I Promise That I'll Try...(AR) Epi 6/7

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi everyone

I am writing a brief analysis of today's episode. I couldn't resist my self, especially after watching the heart wrenching AR scene in the bb court

If anyone has missed last few months of DMG, then they should watch this episode as it clearly depicts the state of mind of all three main characters:

Riddhima: still torn between the two men. Even though she has made the decision to move on with her husband, why does she keep reminding herself that Armaan is her past? Why does she keep saying I need to forget him? Why was she reluctant to part ways with Armaan in the bb court? Why did she silently agree to his proposal of being together in next 6 janams? Why did she place her hand on his hand to reassure him of this proposal? Why did she look back as she parted ways with him? Why did she keep thinking about her meeting with Armaan even when she has moved on and supposedly fallen in love with Sid?

I think, as she had said in one of the promos- ek nayi koshish- all her attempts at coming close to Sid are her nayi koshish. If this effort was heartfelt, it wouldn't be a koshish but a bond that would have pulled her to Sid effortlessly...why is it a koshish Riddhima?

In my eyes, by accepting that its going to be really hard to forget Armaan, and her silent admission of her love for Armaan, Riddhima has redeemed herself to large extent. The only thing I cannot still explain is the talli scene where she said Sid had taught her the real meaning of love- I am still confused Cvs....why did they write that dialogue when her eyes and thoughts contradict those words spoken in half stupor?


Armaan: Armaan has been very quiet throughout the last three episodes. He has shed silent tears, swallowed painful tears, averted his pain stricken eyes from Riddhima, but has still not wavered from his love for her. Today, when he said "I promise that I'll try to forget you" broke my heart into pieces as I m sure it did Ridz's. Both Ridz and we know, thet Armaan can and will never forget Riddhima. He might pretend to move on, just to lessen her guilt and sorrow...but he CANNOT MOVE ON. How does one move on from your own shadow, your own soul, your own heartbeat?

Riddhima in my opinion, is fooling everyone including herself, by saying that she has moved on....how can she be happy when she knows that the other half of her dil- Armaan- is still aching for her??


Sid: I actually felt really sorry for his character today. He has been caught between these two waves of intense passion and love for each other. He has tried his best to distance himself from Riddhima and now has expressed his desire to live life with her once he realized Ridz wants that too, but is it really fair to him? He loves Ridz a lot but does she really love him with all her heart? At least not yet.

I have said that on several of my posts, I would have loved it if Sid had done an Armaan like selfless act, and somehow convinced Ridz that her happiness lay with Armaan because she is incapable of going against rituals and traditions. I am hoping that somewhere down the line, Sid will realize this and put his foot down....this time not in an immature fashion as he did before, but like a real man and let go of Ridz, for the sake of her happiness.


In my opinion, whenever someone says- I'll try- it is basically a polite way of saying I CANNOT...

Armaan, I know -cannot even though he has promised Ridz

Can Ridz??? That's the million dollar question

I'd appreciate polite and meaningful comments on my post. I request people who want to bash or try to teach me a lesson about life to stay away....thanks you all..


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Posted: 15 years ago
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yuppe first one to comment...

To talk about Riddhima i felt that she wants to move or can be put she just wants to move on since she's riddhima modi now.. but the Armaan's Riddhima in side her will always keep loving him.. i would her situation is like cat on the wall na us par na is par.. the one side her real happiness n the other side the happiness which she claims that she will have.. but she forgot one thing that ppl say they will try to forget by trying n really forget something is more like killing yourself from the truth you want to face... i just wants once the Riddhima gupta in her to come n speak.. i felt like her mind thinks as the point of riddhima modi n her hear still as basket n always remains as basket....

As u say di Armaan might act as moving on just for the sake of riddhima but not for his own .. his happiness lies only with riddhima.. n vice versa

i don't when these dump fellow's will listen to their heart n speak up for their love..
Edited by ishuKSGKAJEN - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Loveddddddd ur interpretation, especially abt sid he really deserves someone who can love him back like he do with whole-heart. ANd riddhima is definately not that one. Cuz she can never overcome from armaan's love
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: megatulipgirl

Loveddddddd ur interpretation, especially abt sid he really deserves someone who can love him back like he do with whole-heart. ANd riddhima is definately not that one. Cuz she can never overcome from armaan's love



exactly.....Ridz needs to be less selfish there and either completely wipe out Armaan from her life and heart or be honest with Sid. So far in last 3 months, I have yet to see her 'move on'...she is still stuck between past and present
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yup
He never can actually promise to forget her, hence his useless lame xcuse- I'll try :P
The REAL promise was to keep her with him forever after they were through all this- and his dailogue- and THAT is a promise and her promising back by holding his hand :)

Made a lil post on it too di - very similar thoughts:)
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1411239

Awesome analysis!
I fell in love with AR AGAIN yesterday
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: caprigurl

Yup
He never can actually promise to forget her, hence his useless lame xcuse- I'll try :P
The REAL promise was to keep her with him forever after they were through all this- and his dailogue- and THAT is a promise and her promising back by holding his hand :)

Made a lil post on it too di - very similar thoughts:)
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1411239

Awesome analysis!
I fell in love with AR AGAIN yesterday



thanks Ishi...yeah I'll try is always a nice way of saying I cannot

Armaan has always been clear about his intentions. Its Riddhima the confused on who needs to realize this also

I will check out ur post...thanks
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Posted: 15 years ago
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1. Riddhima said she is 'trying' as well.. And the way she said it.. She seemed quite hopeless and unsuccessful at trying.. :) No wonder she has to keep REMINDING herself.. "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! ""Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! ""Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! " "Armaan mera ateet.. Sid Mera Aaj.. ! "
As if chanting the same thing again and again helps.. ! 🤣
All I know after today's episode is AR are getting together.. Not too soon.. ! But they ARE.. ! :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ishuKSGKAJEN

yuppe first one to comment...

To talk about Riddhima i felt that she wants to move or can be put she just wants to move on since she's riddhima modi now.. but the Armaan's Riddhima in side her will always keep loving him.. i would her situation is like cat on the wall na us par na is par.. the one side her real happiness n the other side the happiness which she claims that she will have.. but she forgot one thing that ppl say they will try to forget by trying n really forget something is more like killing yourself from the truth you want to face... i just wants once the Riddhima gupta in her to come n speak.. i felt like her mind thinks as the point of riddhima modi n her hear still as basket n always remains as basket....

As u say di Armaan might act as moving on just for the sake of riddhima but not for his own .. his happiness lies only with riddhima.. n vice versa

i don't when these dump fellow's will listen to their heart n speak up for their love..



thanks ishu....yeah AR are being too dumb right now....fate and destiny is probably smarter and bring them back together again😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i cant ever not love your posts bheegi... i loved how u stated everyones emotions right now, and the fact that riddhima needs to keep reminding herself of her past n present, and her need to move on reminded me of ur ff, DYM, where riddhima had to repeatedly say that she is engaged to rahul to convince herself... random connection, i know, n i completely agree that armaan saying i'll try means he cant, though i think the cvs will make him...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi



thanks ishu....yeah AR are being too dumb right now....fate and destiny is probably smarter and bring them back together again😳



they are being so dump n act as loser's di.. this is what piss me of.. but just once n i know this day will come soon..

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