The girl gets married becoz of the promise she gives to her father.. wheras the boy just liked the girl, and quickly agreed to get married to herš³.. It is the same forced marriage for her.. ( I dont see it forced anyways, but people think marrying for parents happiness is forceš³ ).. and she behaves rudely with Surindar Sahaniš³.. There we see a beautiful dialog coming from Tani ji after 1 day of their marriage, which is DIRECTLY related to SR -- I should not have behaved badly with you, becoz maine yeh shaadi apne marzi se ki thi.. That's the exact thing that happened with SR.. :) People call it a forced marriage, but what we forget is, she AGREED to get married.. Hence, she doesn't have any right to hurt or leave Sid for this excuse..
Then we see, Tani ji falling for the guy Raj.. And she thought she could never love again.. š³ Surindar Sahani was a boring man ( acc. to her ), but Sid aintš Ridz doesn't need any Raj.. the only diff btwn RNBDJ and SR..š³ She was falling for Sid itselfš³ And there we saw, the woman started loving Raj to THAT extent, that she wanted to elope with him.. But again, she let the marriage win over her love.. And realized how sacred a relationship it isš³ The marriage conquered over her love for Raj.. And the woman, who was devastated for her first love, fell for her HUSBAND, n remained loyal to him forever.. š³
Who says Forced marriage can't work? š³ One-sided unconditional love ALWAYS winsš³