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CinciGal

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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

I try to see break ups as a normal part of life. There is a lot of wisdom to be gained from the sorrows in your life. All three of them will walk away from this wiser than before, with greater awareness of their strengths and weaknesses, with greater sensitivity for the other person and most importantly for taking responsibility for their actions:

Sid -- for getting into a marriage as a short cut way of restoring honor (for the Gupta family) knowing well that Riddhima does not love him.

Riddhima-- for getting into a marriage in an emotionally unstable state only to appease her parents. She was not capable of taking any long term decisions at that time.

And Armaan-- for letting go of Riddhima not once but twice (second time in Panchgani). Not trusting her to be strong enough to take that decision for herself whether she wants to stay with him or not when he is ailing. He made the decision to walk away from the relationship and Riddhima had no part in it. And the second bad mistake of walking into her life again after letting her go. Thats pure emotional atyachar.

All three have made major blunders regarding their lives and all others involved with their lives. Its time they grow up.

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TheBlackJaguar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: moviebuff05

It was so just so perfect coz...Arman oblivious of all that happened ....and sid....was trying to get over the shock.....only to realize how fate mocked at him......leaving him to choose once again....between what he wants and what is right.... I think...he il choose what is right ....becasue

that is what he has always done......

I will love you till the end of time...even if it means I have to let you go

I am hoping fate ill give me another chance and you will fly back and come to me once more

Sid's reaction to an oblivious Armaan was just fantastic.👏👏👏👏👏👏.... and like you, i also believe that like always Sid will do what he thinks is right and not what he wants. Anything for Riddhima.

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known as KAI, name is Jasmine

@Kai.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#53

so it's decided SidMaan 🥳🥳🥳🥳 so all we need is SidMaan siggy and an AT!!🥳 cumon guys do the honors!

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TheBlackJaguar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: Pokemon12!
Aww...beautifully described....I feel forboth characters. And regradless of who I want Ridhimma to "choose", I know that in the end of the day, one of them will end up broken hearted and my sympathy will go to that one. I particularilylove thispost of yours becausse unlike other posts on thisforum u don'tinstigate or state ur preference.

In the precap, as an unsettled but warm Sid is introduced to a clueless but equally warm Armaan, Armaan innocently calls Sid a friend of Riddhima's.....which i guess comes from the possibility that Armaan saw Sid with Riddhima in Panchgani or was told about him by Billy......Sigh! In the frame, you feel HORRIBLE for both the men.

To be honest , irrespective of who you are - Armaan fan , Sid fan, SR fan, AR fan or whatever.....when you think for both of them, you feel sorry for both of them.

At the end the day , when one of these two marvelous men will walk away with Riddhima , the other man will walk away with all the empathy and hugs.

I think am going to ask for a SidMaan appreciation thread soon and mods will come after me with curtain rods and table lamps.😳

I heartily agree with everything written here...and really want to participate in the SidMaan aprreciation thread. Thank u for this awesome post and hope taht u keep writing like this.

-Madiha

Thanks a lot for liking my post , sweetz. I guess we all will hug the lonely hottie together. 😳

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Tabzi

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Posted: 15 years ago

#55

awsum topic dear.....................its was so awsum da scene of sidmaan....................i m little confused sidma nd sidmaan...........lol........................
two man r mad behind 1 girl.....................lol

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-Aicha-

@-Aicha-

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Posted: 15 years ago

#56

Poco!! Omg! Yeah I know :/ It sucks na? At least for one of them :/ I really don't want this to happen to any of them, but I mean, it can't happen =(

LOVED their scene tho =) hehe

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TheBlackJaguar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: Kai_Hiwatari
so it's decided SidMaan 🥳 so all we need is SidMaan siggy and an AT!!🥳 cumon guys do the honors!

Yessh! Yessh! 😳....kidnap the siggy makers and tell them to put SR, AR behind and only make SidMaan and YuvMaan siggies.😆

Edited by Pocahontas - 15 years ago

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TheBlackJaguar

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Posted: 15 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: CinciGal
I try to see break ups as a normal part of life. There is a lot of wisdom to be gained from the sorrows in your life. All three of them will walk away from this wiser than before, with greater awareness of their strengths and weaknesses, with greater sensitivity for the other person and most importantly for taking responsibility for their actions:
Sid -- for getting into a marriage as a short cut way of restoring honor (for the Gupta family) knowing well that Riddhima does not love him.

Riddhima-- for getting into a marriage in an emotionally unstable state only to appease her parents. She was not capable of taking any long term decisions at that time.

And Armaan-- for letting go of Riddhima not once but twice (second time in Panchgani). Not trusting her to be strong enough to take that decision for herself whether she wants to stay with him or not when he is ailing. He made the decision to walk away from the relationship and Riddhima had no part in it. And the second bad mistake of walking into her life again after letting her go. Thats pure emotional atyachar.

All three have made major blunders regarding their lives and all others involved with their lives. Its time they grow up.

Hey CG,

We all make mistakes.Sid-Riddz did their share of mistakes due to their immature hatred , Armaan did his mistakes due to anxiety but none of them deserves heartbreak....where they stand today, they all deserve happiness and love.

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chandni

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Posted: 15 years ago

#59

Poco i have an Idea ... Why don't we choo mantar ridzi for a while 😈

And these two can Bond together and Start their own Dostana! 🤣

oooohhh Maybe YuMaan and SidMaan Could create The Perfect Love story ! 😆

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CinciGal

@CinciGal

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Posted: 15 years ago

#60

Sure we all make mistakes, but as I said we have to learn from them. Some mistakes have dire consequences and we just have to live with that, be it carrying guilt or facing a heartbreak or making amends.

They have to work towards finding happiness. If Armaan wants happiness he has to look elsewhere because this was something he passed on. The past cannot be undone. Similarly, Sid and Riddhima have to work towards making their marriage work since they got themselves into it. If they cant, then they have to learn their lesson or not taking hasty and rash decisions about important things. They have to move forward taking the lessons of their previous relationships and working toward improving their future relationships.

What I am saying is that sometimes some grief is necessary. It teaches you how to navigate your life. You can see that sid is taking his current relationship more seriously than he did his earlier one with Tamanna. Similarly Riddhima is trying to give her new relationship a chance. What she faces ahead is probably more difficult than what Sid and Armaan will go through if they are rejected. So every now and then people have to put in that effort into relationships. Similarly Armaan has to take his previous relationship and move forward. All three face tough times ahead, some (in fact all three) are bound to face grief, but they have to discover their strength within and there is great satisfaction in finding that strength.

Edited by CinciGal - 15 years ago