can someone answer this question for me?? - Page 9

Originally posted by: imzi91

well i agree with some of you guys..i def side wiht ridz...i mean as much as i side with ammy too..they both have their faults... where i found armaan at fault and still today he is...is the fact that he didn't tell ridz about the whole truth about muskaan and patyala and stuff...but he asked her for forgiveness..but still if ANY girl was in ridz's place she would probably reject armi too...fair enough .and ridz is at fault at the fact that first she made armaan the type of person who now can't live without her..and then all of sudden she says we're friends...ok I DEF understand that any girl who gives a crap about her izzzat and stuff would def make sure the guy is set for her instead of just playin around with him..so i understand that ridz does have the right to think abt wehter she can be with armi or not..or wehter her family will accept him and if they're made for each other.,..but where i find her at fault is that SHE SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT OF THAT BEFORE i mean like where did that thought go when she confessed to him in january...
so they both have there faults...
i hope my post helped a bit 😆

she shud have given it a long hard thought before committing as you say! Thank you imzi 91 for your post. Wish they wud sit, talk and clear it out instead of making us suffer thru the "pranks"

Nice post Gina!!! I have also given up trying and figuring out Ridz's character......
I also am at a loss to understand...how 2 people so much in love with each other behave like this (pranks and all) ......
Everyday I just read the update and then feel like not watching the show!!!!!

hi! everyone. i am sonia. this post is very nice and i am happy that all had such healthy discussion. i especially liked the way sneha wrote about ridz point of view.
i like both arman and ridhma. but i just like ridhma's character more. i sometimes feel sad that most of u dont look into the issue in ridz point of view. i dont want to get into any argument with u about this. and now i would like to answer a question which many of u are asking. "if arman wants to change for ridz why dosent she allow him to change? why does she not not like the change? if arman is all happy to change himself for her, what is ridz's problem?"
here is the answer for above questions. if arman is all happy to change himself for ridz then no problem. but the problem here is that arman dosent like the change himself. if u all remember the scene between arman and ridhma (near the fire escape) just before arman left sanjeevani, then arman told ridz "me khud ko tumhare layak banathe banathe thak gaya hu. it is enough of it. i cant take it any more." this itself means that arman himself is not happy to change himself for ridhma. may be keeping this in mind ridz is thinking that aramn should not change himself. and thats why she wants old arman to be back so that he can be happy.
one mare thing, many of u were saying that ridz is spoiling arman's professional life by making him bad in front of Dr.K and Shashank. u also have said A never did anything like this to R. but i dont agree with u all. on the very first day itself A did that accident acting and made rids bad in front of Dr.K and Shashank. later there were two incidents when he gave wrong pager to ridz, sent her to OPT and made her get scoldings from Dr.K . also arman took away ridz's labcoat, dupatta and irritated her once.
one thing is neither A nor R is completely right. both are responsible for their break up. it is not any one's fault.

and i would like to say one thing to all of u. plzz dont hate ridz character. she is very nice at heart and always ready to help arman when he needs. if u remember the minie scene. even though arman told many harsh things to ridz, she listened to all those soo patiently. she never left his side at that time because she knew he needed her. so she was all by his side to help him, console him.

i dont know if i could clarify any of ur doubts. dont bash me if u didnt like my post. sorry if i hurt any one. i only wanted to support ridz. i especially thank sneha for taking ridz side. many a times even i am confused about ridz character, but still i like her character very much.

Originally posted by: sony_123

hi! everyone. i am sonia. this post is very nice and i am happy that all had such healthy discussion. i especially liked the way sneha wrote about ridz point of view.
i like both arman and ridhma. but i just like ridhma's character more. i sometimes feel sad that most of u dont look into the issue in ridz point of view. i dont want to get into any argument with u about this. and now i would like to answer a question which many of u are asking. "if arman wants to change for ridz why dosent she allow him to change? why does she not not like the change? if arman is all happy to change himself for her, what is ridz's problem?"
here is the answer for above questions. if arman is all happy to change himself for ridz then no problem. but the problem here is that arman dosent like the change himself. if u all remember the scene between arman and ridhma (near the fire escape) just before arman left sanjeevani, then arman told ridz "me khud ko tumhare layak banathe banathe thak gaya hu. it is enough of it. i cant take it any more." this itself means that arman himself is not happy to change himself for ridhma. Thats b'coz no matter wot armaan does she is never happy...she gets upset over his little thngs like for instance the game they played choosing BF/GF she got al upset n left.. she wasnt mad though armaan managed to cool her down...but the epi after that where he kept sayin ILU in diff ways... ridzi saw for herself that armaan would neva proclaim their love in public unless she ready for it remeber sabko pachaas pachass rupees mein pataya... how long can a guy keep on pushing limits???he would surely burst out n thats exactly wot happn i guess...may be keeping this in mind ridz is thinking that aramn should not change himself. and thats why she wants old arman to be back so that he can be happy.
one mare thing, many of u were saying that ridz is spoiling arman's professional life by making him bad in front of Dr.K and Shashank. u also have said A never did anything like this to R. but i dont agree with u all. on the very first day itself A did that accident acting and made rids bad in front of Dr.K and Shashank. later there were two incidents when he gave wrong pager to ridz, sent her to OPT and made her get scoldings from Dr.K . also arman took away ridz's labcoat, dupatta and irritated her once.but he has never made her look like a complete fool like she did by stealing his clothes n itching powder n stuff....completely childish
one thing is neither A nor R is completely right. both are responsible for their break up. it is not any one's fault.ya agree on that too...they both r at fault...

and i would like to say one thing to all of u. plzz dont hate ridz character. she is very nice at heart and always ready to help arman when he needs. if u remember the minie scene. even though arman told many harsh things to ridz, she listened to all those soo patiently. she never left his side at that time because she knew he needed her. so she was all by his side to help him, console him.ya ridzi does help him but i thnk of late shes causing him more trouble then help

i dont know if i could clarify any of ur doubts. dont bash me if u didnt like my
post. sorry if i hurt any one. i only wanted to support ridz. i especially thank sneha for taking ridz side. many a times even i am confused about ridz character, but still i like her character very much.

well nobody's gonna bash u...every1 entitled to hv their own opinion...u hv urs...agree wid u on sum pts...but ridzi puzzles me like nethng...

i was also abt 2 post dis topic. yaa armaan pranks r nt dat kind wich wud effect her career. if u remembr ridz said armaan ki main tumhari terah nhii hun jo apni personal liofe ko profession mein laun n armaan said tum mahan ho riddhima.
bt now i think ridz is only mixing her professional life wid personal. if she wnt 2 play pranks she can play out of sanjeevani. now i hope in dat cake issue shashank scoldes ridz n armaan say lie dat it was all his fault 2 protect ridz n may b den ridz realize dat he is still in love wid her.

Originally posted by: dmg_mania

Nice post Gina!!! I have also given up trying and figuring out Ridz's character......
I also am at a loss to understand...how 2 people so much in love with each other behave like this (pranks and all) ......
Everyday I just read the update and then feel like not watching the show!!!!!

Am glad you liked it. Yeah sadly the show has lost its charm.

hey applauses to u for this post....i know u must have taken all ur time n energy to make this post !!!! u hv put it down in the rite words i must say ..... 👏

really i think defending ridz is a waste of time....i dunno what more to say coz all of u have put down what i wanted to convey....no offence to anyone 😊

but 1 thing i wud like to ask - shud we bash riddhima in such a harsh way ? is it rite in our part ? im not defending her....but all of us know that so much bashing is not allowed in IF ....but i really feel like crying wen i c what all circumstances he had to go thru....but no of us can change riddhima's attitude towards armaan , can we ? and after all...its a serial , reel life...not real life ! i repeat again plzz bash a bit less n i mean no offence to anyone

Originally posted by: devilofkindness

hey applauses to u for this post....i know u must have taken all ur time n energy to make this post !!!! u hv put it down in the rite words i must say ..... 👏

really i think defending ridz is a waste of time....i dunno what more to say coz all of u have put down what i wanted to convey....no offence to anyone 😊

but 1 thing i wud like to ask - shud we bash riddhima in such a harsh way ? is it rite in our part ? im not defending her....but all of us know that so much bashing is not allowed in IF ....but i really feel like crying wen i c what all circumstances he had to go thru....but no of us can change riddhima's attitude towards armaan , can we ? and after all...its a serial , reel life...not real life ! i repeat again plzz bash a bit less n i mean no offence to anyone

Hey! thanks for posting your views! we are not bashing her. just trying to understand things from her perspective. 😃

Originally posted by: ginak

Hey! thanks for posting your views! we are not bashing her. just trying to understand things from her perspective. 😃

ok im not picking up a controversy but 1 thing i wud like to ask -

agreed that ur not bashing her....but trying to understand things from her perspective....but who knows this will not turn into a topic for bashing her ?

again im not offending u😊

Originally posted by: devilofkindness

ok im not picking up a controversy but 1 thing i wud like to ask -

agreed that ur not bashing her....but trying to understand things from her perspective....but who knows this will not turn into a topic for bashing her ?

again im not offending u😊

I agree..... sometimes post like this turn into bashing sessions but you have to chk out this post... I think this was a very healthy discussion... you will see opinions from both the sides very well put together.....

You have done a great job Gina.. !!👏