I had this sudden urge to write this down, I always "tried" to explain this in different replies but erased it all since it usually got pretty lengthy and a bit deep ' lol : ) but now I can't resist and I feel to spit it all out.
Now whatever piece I've written is basically the portrayal and meaning in depth of Armaan and Riddhima played by Karan and Shilpa. I hope nobody gets me wrong in here = ] since I was only able to connect with AR when it was played by KaSh and some changes after Shilpa went were unable for me to digest so yeah : )
Before I begin my bhashan LOL, a humble request if you're planning to read the whole of this, which I really hope; this may take a bit of your time and a request to keep your minds and hearts open enough to absorb. and again a caution that this is too long so read it you have good timeThat's it so I'll start now = ]
"Twin soul" is the other half of our soul.
As much as I've noticed most of us here have understood what love is by watching Armaan Riddhima, and I'm one of them
We usually call stick names like "immortal or made for each other" to clarify them as romantic and sometimes we don't even realize the amount of power these sentences or words have in them.
If someone says that "Armaan Riddhima are made for each other" , these words just keep flying everywhere for most Jodi's in television and in common, but these names "Armaan and Riddhima" give the best sense to words like "immortal and soulmates".
No what does Immortal mean? "Forever together no matter what" your answer might be, now has anyone thought about how long is this "forever" ?
Soul mates and "made for each other" share the same meaning to some extent. Now this is one word that I feel esteem of.
Whatever our mind says, or what we do might be not the same or not how we want it to be but our souls are pure, that speak only and only the truth.
"A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we're pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we're safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we're two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we've found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life."
-Richard Bach
Their general approach towards life was very different and that acted as a key-lock mechanism which fitted perfectly.
Armaan portrays such an intense and luminous character which was an instant grabber. A guy who comes from a disturbing home background [ this hasn't been shown in DMG but I hope most of you know that ] thus leading him to be carefree in his daily life. He is a killer, and he knows that, he knows that just about ANY girl would die to be with him and he is proud of himself. Being proud, stuffy, intelligent and witty; this is just an OUTSIDE appearance but inside he owns a heart of gold. Like they say "strong from outside but anything can melt him within". He knows what true love is BUT he thought it never existed since he had only faced hatred and fakeness throughout his life. He does love, he does care, he has dreams but he thought he would never ever find true love, so no point of trying.
Riddhima on the other hand was someone who showed herself as a person who believes in spreading love everywhere. Someone who enjoys life to the fullest but at the same time of being innocent, she's a person who at any cost never accepts crap from anyone. She knows that it's a bad world out there but she tries her best to never let herself out of the shade of love. Her idea of love is a simple attachment, care and affection like most girls. She dreams but never expects her dreams to come true always and if she does she works for it. Her soul's desire for a guy was someone who would just love her but for her reality that she thought wanted a mature man who would help raise a perfect house and a practical family, not much expressive love and thus Rahul was introduced to create distractions.
To summarize, both of their minds thought they wanted someone else but their true soul had a different idea : ) and they just had to meet where their God began their story.
They met and their clash of thoughts began from the very moment, but instead of parting their ways they still were face to face. While walking away from each other they smiled, something was there that was holding them together, their souls'
How much Armaan tried he never could ignore her, his competition or even aggression had Riddhima connected with. After his first fight with Riddhima [Maya's case] her forgave her knowing that she wasn't purposeful and the reason that there is something that he can't get away with her...
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Initially, Anjali was supposed to play as a third person between AR but after realizing how much magnitude these two [ the credit goes to Karan Shilpa aswell ] that track was cut off, amazing. Since whatever shall happen nothing can separate these two because their souls are connected.
The jungle episode was one of the most beautiful episodes in DMG!! Their small, sweet conversation beside the fire was magical, how both of them became their real selves infront of each other. Armaan might have not met a girl who wanted to know about him and neither Riddhima met anyone who would speak infront of him.
" I love you not only for what you are but what I am when I'm with you"
Armaan realized that he was attracted to her, and his first confirmation was when he saw her swaying her wet hair. He saw and instant glance of beauty. A beauty that he dreamed but never thought it would become a reality but speechless when it happened right in front of him.
Some people say that soulmates are already destined to be together or to play a certain part in one's life, and that's what these two did when they entered each other's lives. Changed it for the good.
Someone with whom we can connect to a deeper level and natural affinity is our soulmate .These two fell for each other for the people that each other were "deep" inside and not what they showed to the world.
There's one life, there's one love and they were destined to be each other's soulmates. As time goes by you realize who your soulmate is, eventhough it might be with difficulty. Armaan did but Riddhima didn't. Armaan collected his real soul self pretty soon when he realized what he was and what he wanted to be and with whom he wanted to be. Riddhima in contrast, was confused since it was hard for her to digest the differences between her mind and heart, but their souls were solely for each other, they just had to be one. Armaan was so sure of his relationship with her, he knew it just wasn't friends or crush, since he had experienced past relationships and knows the difference.
His trust towards her that she loves him too, confirmed Riddhima's fondness for him aswell. She realised it with tears in her eyes, those tears were pure explaining how much she tries to get away from him, it is absolutely impossible. During the confession, she couldn't control her weakness which flowed in the form of tears. Her strong outside diluted and she told what she felt .
After their first break up, why didn't she stop talking to him? Why did she still care for him, even if it was as a friend? Armaan had made up his mind to forget her, but why did they still attract each other? What attracted them? '' their souls'
Another factor that proves this is their dense bonding'Armaan is a tough aswell as a happy go ' lucky guy after meeting Riddhima, infront of others at least. Now how will anybody believe that he tears can be so bottomless? That crave for longing would be in him? His unlimited love for Riddhima has proved it'Riddhima herself knows how much pain she has caused him with her unintentional actions in the past and how it hurts him and he becomes lifeless without her. During the ghulami days, she tried her finest to cheer him up and she knew no body else except her could do it. Her "zara zara" dance was an example. She could go to any extent, if it makes Armaan happy and when Armaan did that purposely, it showed that he knows how deep Riddhima's love is for him aswell.
Their physical attraction towards each other also played a part' They both never hugged or even kissed all the time or whenever they met.. .they didn't feel they needed much of that since their relationship wasn't only based on that'Armaan however, teased her but never forced her for anything because he understood the relative concept and was happy for it. Although their eyes did the same job' Riddhima always wanted to make everything as exceptional and hang about it for the later life.
Another thing that nobody knew about their relationship thus they were only considered as a normal "boyfriend-girlfriend" relationship but even for once not discussing about a step like "marriage" they both know that they are intended to live together for the rest of their lives, this was their FAITH in each other.
Now there have been many issues about "trust" in their relationship. I would clarify that they both DO trust each other. The Patiala case was not out of "no" trust but it was because Riddhima was afraid of loosing him and their identity in that process. She was only afraid of how immature can Armaan get, since she herself is practical.how he didn't realize to do something which can cause a problem or help someone. If we look deeper to what Armaan did, if it was portrayed more to reality, there would be more problems..in every sense' After so many problems [ including the bet case] for once when their relationship was safe, another problem occurred for which made herself shatter.
As I said a soulmate comes and makes a twin inside us..now when they both separated, they practically loosed track of THEMSELVES but not of each other. They both didn't know where their lives were heading without each other or even what they were doing. The lost their balance of life, forgot the reason they are breathing. They found it hard to survive, their tears flowed like Niagara falls but they couldn't share it with anyone. They only needed each other. Each other's lifelines' You can't live without your part soul and neither could they without each other.
There have been infinity numbers of phases these two have gone through in their relationship in such less time, but still remaining their bond as steadfast. Nothing can break the impenetrable bond they share. Their relationship being friends or lovers both is so deep that truly defines that they are meant to be and they will remain meant for each other forever.
I haven't clearly said what I wanted actually but tried my best. Hope it wasn't boring LOL, I go a bit philosophical at times so'lol' So that's what KaSh as AR are for me, immortal.
These weren't the things what their relationship is but just how they display of "meant to be" emphasis.
I salute these two and aswell as Karan and Shilpa for portraying this so naturally!!
As much as I've written I'd be glad if you guys would aswell display your reflective views in the limelight and let me know if I've done justice in here! : )
Edited by ~@$hm@~ - 16 years ago
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