Special Touch

Hey guys it's Valentine's Day (more like the day after Vday) and after watching today's episode I realized something and thought we could have a good discussion about it....😆 (as you can all see I just happen to love discussions!)

This special touch we have seen continously in DMG...and obviously through out our own lives...but the thing is that have you ever wondered what it is about this special touch that gives you the ability/capability/or even the emotion to forgive and maybe even forget everything?

This special touch is not only observed and felt in a significant other relationship, but also in a familial, friendship, and human relationship..

Examples:

Sapna and her collisions with Shubhankar--She seemed to always forget her surroundings and go into a surreal world.

Dr. Shashank trying to hug Ridz after Ridz found out she was adopted...

Anjali and Ridz hugging when Anjali thought she was adopted...

Armu, disguised with a pagdi, touching Ridz hand accidentally..

Armu accidentally kissing Ridz on the cheek...

Angie asking Atul to hold her hand for the New Years Party dance...

Ridz brushing her hand against Armu when Armu was falling in love with her...

Ridz assuring Sumit everything will be okay...

Padma and Ridz interaction before she goes in for her surgery...

Have you ever wondered what exactly these touches mean? And why they affect us so much? Why do they make us feel special, or consider someone so special?

Would love to read your thoughts! Also feel free to include other examples from the show or your own life! 😊

Hey Shweta Di..I can def. see u love discussions..I like this one because I have been thinking about this too. How when they touch everything changes..today (the kiss) it seemed to make Ridhima forget her anger..which I thought was sweet..

Am too tired to add more now..and I know this was a short post but will try and come back tom and add more! Let me think about this a bit more!

Kajal 😛

Very true hun
and i really do agree with when Armaan was in disguise Riddhima felt Armaan without knowing it is Armaan

and yes the kiss scenes
She sure did forget the anger
that was soo cuutteeeee
also when

when they Armaan pulled Rid into the stair case long time ago and they kept looking at each other until armaan help Riddhimas hand and then she realised

very nice topic sweety 👏

ki gaal aa shweta, baadi phylosophical mood mein hai tusi!!! haan haan mainu paata aa thwanu discussion karna baadai changa lagda aa! ta meinu vi!!!!!

well its quite a deep question you have asked, one that is very difficult to define. i myself have a hard time dealing with differnt emotions. i sometimes wonder why i feel so strongly towards the ones i love. to the point were i could die for them and die without them! how can these special ppl stirr such powerful emotions with in us?

i dont think it has anything to do with blood relationships, its more to do with the bond between hearts and souls.

like the case between ridz and sumit. that is an example of human kindness. when we see someone in need, the compassion instinct within us is awoken. i think its more of a reflex.

then with ridz and her family members. wheater its a blood bond, or a bond between hearts, its love. its a part of us. they are a constant in our lives. we become so dependent on those ppl (our parents, sibblings, family members, best friends) we find it very difficult to live without them. and i think its because we need them. they are there for us, so when they need us, we are there for them! thats what family and friends are for!

and finally armaan and riddhima! now thats something i really cant define. you must experiance love to fully understand its magic, so im no expert! but form what i do know, we fight with those who we love the most! and riddhima and armaan are madly in love! so its natural for them to behave the way they do. they cant help it, their in love! and love makes you do crazy things...so i hear! haha

so as far as these special touches go, i think they trigger these paticular emotions within us. thats why we react to them in such ways! when touched by certain ppl, certain emotions are triggered!!!

hahah ok im no psychologist or relationship specialist, but i just wrote how i felt 😊 thanks for the awsome topic shweta dear!

Hey guys wonderful responses! I agree with each one of you.
Kajal---jab neend se uttho ge tab thorde aur thoughts bhi dena! Tuade opinions da besabri se intezaar hai! 😉
Gagan--I agree with your interpretation of the examples, as well as the examples you have given. Nice to know people notice such beautiful things about DMG as well! 😊

Robin---aaj kal lagda ee ke meinu discussions da chaska chard gaya! 😆 par tussi jho vi boleya vaadiya boleya! it's true that you have to experience love to completely understand or at least attempt to completely understand it....but I also think love can be understood in any relationship. 😳

Kanu ji---ab main tuanu ki dassa? pyar se pyar tho mujhe hamesha se tha..par inni discussions pyar de baare main nahin karsaki kiddhe naal! 😆
but I agree it's a special sensation that can make you do all sorts of things.


So what I think is that a special touch does give you the sense of belongingness and acceptance...the acceptance that the other has accepted you as you are.
Dr. Shashank waiting for a hug from Ridz--the acceptance that despite the truth things won't change.

Ridz and Sumit---the understanding that although I'm not in your position...I am able to understand what you are going through...it's hard, but I'm here for you as not only your doctor, but as a compassionate human being.

Sapna and Shubhankar---the collision that sends you to a surreal world, where your dreams and desires are the only things that are visible to you. Nothing else matters at the moment.

Armu and Ridz---the touch that displays I'm apart of you even though we are two seperate beings. I could recognize your touch, even though I can't see you. I could feel your presence even though I can't see you. A rishta that has formed through the heart and soul even though we are not completely one yet.
The touch that I know you care for me as well...and that's why it just makes me forgive you instantly.

I think a special touch gives rise to those emotions in one that one is not clearly conscious of. And that's what makes it so special. Love is interpreted in so many ways and one of the ways is a physical touch that strikes a chord in your heart and soul.

Again this is just what I think. Please do tell me more on what you think! 😳 😊

very true
love is in the air
every touch has a spell of love 😉

Hey Sweta!
u sure do luv discusions na..
n i luv to participate in der😃
K from my point of view i think..special touch is sumthin tht totalli melts ur heart..
it doesnt onlii have to be wen ur in luv..Like u gave so mani examples to it..
Most of the tyme it depends on wah kiinda mood u hav.. buh if u Luv sum1 n if u r angry wid dem.. Trust me if they hugged u or sumthin u can jus resists their touch.. n u wont be mad nemore..
well yeh!! Hope i make sense😕😆

Lotsa luv;Hira😛

Hey Shweta di
i agree one touch is worth a million sometimes
sometimes its just the touch which assures u that someone is there for u
it means a lot as it is filled with love and affection
i am not that much a romantic person but as i have a boyfriend i exactly know how it feels but that doesnt mean that the touch is important for the loved one only
a motherly touch, sisterly touch ,friendly touch all speak for their own
lovely topic

LOve
Natasha

there wz a similat topic like this b4
but it wz on how a hug cn mean different things,
i think like a hug all the touches u described r unique
and each hav their own meaning!

Hi!

What a philosophical post Shweta and that too on a Friday night (in the UK) 👏...

I'm speechless... Tumne Sochne par majboor kardia hai 😆...

I have no answer... Soch kar I'll come and edit this 😆...

Take Care!

Love, Hope & Best Wishes