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Posted: 8 years ago
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Teni deserves closure. Parth has to give her the closure she requires. It's vital for her to move on. He's left her hanging. She has to know wat he thinks & what he feels. he has been the person she's always looked upto. his advice his part of the story and his explanation is necessary for her. It doesn't have to be an ending where anyone gets hurt but it can't be an ending where Teni's first love doesn't give her closure. Aman too deserves the woman he loves to be with him with a clear mind. Teni has to know where she's heading and only Parth can show her the direction at this point. In fact she wants him to talk whether he screams shouts reprimands breaks ties but talks. this style of letting the matter cool down without discussing it doesn't get past her it just doesn't work for her.
I know it's a long rant but I truly feel for Teni and I want her to be happy with Aman he's amazing and he loves her she deserves him and Parth needs to talk to her and solve this issue so that even he can be happy with Shor and Tunnu and not distracted and stuck in a dilemma.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well situations like this aren't easy to handle to any one. Parth himself is in a dilemma, of how to behave with her anymore. He never expected this from her. His intentions have always been clear for him, he never dreamt that she would have developed feelings for him, in spite of him being married and moreover totally in love with his wife. She has seen how PaRi love each other. Still she dreamt of becoming the second wife in his life. I don't think it's easier to think straight.

He is under the impression that she wants to move on, and that's why she was trying to hide that letter. He didn't want to make her feel embarrassed at herself. I think he is right in his POV.

What sort of closure is needed? I don't understand. She knows he loves his wife Shorvari and won't accept anyone between the two of them. He also made himself clear that he wants her to get matured and move on in her life with aman, not because their marriage is fixed but she herself chose to marry Aman. Then what kinda closure she needs? Why does she expects straight words from him? They say actions speak louder than words, which she is missing to read. I think Parth is right in judging her, she is very immature, and needs to grow up a lot.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Though Parth looks disturbed and in dilemma because of Teni's feelings now, he won't be in that state for long. Once Teni gets married and moves to US, he will gradually be back to his routine life, because he doesn't have any dilemma in his mind regarding his feelings for Teni and Shorvori. He is very clear that he cares for Teni just as a friend and nothing else, and that he loves only Shorvori and can never give her place in his life to anyone else.

The way Parth is dealing with the situation right now, it right from his POV. The marriage is just a few days away and if anything wrong happens, his entire family including himself, his wife and Aman will be broken.. So he can't take the risk of provoking Teni purposely, especially when he thinks that Teni is trying to move on and Aman is right choice for her. He is absolutely right in assuming that even Teni doesn't want anyone to know about her feelings, because none of Teni's actions have indicated that she wants her feelings to come to fore and to disturb her as well as PaRi's life.

As Sudha wrote, Parth has indicated through his actions that he is happy in his life with Shorvori, and wants Teni to be happy with Aman in a similar way.. Despite that if Teni is not realizing and wants a further closure to her lovestory, isn't it her responsibility to talk to Parth and get things cleared? How is it Parth's responsibility to give her that closure when he doesn't actually know what is going in her mind??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: princess_farh

Teni deserves closure. Parth has to give her the closure she requires. It's vital for her to move on. He's left her hanging. She has to know wat he thinks & what he feels. he has been the person she's always looked upto. his advice his part of the story and his explanation is necessary for her. It doesn't have to be an ending where anyone gets hurt but it can't be an ending where Teni's first love doesn't give her closure. Aman too deserves the woman he loves to be with him with a clear mind. Teni has to know where she's heading and only Parth can show her the direction at this point. In fact she wants him to talk whether he screams shouts reprimands breaks ties but talks. this style of letting the matter cool down without discussing it doesn't get past her it just doesn't work for her.
I know it's a long rant but I truly feel for Teni and I want her to be happy with Aman he's amazing and he loves her she deserves him and Parth needs to talk to her and solve this issue so that even he can be happy with Shor and Tunnu and not distracted and stuck in a dilemma.
Wat do you all think?


totally agreed
but as for 'she deserves him' i doubt that now
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was under the impression that teni has figured out tat parth had read the letter and she also realised tat he dint want to speak about it to embarrass her or make her feel like a fool..why is teni suddenly so confused now?
Secondly..what makes you say parth has left her hanging around? Did parth ever confess that he loves teni? Or did he even flirt eith teni and propose to her? Or is he her bf or hubby? His intentions have always been very clear..she also knows that..she heard him say that he believes teni and she wont ever think about coming between him and shorvari...so where is this hanging thing coming up?

In the situation where parth is right now..he is doing it right...he knws this female pretty well..and whether he accepts her love or says no or whether he keeps quiet..this female will anywhich ways complicate things...
She couldnt bear his one ignorance...where will she bear his no for an answer for her so called love?
And talking about first love...love..be it first or last is never selfish...here teni isnt in love with parth...of she was she would have thought about what he wants...whether he will be happy with her becoming his wife..she would have tried to understand what he wants and what he feels..which she dint...in the heat of the moment...to appease her hurt ego..she blindly put his picture in the envelop without even thinking about the consequences of it..all she thinks about is herself, her dreams and her wishes...did she think of what aman wants? Did she think about what impact it will have on parth himself..and shorvari? Poor thing is so unwanted and forgotten by her...
Going by this..do u think teni even deserves aman? Teni doesnt deserve parth(well he never was hers..he was he is and he shall always be shorvari's even if teni manages to get parth by hook or crook) and she doesnt deserve aman too...aman at the end of the day is a human with real emotions..she has no rights to play with it..i would rather prefer aman finding a better girl for himself than getting hitched to such a selfish girl
Like some people have mentioned in the previous post..its teni who needs to give a closure and not parth..how can he talk to her without even knowing wat she is thinking and what she wants? He has umpteen number of times shown and told about his love for shorvari in front of teni..if she cant understand such a basic thing..then whose fault is it? Its not necessary tat parth should always behave with teni the way teni wants him to behave...if his actions and ignoracnce are not enough for her to understand then parth cant help it..all he is trying to do is save this woman from embarrassment...which isnt wrong..

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