can i empathise or not?

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@leeseunggilove

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

hey guys....this is officially my very first topic in the forum...😳😳

ok you know i can sort of feel riddhima's apprehension and the misery that she is being subjected to...on one hand she has a husband who loves her..on the other side of the dimension is an ex-lover,who still claims to be in love with her....in a nut shell she is at crossroads in life where she cant understand whether to move forward or cling to her past....

ok after today..thats what i felt..that we have bashed riddhima..but we should try n reflect our attention towards her woe begone life....n what she is subjected to...

guys am i wrong in thinking about this in this way??

and also..is armaan the villain in her life...

because even though i understand the fact that riddhima herself never moved forward n whenever she tried to embrace her future with sid..armaan always came out of the shadows to make her aware of his presence in her life....

but all said and dne..all i can say is that i find armaan as a character wrong at present...because neither can he move forwrd..or rather is not willing enough..but he isn's willing to let anyone else do so too.....

so i dont have a conclusion because i as a viewer am too confused n baffled by the present story line....

note:all AR-ians,KaJen-ians and DMG-ians are invited in this post...ONLY IF THEY HAVE ANYTHING SENSIBLE ENOUGH TO SAY....

NO BASHING ALLOWED.....

LETS DISCUSS THE POST IN A POLITE MANNER.....WITHOUT OFFENDING ANY FAN....

thank you for reading..

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Naina.M

@Naina.M

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

Our character is revealed when we face such situations in life.

Its either - weak or strong

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pooja

@uppaas

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

Exactly I loved your post what is th epoint of this love when it is giving you tears only and today even if Ridz does telll sid she loves armaan ..can AR have a good and a happy relationship at the cost of a butchered SID..they both will die of shame and guilt ..

armaan is sadistcally LIVID unresonable...I think he is a selfish oerson who does not care even for Ridz as he wants to POSSEES...

ut all said and dne..all i can say is that i find armaan as a character wrong at present...because neither can he move forwrd..or rather is not willing enough..but he isn's willing to let anyone else do so too....

Agreed👏👏👏👏👏👏

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pavs

@pavs

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 15 years ago

the way AR has been behaving is dissapointing to say the least...arman has become so matlabi to get his love tht he has forgotten the distinction between right and worng..n riddhima has become a puppet in his hand....she is such a pathetically weak character tht neither she has the courage to stick to her committments nor she has the tenacity to dissasociate with her past....she is at crossroads but she is herself to be blamed for her condition....only one perosn has to pay the price for her perpetual confusion-sid...its sad, its stupid but thtz how the cvs have made th eleads look like1

btw good post

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naureen

@Norz

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: luv_wacko
hey guys....this is officially my very first topic in the forum...😳😳

dimension is an ex-lover,who still claims to be in love with her armaan doesnt claim but he is from very start in love with riddhima

and also..is armaan the villain in her life..armaan the villian no way riddhiam herself is the villian of her life armaans life and sid life.

because even though i understand the fact that riddhima herself never moved forward n whenever she tried to embrace her future with sid..armaan always came out of the shadows to make her aware of his presence in her life....comming out of shadow armaan is there she is the one who cannot see the truth

but all said and dne..all i can say is that i find armaan as a character wrong at present...because neither can he move forwrd..or rather is not willing enough..but he isn's willing to let anyone else do so too.....

i totally disagree with u how can he moved forward when love of his life has not he has never stop riddhima to move in her life she is the one always confused state now that armaan knows that she loves him how can he back off

in blue my pov

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Wrackspurt

@Wrackspurt

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

Armaan is acting like a creep....more than Riddhima i blame Armaan for what is happening.......yeah Riddhima is also to be blamed she has been on crossroads for a pretty long time...any normal person would have taken a decision by now...but oopss she is not at all normal...but Armaan wow he is the villain now...his acts are so disgusting , he is almost forcing himself on her.......horrible 😳

Edited by mysticwater24 - 15 years ago

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

So how did Armaan realize that Rid doesn't want Sid but wants to be with him again? because the last time they talked was when she invited him to their marriage by saying I am marrying him out of my own will. Was it the time he came in the romantic tent and Riddhima said she loved her husband then he went on to reminding her of their beautiful times. In other words when he seduced her.

I have always empathized with Rids. As a matter of fact I empathized with everyone. But Riddhima took that away when she started her confusing thoughts. A laspe of judgement for few moments can happen. But this is more about what happened before that. Either you love someone or you don't. Why play around with Sid for a whole year and lie? Better yet why marry him for the second time if she wasn't ready. That is outright lying. People want to say this is realistic. Yes so characterless women are also quite realistic. They exist in real life. It took her a year to realize she hadn't moved on from Armaan? That shows how weak her character is.

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simran45

@simran45

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

armaan is not wrong when he knows ridhzi still loves him what u expect he will back off no v know afrmaan never go aganst his hdart n exactly doing that today

he ks saving threee lives to live life just u have to live is not life

life is to live every mome that is life

p.s i want ARSH to happen as i hate RM a lot