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Hello everyone..
I know this forum is divided into AR and SR fans.. but please can we understand some things?
Sid was in love with Tamanna.. and suddenly he is now in love with Ridz? alright, maybe its a liking and he felt bad about what he had done to her so he came forward to marry her cuz he was repenting his actions! So in that case, for him it was nothing but a gesture of sympathy that he showed toward her. In that case, it wasn't the best thing to do. Esp when he knew Ridz was in love with Armaan.. Ridz had to marry him cuz of emotional blackmail from her parents. She dint marry him of her own will. So again it was a marriage of convenience and to keep others happy. She even tried to end her life right before she was getting married, but Sid still thought he should marry her. Why not understand her predicament instead of blaming her at that time and saying things like i'm gonna go tell everyone blah blah? Cmon, the girl wasnt in love with him!!!! And he expected her to be happy marrying him? not like he dint know under what pressure she had said yes! Also after they got married, he behaved with her like he had a right on her (which he actually did not! esp under the circumstances...) and he wud keep pushing her away or being rude to her etc etc.. if he wanted to say things like 'oh whats the point of this drama? maybe we shud end it" then why did he marry her when she dint want to??? Also we need to understand that Ridz had gone thru a heartbreak.. She dint find Armaan and she was almost forced into marrying Sid. Its like a breakup.. when u're upset and heartbroken and emotionally upset, when someone starts being nice to you, u kinda get attracted to them..its called a REBOUND..and we all know that! and we also know, that when ur in a situation like this, the rebound relationship never works.. she never had the time to get over Armaan.. i am not saying rebound relationships dont work at all, but for the majority they dont! So we cant say that Ridz was so horrible that she fell in love wit Sid, cuz she NEVER fell in LOVE with him.. she is just fond of him.. also cuz hes her "husband" she has a sense of duty towards him.. ! thats it.. Also now wit Armaan back in the picture, Ridz needs to make a decision.. and not a decision that says "oh I am an indian girl so i have to stay married".. cuz being married for the wrong reasons always spells doom for the marriage..if not now then later! and knowing Armaan is back and apologetic about something that he did FOR Ridz, its going to be very difficult for her to not feel the love.. We all know she is still madly in love with him, thought she hasnt been vocal about it, ever since she saw him, her eyes say it all..and the way she said "armaan, ur back" ..the smile on her face.. her twinkling eyes..she can neverrrrr feel that way for Sid! ever! And we all need to understand that our Indian culture doesnt promote staying in a marriage if you're unhappy! there is no written rule that we cant end our marriage if we had gotten married for the wrong reasons! We live in the 21st century and emotions play a BIG role in our lives now.. its not only duties and culture! I hope Ridz realizes what she is doing and goes back to Armaan.
And for all you SR fans, please calm down.. its not like Sid will die without Ridz.. in sucha short time its not possible to fall in love with someone.. i feel like this is also just another rebound of feelings for him after Tamanna.. if after Tamanna he cud fall in love sooooooooo soon, dont worrie, he'll for for someone else too!
Well I hope the creatives understand that viewers watch a show for their lead pair. This isnt some K-serial that they have to separate the lead pair and never get them back together.. Cmon, lets just be practical and unite them. I am all for some confusion, some love, some anger, some manao'ing between AR but I want them to be back together.. no one in this world can love each other like AR do!
What do you guys think..?
I know this forum is divided into AR and SR fans.. but please can we understand some things?
Sid was in love with Tamanna.. and suddenly he is now in love with Ridz? alright, maybe its a liking and he felt bad about what he had done to her so he came forward to marry her cuz he was repenting his actions! So in that case, for him it was nothing but a gesture of sympathy that he showed toward her. In that case, it wasn't the best thing to do. Esp when he knew Ridz was in love with Armaan.. Ridz had to marry him cuz of emotional blackmail from her parents. She dint marry him of her own will. So again it was a marriage of convenience and to keep others happy. She even tried to end her life right before she was getting married, but Sid still thought he should marry her. Why not understand her predicament instead of blaming her at that time and saying things like i'm gonna go tell everyone blah blah? Cmon, the girl wasnt in love with him!!!! And he expected her to be happy marrying him? not like he dint know under what pressure she had said yes! Also after they got married, he behaved with her like he had a right on her (which he actually did not! esp under the circumstances...) and he wud keep pushing her away or being rude to her etc etc.. if he wanted to say things like 'oh whats the point of this drama? maybe we shud end it" then why did he marry her when she dint want to??? Also we need to understand that Ridz had gone thru a heartbreak.. She dint find Armaan and she was almost forced into marrying Sid. Its like a breakup.. when u're upset and heartbroken and emotionally upset, when someone starts being nice to you, u kinda get attracted to them..its called a REBOUND..and we all know that! and we also know, that when ur in a situation like this, the rebound relationship never works.. she never had the time to get over Armaan.. i am not saying rebound relationships dont work at all, but for the majority they dont! So we cant say that Ridz was so horrible that she fell in love wit Sid, cuz she NEVER fell in LOVE with him.. she is just fond of him.. also cuz hes her "husband" she has a sense of duty towards him.. ! thats it.. Also now wit Armaan back in the picture, Ridz needs to make a decision.. and not a decision that says "oh I am an indian girl so i have to stay married".. cuz being married for the wrong reasons always spells doom for the marriage..if not now then later! and knowing Armaan is back and apologetic about something that he did FOR Ridz, its going to be very difficult for her to not feel the love.. We all know she is still madly in love with him, thought she hasnt been vocal about it, ever since she saw him, her eyes say it all..and the way she said "armaan, ur back" ..the smile on her face.. her twinkling eyes..she can neverrrrr feel that way for Sid! ever! And we all need to understand that our Indian culture doesnt promote staying in a marriage if you're unhappy! there is no written rule that we cant end our marriage if we had gotten married for the wrong reasons! We live in the 21st century and emotions play a BIG role in our lives now.. its not only duties and culture! I hope Ridz realizes what she is doing and goes back to Armaan.
And for all you SR fans, please calm down.. its not like Sid will die without Ridz.. in sucha short time its not possible to fall in love with someone.. i feel like this is also just another rebound of feelings for him after Tamanna.. if after Tamanna he cud fall in love sooooooooo soon, dont worrie, he'll for for someone else too!
Well I hope the creatives understand that viewers watch a show for their lead pair. This isnt some K-serial that they have to separate the lead pair and never get them back together.. Cmon, lets just be practical and unite them. I am all for some confusion, some love, some anger, some manao'ing between AR but I want them to be back together.. no one in this world can love each other like AR do!
What do you guys think..?
Vasudha
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