Final Warning Please!! Read Rules. - Page 7

Originally posted by: liza93

Hello Sree, Since you didn't reply to my PM, I think it would be justified on my part if I post it here. Please do not say that I didn't PM you in the future.

Here is what I have to ask:

Hi, I'm Neeta.

First of all, Thanks a ton for mentioning Zainab's and my name in your 'final warning'. We could really do with some free negative publicity. Because as far I my experience with IF goes, The moderators always prefer to publicly ridicule a defaulter rather than PMing him/her to clear the matters. Now You may wonder if that's the case then why didn't I PM the Mods, well let me let you that I have tried that more than enough times, but no avail. Besides, opening up a topic was the only way of gathering support and if you did read through the entire post, then you would have noticed that many people agreed with us. BTW, you wrote in your warning that you were wondering whether it was a co-incidence or something more than that. Well let me tell you that it really doesn't make a difference. If I say it wasn't planned, will you remove that warning from there ? You won't.

I'm not going to ask for your help, because you have helped us more than enough already. In the eyes of law, even a murderer gets a chance to explain & justify himself in the court, Here, on the other hand, we're not even ASKED as to why we put that topic up. The Mods told you their side of story and you very conviniently believed them. NO ONE answered our questions. If you all are so very sure about your moderation then you must be having a logical explaination as to WHY these rules were passed. But you would rather ignore our questions and continue to excercise your power.

I would not be surprised if you read this PM and choose not to reply back, because that's what you always do. I PMed the mods of the DMG forum yesterday, but she did not even check it. How do you expect us to respect you if you cannot even manage to be responsive enough to the members ?

I won't say further. I'm sick of justifying my actions everytime. It's time we're asked why we put our foot down.

I hope that you pay attention to it this time. You give us answers. We leave without making a sound. It's that simple. Sorry if it offends you.

oh and yeah you guys forgot to mention your new rule "Voicing your opinion is agains IF rules" do add that soon.....

This whole time I have stayed very patient and have been bearing all these allegations very quietly. Since yesterday, I have been recieving long pms in the form of an essay. I have not even had the opportunity to do what all I had planned to do for DMG forum because of this and not to mention that I did not get to enjoy any of my shows over the weekend. So to save time on my part and to let you all know that I am not running away from your questions..

Since it is said that I am no God (and would never in my life intend to) and just a Human being.

Let me quickly get to answering your questions based off of that:

1. Shilpa Topics: Who said you cannot talk about Shilpa on the forum? Yes, the GMs made the decision of no shilpa topics to be allowed on the forum because of all the bashing.....

But did we not compromise? Did I not go out of my way to help you all out and get a Shilpa discussion thread? Who would better understand this situation than me (a Kash fan)? Did you all ever think about utilizing that thread for Shilpa's discussion?

You all are complaining over and over about Shilpa topics not being allowed, but what about when we first made Shilpa Discussion thread (now known as Classic DMG thread)… Everyone said they will discuss shilpa there only and everyone will cooperate…

This is the cooperation we got? Infact I feel like a fool now… It's not like we closed off the entire forum to Shilpa fans. We have simply tried to maintain peace as we always have. If there was no bashing of Shilpa, if there was no conflict between her and the new actress, the rule would not have been created. It's very easy to sit there and judge the Dev Team and claim bias when the decisions of the forum do not rest on your shoulders. The well-being of this section is what we are entrusted with every day, since the start of the show. We created the thread because our first priority is the members, it always has been.

Also has anyone thought of visiting Kash Heaven in the CFC forum as well?

2. Mayank Leaving and his topics are allowed: This is because, unlike with Shilpa Anand's departure, Mayank is not being replaced by another actor. We are not showing any partiality towards Mayank fans here, this is the action of the show and not us. He can also be discussed in the RM fan club in Chat Club section. Also, tell me did we not offer a Classic DMG Thread? This was made just for you all... it was made so that each and everyone could have the opportunity to talk about their favorite characters and episodes from the past. It was created for people to reminisce and enjoy their best moments again.

Everyone at a point of time has and of course we are "human being" and I am so sorry I could not raise everyone's warning level on this forum.

4. Voicing your opinion is never against the rules, but bashing is. We are a family here, and we strive to remain so. Dev Team has always done their best to be fair and impartial. Sometimes members may disagree on a few points, but at the end of the day DMG forum is like a family, a community and no one can ever change that.

I apologize for any mistakes that I may have made on DMG forum as I am just a human being.

Once again, you all may continue to call me a hypocrite, a bias, or call us whatever names you would like or you you may decide to work with us and make this forum a better place.

The choice is yours.

I am sure some members will still not be satisfied with my reply and would like to question me. I do not mind you all pming me, but I will say I have another forum that I have to take care of and I have some requests that I need to attend to first. So you all have to be patient with me.

Since I am just one person.. I can only do so much at a time.

Gagan, Trina, and Preeti