I was wondering how come these kids are messing up their lives and the older gens have nothing to say!!!! These kids kep treating the relationships and vows as ice cream! with just a little heat, their relationship to each other melts away and they are ready for another scoop with another flavor!!!!!!!!!!
Riddhima is so stuck about her heart break ( and so is every one around) how about the guys, don't men have feelings and aspirations??? Here is one guy ( SID) who is mature enough to put relationship first inspite of the fact that his wife tried to commit suicide on his day of marriage. He actually was mature enough to out that aside and try to be a good husband ( believe me I bet if you had a poll of who you want to have as your husband, Sid will win). He potrayed the character perfectly of being a gentle and understanding enough at the same time giving space to his spouse and putting his spouse's happiness first and involving her in decision making and giving her a choice. Unlike Armaan, who is fickle and thinks of himself and is so slef centered that can think of only his life as being destroyed. He is not even able to see what his lines of "my Riddhima" is doing to Sid where as Sid is understanding and carefully avoiding saying anything that can hurt and aggravate any one's feeling. Like a grown up and mature person, he is the one who is initiating all the conversations and making it happen in an environment of understanding and maturity, unlike either Riddhima or Armaan who are just reacting and exaggerating and being overly emotional ( inspite of being 'older').
If Riddhima had truely put aside all her relationships back at the marriage ( as she claims) then why did she took so long to tell teh fact of her marriage to Armaan and why did she not discuss it with Sid, as a friend ( she blamed Sid of not keeping the promise of the friendship but she infact broke the trust!!).
Any guy who had seen his wife trying to give up her life for her love, will be insecure in the presence of that love. It is upto the girl to make her husband feel secure ( and not try to make excuses to blame hima nd get away from him) and make the relation hsip work and not throw the whole onus of the relation ship on 1 person. marriage only works if the both the weheels work together. If one wheel is stuck, other cannot funciton either.
Finally CV are trying to make this serial more real and contemporary rather than all "puppy love and teeny boppy".
I will be waiting to see if Cv is able to make this serial more palatable.
Armaan, by the way will be more available to the Armaan fans, if he moves along and tries to get along in his life with another person!!!!!!!!!!1.
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