Riddhima- on way to self realization? - Page 3

Originally posted by: bheegi

HI everyone

After revealing the truth to Sid yesterday, Riddhima is finally - slowly but surely- on the path of self realization.

1. Main tum dono ke pyaar ke laayak nahin hoon👏 Finally, she said what we have been saying for ages. Earlier, it was tum dono mere laayak nahin ho but she has finally realized that she doesn't deserve either guy. Haan..you dont deserve either of them..

2. Armaan, tum mujh se itna pyaar kyun karte ho? Yeh jaante huye bhi ki mujh mein sach ka saamna karne ki himmat nahin hai! 👏 WOW! Did she indirectly say that yes Armaan, I still love you but cannot speak the truth because I am very timid??? Its a funny dialog actually.. If she has the courage to accept that she does not have the courage to face the truth, then why not accept the truth itself?

3. Sid, tumhare saath reh kar bhi maine kisi aur ke kareeb aane ki galti ki phir bhi tum Armaan ko mere pyaar ka saboot de rahe ho. What did this dialogue actually mean? I am a bit confused- did she mean that despite living with you, i made the mistake of getting closer to someone else, then why are you still asking for proof of my love ? Your love?? Please enlighten me if anyone understood the meaning of this dialogue.I think she meant, Inspite of knowing that I got intimate with some one else, you are still trying to prove that you love me?

4.Main bahut buri hoon....yes those two men are fighting like animals for a confused woman like you.yepp.. do something about it.. dont just keep saying it

My question to Riddhima...

When she asks Armaan, do you think I got intimate with you because of love? Hello, what was it then Riddhima? Lust???? You are such an uptight woman just like armaan said that u wouldn't let anyone touch you unless they have touched ur heart. Can you please explain this statement of denial by you???? The problem with her is, she always tries to hide her feelings thinking that it will make her strong..but if you want to be strong, you need to face them, not run away from them..

At least, I am happy she has started realizing who she is and what she has done. I have always wanted her to be independent for sometime with no men in her life so she can work on her self esteem and self respect....hope she will do that now. Don't choose any man right now Riddhima. Men mess you up....go and work somewhere where you get satisfaction from serving others. May be at a later date, you can decide if you want any men in ur life. Some women are just better off without men hovering over them. @red.. hi5

As usual.. Brilliant post Sangeeta👏

Originally posted by: -Veena-

Great topic Bheegi..

Riddima has never been very clear about her feelings ever.. about 3 confessions.. and counting .. and more and more of these situations.

She needs to really sort it out. Right now she is in the delima of loving a person (Armaan) and duty toward a person (Sid) she is stuck and she will not make a decision soon unless there is some life threating situation that makes her choose.

@ the 3rd dialogue you have that Ridz said to Sid..

This is what i think she is saying.. that

Even being your wife i got intimate with Armaan and you are justifying your love for me??

So basically .. you know i got intimate with Armaan but you are still telling him that you love him..

In all this .. Ridz has confused the two of them again.. and is confused herself again and now who makes a decision.. there are three lifes at stake here!?

yes Veena...she is finally waking up and maybe this will be the big development of her character as the serial ends. Yeah,that dialogue is very confusing. Right now it would be good if all 3 main characters stay apart, introspect, calm down and then rethink about what really happened and what they want

Originally posted by: bheegi

i agree nandini. She is a very insecure and timid girl. That's why some time away from everyone will hopefully give her the strength. maybe when she spends time with shilpa, she will realize that shilpa has nolove in her life, but even then is a stronger woman. Her sister might actually help get Ridzie her real identity back...am i asking too much from the Cvs? lolz

Originally posted by: gia.khan

Okie can someone clearify this for mee please!

when shilpa asked her whats wrong

did ridhima choke "PYAAR" :|:|:|:|

no she said Armaan!!😊 but i guess pyaar and Armaan mean the same😉

@ Nish...thanks and I agree that's what she meant when she said that to Sid but i don't think he got it,neither did Armaan

Originally posted by: -Veena-

Ridz has not always been timid (Suki times with Armaan!).. but yes surely insecure..

It is always when it is a extreme situation that she can't just think rationally.. else she usually has a good head on her shoulder (errm.. not currently)

She is lost right now.. She is living for others more than herself.. she needs to find herself... we don't have much time.. but hope that realization is soon.!!!

i wonder if shilpa will help her there or maybe time away from the men will help her

Originally posted by: gia.khan

Okie can someone clearify this for mee please!

when shilpa asked her whats wrong

did ridhima choke "PYAAR" :|:|:|:|