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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry I am late Vishnu!😳

Brilliant thread you have made brother!
I would love to add one of Bhabo's dialogues from that epi when a lday comes and asks abt Sudha and her family.

" A lie if it is told for someone's welfare is better than 100 truths!''


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for this wonderful thread Naren. There are so many I can say, but at the moment I can recollect the below. Sorry yar I just can't remember the episode dates etc but will do my best to provide some other details so that all of u can recognise it.

1) When u trust your partner without a second thought just give them some time and space. When Suraj went to rescue Vikram and Meena (during their outing on the occasion of wedding anniversary) that was very late night when he left the house. Sandhya did ask Suraj where he is going during that time but when he said that he will inform everything once he comes in next day, she is satisfied and just kept quite. I just loved it, that's a good lesson for me as I will be so furious and don't even hesitate to stop my husband until I know the reason if the same case arises.

2) As Sandhya said in one epi that because her husband respects his mother, she is doing the same. That's the best message ever for all married couples, because we are bonded to the new family and relatives after marriage we just follow & trust our partners in finding out who is good and who is bad

3) A main lesson from most of the episodes is just love and respect elders to the core forgetting everything they did for you. Like Sandhya adore Bhabho though she faced so many issues due to her MIL.

4) Best thing I learnt from Surya relation is just understand your partner to the core, for this u don't have to talk too much, just observe each and every step of your partner, think from their perspective , understand their feelings and then react. If you do this, you start perceiving some positivity in all their wrongdoings. (As Sandhya did when Suraj started being very rude with her after finding divorce papers)

5) Last but not the least is how to stick to the dreams(in one epi where Sandhya inspire Suraj initially), how to fulfil them, how to inspire our loved ones(27/07/2012 episode, the pool scene).

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sadhana...You wonderfully mentioned some of the lovely messages/lessons we learnt from DABH !👍🏼
Edited by farhana874 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: farhana874

Sadhana...You wonderfully mentioned some of the lovely messages/lessons we learnt from DABH !👍🏼

Thanks Farhana for the compliments. There are many more I think... will pen down soon.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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30 July 2012: No matter how old we are we always remain ours mothers child ... the bond is unconditional and forever ... there is no substitute to a mother ... no influence is as powerful as that of a mothers ... remembering the moments spent with and by them can move mountains to tears!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderfully said TnJ!! Best gyaan from today's episode!😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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30th July epi
Lessons-
1) refer to TnJ post - mothers love forever -mother-child bond never breaks... Jayant nostalgic abt his mom's ladoos

2) Always think of your family members and their feelings especially on festivals like raksha bandhan

3) Food is the best answer to improving or creating new relationships -like Bhabasa sharing ladoos with Jayant and his son... a special bond is being formed between them and even Bhabho seemed happy that the little boy enjoyed the ladoo so much

4) This is a lesson that bhabho has learnt and that is to trust and have faith in Sandhya when she asks for a chance to do good - in this case to help Suraj overcome his fear...

I also would like to write abt the lessons that these each of these characters have given me...
1) Suraj
Love for the family, patience to listen, respect for his parents that even when they r in the wrong he would not go against them in a way that could hurt their feelings, being non-judgemental abt ppl

2) Sandhya
Courage, self confidence, determination, persistence and spirit to never give up... Besides that soft-spoken, most of Suraj's qualities

3) Bhabho
For the love and good of the family to be willing to make compromises. Being a disciplinary in her own style, her love for her children esp Suraj...
Sorry I can point out more faults where Bhabho is concerned... Her character taught me what I should not do and avoid and that is being judgemental, jumping to conclusions, listening to gossip and believing in it etc

4) Bhabasa
He is more like Suraj or rather the other way round... both Suraj and Bhabasa a very much alike in many ways the only difference is that Suraj loves cooking and Bhabasa loves eating.
Bhabasa is the peace maker in the family and is always encouraging and positive when things get messy around the house. He too like Suraj gets affected easily when somebody in the family is hurting and gets equally happy and excited when it is celebration time in the family.

I could comment on the others in the family at another time... hope u enjoy this post




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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Tnj:- Excellent description about Mother's value..👍🏼

N I'll take it further..

A "Mother" is more than just a woman, wife. She is one with filled up with love, honor...She's the one who comforts us day n night,teaches wrong from right..She knows when we're Worried, Joyed, Sorry, What's inside us. She's beyond God or say living existence of the God..❤️ 👍🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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U Shared Everything , Yes i had a point to share

3o July 2012 -- Methi Said Sorry to Suraj , and requested him to start the Dishes


Gyan of Episode ..

" Never Underestimate anyone ,U Dont know how talented they are till the moment u need their Help "



Edited by bud2012 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She Pampers him very caringly and understands his every need more than him .

She gifted him a Wrist Watch and said to have it with u all the time during competetion , which helps u and u can utilise ur time very carefully in Competetion


Gyan to Viewers :

" It Doesn't Matter how Fast u are in this World , it Matters only how Fastly u are Moving with Time ,and learn to Move with time and utilise it to pave success to ur Path "

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