SID is correct! But my poor ARMAAN! :(( - Page 2

From a serial perspective may be Sid trying to get Arsh together brings something to the table for viewers who are tired of FBs... But I think what Armaan is going through is quite natural for a person in his position and what is required is for him to have the space and time to get over the past... Even the street fighting is not out of control ... he has done it before... he can handle it and he will get over that phase too.... I think Riddhima needs to concentrate on actually doing full justice to her married life and I think Sid should give that lecture to Riddhima.... While Riddhima was dilly dallying Armaan helped her and tried to get SR together or tried to present 'opportunities' in his words... now he has done what he could for SR and it is upto S and R to take the rest of it forward and they cannot put any condition on Armaan that he has to move on or else their married life will suffer... I think Armaan should be just given the time and space and he will eventually get over theintense feelings of loss and pain that he has and things will settle down in his life too.... but Riddhiam trying to get him to move on will never help and Riddhima not doing full justice to her marriage is not Armaan's fault... he cannot be expected to do everything in his life based on Riddhima's happiness.... he has done enough in the past and he needs his tiem to grieve for what he lost... he isn;t going behind riddhima, nor is he in anyway coming between the couple by his own volition.. he apologized for the outburst on her birthday.... now Riddhima should let him be and concentrate on her husband... I am not saying don't be concerned.... but she has to realise that she will be the last person who can help Armaan! and while I don't question Sid's right to shout at Armaan.. I don't think he is right in holding Armaan responsible for Riddhima's inability to move on completely ... I think it is too much to ask of Armaan to get out of his grief because riddhima feels bad abt it!! Every person is entitled to his own time period for grieving!!

m eagerly waiting for that day 😍

gud post dear....bt i do lyk riddhima....otherwise i agreed to ur post.....😳

Nice post -

Yep, Sid's not at fault here - he's been Maha patient.

Yep, Armaan's not at fault here - circumstances not in his hand, and you don't switch love off that easily.

I haven't seen any of the recent SBS/SBB segments, or the latest epis, or read recent posts on this topic, but from teh cursory look here and there I'll say this - Sid "should" talk to his wife more so than anyone else.

Again, don't all jump me coz I dunno what has happened/will happen. I dunno if I'll catch up on teh posts/epis during Ramadan, but from the lil precap I saw last week - I feel R needs to be brought in a bit. I mean, you can't force someone to move on, no matter how hard you try, or even they try. It will come when the time is right. Some ppl take longer than others, some situations warrant a longer 'mope' time than others. To each his/her own.

Ok, I'm done. Nice topic really. Love Sid's character, hope the CVs don't make that character do anything crazy.

-S

Originally posted by: solembaum

From a serial perspective may be Sid trying to get Arsh together brings something to the table for viewers who are tired of FBs... But I think what Armaan is going through is quite natural for a person in his position and what is required is for him to have the space and time to get over the past... Even the street fighting is not out of control ... he has done it before... he can handle it and he will get over that phase too.... I think Riddhima needs to concentrate on actually doing full justice to her married life and I think Sid should give that lecture to Riddhima.... While Riddhima was dilly dallying Armaan helped her and tried to get SR together or tried to present 'opportunities' in his words... now he has done what he could for SR and it is upto S and R to take the rest of it forward and they cannot put any condition on Armaan that he has to move on or else their married life will suffer... I think Armaan should be just given the time and space and he will eventually get over theintense feelings of loss and pain that he has and things will settle down in his life too.... but Riddhiam trying to get him to move on will never help and Riddhima not doing full justice to her marriage is not Armaan's fault... he cannot be expected to do everything in his life based on Riddhima's happiness.... he has done enough in the past and he needs his tiem to grieve for what he lost... he isn;t going behind riddhima, nor is he in anyway coming between the couple by his own volition.. he apologized for the outburst on her birthday.... now Riddhima should let him be and concentrate on her husband... I am not saying don't be concerned.... but she has to realise that she will be the last person who can help Armaan! and while I don't question Sid's right to shout at Armaan.. I don't think he is right in holding Armaan responsible for Riddhima's inability to move on completely ... I think it is too much to ask of Armaan to get out of his grief because riddhima feels bad abt it!! Every person is entitled to his own time period for grieving!!

Spot on, and sooooo beautifully said!!!!!


Armaan DOES need the time to get over his past. Everyone does it differently. I think what he's going through is quite normal too.

And yep, Sid needs to have a conversation with his wife. I thought it was odd, last week, that he came to tell her she looks tired and possibly just to chat, and she started talking about Armaan-Shilpa. I understand Sid's need to get Armaan going in his life and assuming THAT is how he'll get his wife's full attention, but I think he needs to tell his wife that he's having to go to such great lengths to get that attention.

Of course, from a practical stand point - the CVs will NOT move the SR story along till the AR fans are someone mollified with teh ArSh story getting hot and heavy. If the AR fans see the 'A' in AR falling head over heals for Sh. and that he's happy there, they might be ok with seeing the SR story moving along.

Just my POV - I think that's why the CVs are delaying on the SR story progression ... but I could be wrong, what do I know :)

-S

Sid is helping his friend the one who helped him.
And Armaan is still in love with Ridhima but I hope he goes back to the masti Armaan soon.

From my POV,i think sid should talk to ridhimma rather than armaan.

Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine

Spot on, and sooooo beautifully said!!!!!


Armaan DOES need the time to get over his past. Everyone does it differently. I think what he's going through is quite normal too.

And yep, Sid needs to have a conversation with his wife. I thought it was odd, last week, that he came to tell her she looks tired and possibly just to chat, and she started talking about Armaan-Shilpa. I understand Sid's need to get Armaan going in his life and assuming THAT is how he'll get his wife's full attention, but I think he needs to tell his wife that he's having to go to such great lengths to get that attention.

Of course, from a practical stand point - the CVs will NOT move the SR story along till the AR fans are someone mollified with teh ArSh story getting hot and heavy. If the AR fans see the 'A' in AR falling head over heals for Sh. and that he's happy there, they might be ok with seeing the SR story moving along.

Just my POV - I think that's why the CVs are delaying on the SR story progression ... but I could be wrong, what do I know :)

-S

Originally posted by: lilmzsunshine

Spot on, and sooooo beautifully said!!!!!


Armaan DOES need the time to get over his past. Everyone does it differently. I think what he's going through is quite normal too.

And yep, Sid needs to have a conversation with his wife. I thought it was odd, last week, that he came to tell her she looks tired and possibly just to chat, and she started talking about Armaan-Shilpa. I understand Sid's need to get Armaan going in his life and assuming THAT is how he'll get his wife's full attention, but I think he needs to tell his wife that he's having to go to such great lengths to get that attention.

Of course, from a practical stand point - the CVs will NOT move the SR story along till the AR fans are someone mollified with teh ArSh story getting hot and heavy. If the AR fans see the 'A' in AR falling head over heals for Sh. and that he's happy there, they might be ok with seeing the SR story moving along.

Just my POV - I think that's why the CVs are delaying on the SR story progression ... but I could be wrong, what do I know :)

-S

Bold..............I agree................