What is Ridz really confused about??? - Page 2

After she married Sid she performed the "antim sanskar" of her past by burning all her memories. That signified that she has buried her past forever. But when Armaan came back she started debating herself what to do. Whether she should go back to her past or make her present her future. Why did she let this question into her mind if she was so loyal to her hubby?😡 Even when Sid questions her if she had him in her heart she doesn't speak up. What should poor Sid do? This gal's confusion has always screwed many people's lives. Her heart bleeds to see Armaan go and she is shattered on seeing the divorce papers 😕. Donno what to say.

Originally posted by: solembaum

When i said the post isnt directed at me.. what i meant is while I want it to be AR for my own reasons.. and while I think she is a confusing Lady... I don't think she is confused.... and I haven't found fault with her for moving on etc... so from that perspective I said that I may not the exact audience for this post... but yeah I think out of all the three characters that are there she is the one I find the least justifiable.... and yeah what you said could be true abt why she developed feelings for Sid faster.... but I still think that she moved on pretty fast.... even for something of lesser intensity than AR people take longer time... although in most instances I have seen in life guys take longer to move on than girls in case of serious relationships, I haven't seen any girl who moved on that fast! when Armaan came back in terms of elapsed days as shown in serial ( the time frame in real world was of course diff) but i think it was just 2-3 weeks... but anyway that is nit picking.... like u said may be the intensity of the circumstances made it so... dunno...

ok got ya bout the post..i'm glad you stuck to it and still read it with an open mind...thats all i ask...we each have our own opinions i'm glad you respected mine...and heck you even got me thinking about yours 😳...as for what you said above...i'm glad you can see that her moving on isnt a crime...i mean in real life thts all we do we move forward...but i can see why you would feel that her feelings toward Sid were too fast...(if i was being honest with myself i'm not sure i would have the same intensity of feelings as Ridz has toward Sid in such a short period of time...altho he is very adorable...so then again maybe i would 😆) the only thing i can attempt to defend her with (this is reaching too i admit it) is tht wht the heart wants...it wants...there is no correct time frame just as there are no correct feelings...as for the time frame of the serial...i dont think even the writers can keep track...heck sometimes they say Armaan was gone for 6 mons other times 9 and then if we do the math it should be close to year....so bhagwan jaane

Yeah I did read your previous post... and i should say you write really well.... but I somehow cant sympathize with her at all.... at no point does she take responsibility for her actions.... she is always finding a scape goat to blame for why things went wrong in her life !! I see lot of people saying she has matured after she got married and Sid came into her life.... I don't know where they showed her being mature!! I am sure all of us go through problems in life... some not as bad as hers and some even worse than hers.. but I don't see anyone I know blaming everyone but themselves for the situations they are in!! I think that is one of the things I liked abt Armaan and Sid... they at least own up to whatever it is that they did... with good or bad intentions

thanks for complimenting my writing...i just write what i think...and for you not sympathizing with her...heck i couldnt either for the longest time...it was only when i sat back and thought abt it for a bit that i was able to put together some logic to her actions...but as i've said many times in that post...the chick is crazy no doubt about it...i dont think she yet realizes that responsibility exists...i think to her crying in FE is the way to get the answers to all of life's questions...and the more you cry the more you win...(pagal ladki)...i simply wrote that post to just maybe get some of the attackers to at least think from her POV before they charge at her with ridicule and hatred...as i said there...and say here...i dont condone what she did...but if i were honest with myself i could see why maybe....she did SOME of the things she did...def not ALL lol

And i can honestly say that i too agree with Sid and Armaan and the fact that yeh they do things...but at least they own up and take responsibilty for its fall out...in no way do i question their actions in fact i stand by and applaud them👏...these guys make me believe in the goodness of humans...and for that i will always love them....

Flawless post......Everything explained in detail.

Originally posted by: sun29

ommggg this is brillaint post 👏......my dear where were you till now..............one of the best posts totally unbiased and completely based on observation...............i have been saying in the same line............she wants armaan to go back not becasue she is affected by him but becasue siddanth and her relationship is affected by him..........her immediate next question to her father asking him to stop hte divorce proves it because she thinks if armaan goes back sid may not divorce her.............for her amraan is closed chapter ,he is no option ........and divorced or otherwise that girl is never going back to him.............this option is between sid and no sid

love does not measure in years it happens and when it happens it happens with depth and intensity it may be 3 years or 3 months............and if someone comes into your life who can hurt you soo deeply and yet want you to desperately cling onto him ,that itself shows what an impact he has on you...............it is a very lame excuse to say anymore that she is being forced..............if that woman can defy and insult her parents to go looking for armaan after knowing the truth what stops her from breaking this marriage when her husband is ready to ,making it clear to her father too and rushing back ..............the answer is her own heart............no duty no obligation just her tiny little heart

Originally posted by: mandy1024

After she married Sid she performed the "antim sanskar" of her past by burning all her memories. That signified that she has buried her past forever. But when Armaan came back she started debating herself what to do. Whether she should go back to her past or make her present her future. Why did she let this question into her mind if she was so loyal to her hubby?😡 Even when Sid questions her if she had him in her heart she doesn't speak up. What should poor Sid do? This gal's confusion has always screwed many people's lives. Her heart bleeds to see Armaan go and she is shattered on seeing the divorce papers 😕. Donno what to say.