard to forecast any romance with so many dark clouds ahead; I can only sense hurricane Bhabho 😆. Let's see if and how CVs can make possible "romance: impossible". Lucky for me, I'm able to survive very long without romantic scenes (which is probably why I'm not minding the current track so much) 😆

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Bharathi

@b2011

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

A good post from you after a long time Uma.

The only answer for all the unrealistic things mentioned here is Suraj has decided to help Sandhya achieve her dream at any cost, be it finding a night college with such timings, lying/hiding from Bhabho, sending Sandhya to college alone in the middle of the night and many more things going to happen in the future and not even willing to think about any consequence that might result once this comes out.

I am feeling so sorry for Sandhya in the future. Her decision to forget her dream was the right one. The yesterday's scenario where Suraj opts to stay home to help his mother is symbolic of what might happen when situation worses.

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.Ami.

@.Ami.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ummesulaiman
I agree Sita...plus SurYa are so thanda...that it's getting a bit boring. 😆

Winter main thande hi rahenge na until they don't attempt for..☺️ 😆

One song coming in my mind on "thandaa" keyword which is sung by lata mangeshkar.
Mausam hai thanda thanda, aa khele Geele danda
toh bada maja aayega, badaa hii maja aayega
Maiyya ? choree choree, main aayee daudee daudee
Jo pata chal jayega toh bada maja...

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A.hemalatha.kini

@TOTAL-ROMANTIC

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Beautiful post dear..Aweseome.👏..It is unrea;istic in many ways according to me🤢My main complaint is the Hubby wife unconditionla love is shown..but the beauty of the love culminating in both Physical & mental aspect is still not shown..!! They behave like untouchables..even after accepting so much love..why are they still not showing consumation & a NORMAL hubby wify..TOUCHY moments when ALONE..😡..but still My FAV & best show ..🤗Because when I love .I love unconditionally too😆😭

Edited by TOTAL-ROMANTIC - 12 years ago

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.Ami.

@.Ami.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: ladyterp

Ami, wow. You are a brave girl :-) Wait until you have your own kids...I'd like to hear what you will say then.

No I am not a brave girl. I am nutty-headed girl yo!! I was highly ambitious + career oriented person throughout academic life n never valued relationship in life. Only I was aiming to have sound career..😕..N I was in my 18's -- teenage where one can go through so many hormonal changes so likely to make mistake esp if someone who's hyperactive like me n don't know the difference between what's right or wrong.😒.

Just imagine how my kids will be??..I start die 😆 🤣..I better don't produce any kid.😃.

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akku8910

@akku8910

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Umduji a very sensible post from u.The points u have raised did go thru my mind ever since i watched yesterday's episode.The thought of going all out alone by Sandhya in a town like pushkar was totally absurd .As per experience it is almost difficult 4 a girl 2 go out alone that too at the dead of night without any1 acoompanying even now in indian society which has tym and again proved in newspapers.Barring a few big cities in a town like Pushkar and with a close knit society potrayed in DABH it is almost impossible 4 a girl 2 venture out in the night. Secondly how could Sandhya compare her going out at night with after she becomes an IPS officer.As u pointed out first of all they r trained 2 face such situations and secondly an IPS officer always have an escort and a gunman when she/he is on duty and even at their residence.

My stand on this secret education was negative from the beginning.The whole scenario seems unrealistic 4 me.There was a tym they could have emotionally blackmailed Bhabo and get her convinced.How could Sandhya sneak out every night without the knowledge of family members.The CV's have messed up this whole track.

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Inandan397

@Inandan397

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Pea Romance is Cute Like Mopping Fight , Bedroll Fight Romance . Its so Simple and Cute Both Fighting Naughyly 😊

The Hug - I Liked the Hug of Yesterday Episode , Its Epitome of their feelings

Sandhya Simply Falling in His Arms For his Support without a word and Shedding Happy Tears and Feeling his warmth of Love , care which She used to get with Her Parents and Suraj Sharing a feel am Here with U .We are All the way together . Thats a Epitome Feeling Which Could Not be Described with words

I appreciate Her Character Portrayal by CV , Sandhya Not Giving up her Dedication for even a simple a small Hurdle , and Not Showing her Like a Meeked Girl who Stops Taking Her Day without getting Individualistic

She can Continue Her Studies in Night College Under Proper Safety Measures , Even Now a Days Many are doing Call center Job in Night Shifts and Software Professionals Are Picked from their Home in Nights 😊

But I wish th Truth Get revelaed as Soon as Possible , Not Every Day Lets u Escape Easily 😊

If the Truth gets Revealed Bhabo can also convince with IPS and Let them Shift to Ajmeer

Looking Forward for Upcoming Tracks 😊