Were the Bhanushali's rational with Teni? - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well, I have a slightly different take on this rationality part.
In my opinion Bhanushali's are utterly selfish people, and their principles of life are not aligned. So to expect rationality is far-fetched.

However, as a family, they never really wanted to do anything with Teni. At some point they even asked her to leave clearly knowing she is Shorvori's sister. And I don't blame them, because it's their house and they can decide whom to entertain and whom not.

In their opinion, Teni is nothing but a burden whom they don't want to deal with. And to top it up, Teni's antics are making things difficult.

Here, it hurts, because it is Sejal who goes scott-free, while Teni bears the brunt. But no one knows that it is Teni who is doing them a favour and not the other way round. So it hurts to see Teni in this position.

However, it's time for Parth-Shovori to become rational and think for Teni's safety and provide her with secured environment.

PaRi planned for this surroagcy only to please their family, and now they should evaluate, how are they going to deal with lies/ Teni's honour / pregnancy for the next 8 months.

In the mean-time, of course waiting for Sejal to be exposed.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: NatalyMusketeer


I don't understand all these ultra-orthodox family rules anyway but what annoyed me most was that Parth just nodded and swallowed at all that they said or demanded from him...


There is nothing that Parth can really do in this situation. He himself is helpless. The Bhanushalis don't consider him anything more than their heir!! 🤔 His opinions, his choice doesn't matter to them.. Also, he is constrained by the fear of separating from the family again.. He won't do anything extreme against them unless the situation becomes critical
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

Well, I have a slightly different take on this rationality part.

In my opinion Bhanushali's are utterly selfish people, and their principles of life are not aligned. So to expect rationality is far-fetched.

However, as a family, they never really wanted to do anything with Teni. At some point they even asked her to leave clearly knowing she is Shorvori's sister. And I don't blame them, because it's their house and they can decide whom to entertain and whom not.

In their opinion, Teni is nothing but a burden whom they don't want to deal with. And to top it up, Teni's antics are making things difficult.

Here, it hurts, because it is Sejal who goes scott-free, while Teni bears the brunt. But no one knows that it is Teni who is doing them a favour and not the other way round. So it hurts to see Teni in this position.

However, it's time for Parth-Shovori to become rational and think for Teni's safety and provide her with secured environment.

PaRi planned for this surroagcy only to please their family, and now they should evaluate, how are they going to deal with lies/ Teni's honour / pregnancy for the next 8 months.

In the mean-time, of course waiting for Sejal to be exposed.


Very well said, especially the bold part. I think PaRi needed an eye opener to realize that they can't have Teni staying in the house for all 9 months.. Hopefully them realizing this after the hotel fiasco and making alternate arrangements will be the next track!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: _goofyCat_


There is nothing that Parth can really do in this situation. He himself is helpless. The Bhanushalis don't consider him anything more than their heir!! 🤔 His opinions, his choice doesn't matter to them.. Also, he is constrained by the fear of separating from the family again.. He won't do anything extreme against them unless the situation becomes critical


Sometimes the dire situation can lead to irreplaceable loss. Parth, once broke the shackles of family ties for his love. He would certainly rise to occasions, demanding such tough actions in future. He obeyed his mother's order because Shourvari was there to take the charge. PaRi and Teni relationship may suffer upheavals but won't get withered due to family pressure.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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At last get time to In here...
Ok all perspectives are already said...

Only @Sudha-SIMPLY BANG ON POST👏

@Arpimugfan-Arpi...Are you here???
Finally see some familiar face.😃

@Nats-For me From beginning Parth's charecter bear this mentality...it's Maker's choice he will stay with family in any condition else he already separated from his family economically also stayed at other place when he got married with Shorvori which is normal in our society.

@goofy-We should be wait till the date of the revelation of truth infront of Bhanushali family then the trio lead or may be only Teni(may be not)automatically get evicted from Bhanushali house.😆

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