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Posted: 15 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: sayali_babes

CAN anyone explain to me- WHAT DID ARMAN-RIDZ ACTUALLY DO????



Haha!! What did they not do?

@prerna4rishav: Bang on!! Well said!!

Edited by aa123.80 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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You know what?I really loved your post.Being an AR fan,I donno if I am allowed to comment here but few points struck me and I wanted to mention them

1)I find her selfish because she seems to always thinks about herself and her feelings but, not even consider what both the guys are going through and looking at the situation from both of their point of view! She seems to blame both guys but, doesn't even find faults in herself at why she has still failed to express her feelings about what she wants to both men in her life and why is it taking her so long to figure out who she truly loves. Both men want answers from her and she's clearly not giving it to them!

Wow wow wow....This point...I sooo loved it.Yes,if only she told Armaan.."I love Sid and I want to be with him,I have moved on...please don't try to get close to me",I don't think Armaan would try to be close to her.Or if she clearly mentions to Sid that she still madly in love with Armaan and cannot forget him,I don't think Sid is soo bad that he would stop her from going back to Armaan.

The main element of confusion here is that Riddhima is being clear to neither of the two guys,letting them weave dreams about her.OPEN UP Riddhima!!For god's sake please!!

Someone said that even if you are married its okay to cheat if you love someone else because love is greater than any morals of infidelity.

And I strongly disagree with the statement.Love is great.But INFIDELITY is DISGUSTING!!I wouldn't support infidelity just because the two love each other.Cheating being unfaithful are BAD!!


And I really wish someone clears up stuff to Armaan and Sid so that atleast they can go on in life.Riddhima isn't telling sid if she wants to give their marriage a chance,and Armaan is still in an illusion of what Sid told him and what HE is seeing(Passionate eyelock with Armaan) and thinking that she still loves him but fighting with herself.


Once again nice post.and sorry if my post offended any one.

-Vish


Edited by Vishluvsammy - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#83
i have watched n loved AR for years.....but now i watch them it seems so wrong....its a yuck feeling that i can't take.....cheating d one who has loved u so much sacrificed his life many times for u.....is against humanity wat to talk of love or marriage
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Posted: 15 years ago
#84
I am happy to see some sensible AR fanz are still around here😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: Vishluvsammy

You know what?I really loved your post.Being an AR fan,I donno if I am allowed to comment here but few points struck me and I wanted to mention them

1)I find her selfish because she seems to always thinks about herself and her feelings but, not even consider what both the guys are going through and looking at the situation from both of their point of view! She seems to blame both guys but, doesn't even find faults in herself at why she has still failed to express her feelings about what she wants to both men in her life and why is it taking her so long to figure out who she truly loves. Both men want answers from her and she's clearly not giving it to them!

Wow wow wow....This point...I sooo loved it.Yes,if only she told Armaan.."I love Sid and I want to be with him,I have moved on...please don't try to get close to me",I don't think Armaan would try to be close to her.Or if she clearly mentions to Sid that she still madly in love with Armaan and cannot forget him,I don't think Sid is soo bad that he would stop her from going back to Armaan.

The main element of confusion here is that Riddhima is being clear to neither of the two guys,letting them weave dreams about her.OPEN UP Riddhima!!For god's sake please!!

Someone said that even if you are married its okay to cheat if you love someone else because love is greater than any morals of infidelity.

And I strongly disagree with the statement.Love is great.But INFIDELITY is DISGUSTING!!I wouldn't support infidelity just because the two love each other.Cheating being unfaithful are BAD!!


And I really wish someone clears up stuff to Armaan and Sid so that atleast they can go on in life.Riddhima isn't telling sid if she wants to give their marriage a chance,and Armaan is still in an illusion of what Sid told him and what HE is seeing(Passionate eyelock with Armaan) and thinking that she still loves him but fighting with herself.


Once again nice post.and sorry if my post offended any one.

-Vish


Its really nice to see an AR fan who doesn't have any biased views 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

2. Looking with h**** eyes to a married woman who is drenched.. 😃

Whats h**** eyes??? 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
#87
i seiously think people still need 2 understand d diff. between love n lust
Posted: 15 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav


They actually did some cheap n immoral vulgar stuff..

From Armaan --

1. Trying to remind her of old love days of them.. And indirectly saying I STILL love u to a married woman..
2. Looking with h**** eyes to a married woman who is drenched.. 😃
3. In the candle scene, trying to TOUCH ( unnecessary ) a married woman..
4. Always trying to make her senti abt their old days..👏

From Riddhima --

1. She is supposed to tell her dec to Sid..
2. She is supposed to be angry at Armaan.. Like she was in Sanjeevni.. Here.. She's gone cheap!
3. She is involved in those lovely-h**** eye-locks with Armaan..
4. The lust she has in her eyes, is cheap and anything but love..

😃TC😃

Guddi,
Great answers but, sadly some people are here just to argue and nothing else. I don't understand why certain extreme AR fans are even bothering to comment their negative comments in my post especially if they don't agree with it and can't see anything beyond their favorite character or should I say actor! But, I am glad to say that not "all" AR fans are like that just some of them. As they need to learn to respect other's pov just like they want others to respect theirs! I especially hated how she used all captions clearly indicating that she was shouting! Things can always be said in a better way only if people are willing to value and respect each other and learn the importance of how to communicate with others in a positive sense. 😔
But, very great job as always Guddi. 😉
Edited by lighteningbuzz - 15 years ago
Posted: 15 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: Vishluvsammy

You know what?I really loved your post.Being an AR fan,I donno if I am allowed to comment here but few points struck me and I wanted to mention them

1)I find her selfish because she seems to always thinks about herself and her feelings but, not even consider what both the guys are going through and looking at the situation from both of their point of view! She seems to blame both guys but, doesn't even find faults in herself at why she has still failed to express her feelings about what she wants to both men in her life and why is it taking her so long to figure out who she truly loves. Both men want answers from her and she's clearly not giving it to them!

Wow wow wow....This point...I sooo loved it.Yes,if only she told Armaan.."I love Sid and I want to be with him,I have moved on...please don't try to get close to me",I don't think Armaan would try to be close to her.Or if she clearly mentions to Sid that she still madly in love with Armaan and cannot forget him,I don't think Sid is soo bad that he would stop her from going back to Armaan.

The main element of confusion here is that Riddhima is being clear to neither of the two guys,letting them weave dreams about her.OPEN UP Riddhima!!For god's sake please!!

Someone said that even if you are married its okay to cheat if you love someone else because love is greater than any morals of infidelity.

And I strongly disagree with the statement.Love is great.But INFIDELITY is DISGUSTING!!I wouldn't support infidelity just because the two love each other.Cheating being unfaithful are BAD!!


And I really wish someone clears up stuff to Armaan and Sid so that atleast they can go on in life.Riddhima isn't telling sid if she wants to give their marriage a chance,and Armaan is still in an illusion of what Sid told him and what HE is seeing(Passionate eyelock with Armaan) and thinking that she still loves him but fighting with herself.


Once again nice post.and sorry if my post offended any one.

-Vish


Vishluvsammy, First of all I didn't feel at all offended with your post. 😉 Even though the new rules imply that AR fans cannot post in SR fan's posts and vice versa. We all know why the Mods instilled that rule to avoid heated arguments and fights against members. But, I don't see anything wrong if people like you are willing to respect other's pov and leaving positive comments on their posts which promotes a healthy discussion. So, thanks for that. 😉 I'm glad you saw unlike other AR fans that I was clearly not criticizing AR relationship but, just to the point that any relationship is inappropriate between lovers especially if one of them is married. As I stated before, there's nothing wrong if AR romance each other after Rid divorces Sid and lets him move on with his life instead of letting him wait for her. And I definitely don't agree that a woman should play around with two guys' feelings. If she loves one of them she should just straightly let the other one know and let him gracefully get on with his life. Once again thank you so much for a positive insight. If people communicated respectfully in this way, then there would never be fights in this forum. 😳
😊 - Buzzy
Edited by lighteningbuzz - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Blue soul:

Your post was hilarious man. When someone is in extreme shock, a big hard resounding SLAP is necessary. Me tho agrees babaji ..lolling haha

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