Originally posted by: Lennie
Hey Pocu
I do applaud Ridz on how she was today in a way, yes she has memories of her first love and she remembered them in a sweet memory for her, her past is something that she will recall fondly, and she needs to do that, not hold it against her and have regrets, today i saw no regret, no regrets on where she stands today - a married woman!!!
Today i saw her moving on from her past, she accepted it slowly - she confronted it and it didnt overpower her today, Armaan didnt overpower her today - she wast weak and she didnt want to go weak
Well-said, Lennzoo. Riddhima took her past head-on today and that too with dignity and affection that had no regrets. It didn't happen , it didn't happen but hey! I will cherish the memories. That's what Riddhima was today. For me, Riddz made peace with her past today and will continue to do so until she conquers it. Riddhima is no longer basket and any sane and sensible person can see that.
As for Sid, i have said so much about him - that i cant say anything as i feel like i am repeating myself, and all i can say is the man has lost all hope, life, love and dreams after what he seesπ₯Ί - this man is destroyed, sliced in pieces - bleeding away
Sid always respected AR past and their love from the very start and even the day he got married to Ridz, and what he says in the precap bit i dont blame him for what he says about them, he has every right to question them esp Ridz, and i can so see from Ridz face and how its piercing her heart seeing Sid like this and talking like this, she feels she deserves iT on one hand - coz of how it looks from Sid's pov
Sid has every right to be however he wants to be with Ridz - he is her husband, but we all know Sid doesnt force his right on Ridz, because i think Sid feels Armaan still extents his right on her, and he still does it to this day
Riddhima can see how shattered Sid is and he is crying. And when he throws all the questions and accusations in Riddhima's face , she is so guilty and hurt that she wishes that either Sid listens to her or else the ground that she is standing on swallows her. Yeah, looking at what all Sid has done for Riddhima, looking at what he has endured for her and the very fact that he is her husband , Sid has every right to question Riddhima and nobody can take that right away from Sid. NOBODY. And that is why Riddhima took all the angry words with tears.
Also i hope Ridz speaks up atleast to tell Armaan that Sid has every right to talk to her, he is her husband - this where i feel she should atleast stand up to for husband
She will because there is no other way now. It is Sid , his love , his honour and Riddz is on her way to realizing that.
Riddhima will never be able to explain the situation that Sid saw her in verbally..... it is only through her love, loyalty , perseverance and commitment that she can someday drill into Sid's head and heart that once she married him , held his hand , he was , he is and he always will be the one.
I agree here, Ridz cant even have the words to even explain what that scene/situation was, its looks bad from any angle doesnt matter how innocent it might have been, it looks bad - everything about it, being in whose arms and like that, and wet - there's no justification that she can put across to anyone
Because this image is gonna haunt and torment Sid (alas we have the accident and the pain he is in)
The only way Sid will ever heal his wounds is by Ridz, only she can heal his wounds but his wounds will always remain scars and the only way to get rid of that is now Tender Loving Care
This man needs love - its the only way to get him back to Sid, the Sid she knows - Her Sid
Nothing else will do now, he's given up, he's lost everything - he's wounded, tormented, broken and in pieces
Sid wont ever be Sid again - the man that we all know and love, only Ridz can give him life now i feel
Sid brought Ridz back to life, now its Ridz turn
All i know is that she will have to move heaven and earth and have such a strength to deal with what Sid will be like and get him back
But i do know that Sid's love for her is so strong, so i dont think he could handle giving her constant pain and spiting her, he hurts with her 10x more then her when he hurts her, so i can see that his love for her will overpower him here sooner in a way
Riddhima will win back Sid again. If she can do it once, she can do it again. It is just that it is going to be a lot tougher this time round.
As for Armaan i dont know what to say other then he has no right on Ridz at all, and he is his dreamland (and holding on to hope that he will win her in the end) and cant see beyond anything - and its his own downfall here sadly to say
Not one thought on Sid, or that Ridz is married woman, and sorry to say i didnt see no guilt and remorse from Armaan in the precap - just saw anger (i hope i am kinda wrong here about Armaan's reaction when i see the episode tomorrow)
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What can i say , Lennzie , except that hopefully Armaan will come back from the chopping table before the creatives raise their butcher's knife.