why is SUe standing as by stander??

I fail to understand the she is a family and if Shanky can intervene on Ridz behalf then why can't Sue talk to Sid and Riddhima to make htem realise each other's point of view or atleast talk to Shanky to make things a little clearer for family atleast??????

ALso where is REidz mom???? Such a big thing has happened in Ridz life and mom is not there to guide her daughter through the tumulous waters of married life, ever??? ANy girl can attest the role girls mothers play in making any marriage work!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here are 2 naive people treating their marriage as if it was icecream. "don't like the taste, or melting, let me get another one".

Signing the divorce papers out of anger only to get bcak to your husband, without even talking to him???? Blaming your husband for sending you the divorce papers when you are not even willing to tlak to him about anything????

HAving blamed Sid for being a molester, rapist, pushyetc.etc. and most of all that "no matter what she willl always remain Armaan's" on the marriage night. Trying to give up her own life, not once but time and again, how can she expect Sid to beleive that she has forgotten everything in such a hsort period. Above all if she claims that marriage and her husband is more importatn to her, then she should have stopped avoiding SId's question and reassured Sid about his place in her heart ( not that she is there just because he is her husband!!!) What is the other person, who has been rejected time and agian, supposed to feel????

DId she not go after Armaan like a crazy person even when he left her and did she not crave to just talk to him. But she did not apply the same to her marriage, she did nto go after to save it, instead chose to respond back arrogantly. She has refused to talk to SId time and agian. Even when he tried to explain, why he sent Armaan to Pubne.

IF SId had hidden that fact, she would have blamed him of lying and deciet again for hiding thetruth. He had asked her a question when he sent armaan to pune and then again in her office. teh question was even if she has Armaan infront of her, would she like to stay with him without any baggage of the past ( meaning regret about the past).

Isn't this what Shanky did when he stopped Armaan from going away, to let Ridz face armaan and move on with her life facing armaan so as to stop carrying any baggage forward??? This exactly what Sid did ( very marture and understanding of him!!)

JSut wanted to pour out my thoughts. and to all the ar FANS, JUST WANT TO ASK, IS marriage such a cheap thing for you, then why are you hell bent in clapping for the divorce?? IF n=marriage means nothing to you thenit should be OK with you to have Ridz go around with Armaan even if she is married???

sid has seen how ridz act before their marriage, he has been there and done that, and how can he forget that she even told him that she will always remain armaan no matter what. She has went insane trying to find he rex. adn how she drank the posion all that drama. I don't think sid can forget all that, no human beign can forget the pain that his wife gone through b/c of her ex., how can he forget the love she had for her ex. and it is really hard for him to forget b/c even ridz is not showing any concern toward him before, it was like he was forgotten when her ex. came back to the picture. sid tried to talk to her but all she did was cry and kept quiet the whole time. What did she expect that he will read her mind or something. It is very hard for sid to digest that she wants him and the marriageno matter what, she has to show him that she wants him. Crying all over the place is not helping. yes sue nees to do something for her lovely brother but i think she wants to stay away form this since it is between the three of them and how ridz said to keep their business to themselves. So the only people who can fix this mess is both sidma or Dr.Shahhank. They both need to communicate and spill all the hatred out, then everything will be okay.