Originally posted by: Saraella
you are so right mishti. After I was free from kidnapping even people blamed me. Some people even went to that extent that you should have stayed with your husband no matter what kind of person he was and what he did. And to me I was just shocked. And then I came back to USA. I was so shocked that they were telling me to stay with a kidnapper just for the sake that he marry me.
It's wrong Sarah, totally wrong. You did the right thing! Never think for even a second that you might have done the wrong thing because you have the right to live your life happily. That's what mom says. Any and every person has the right to live their lives happily and not in fear. In fact, YOU don't have the right to live your life in fear for the sake of society or someone other than yourself. You're not happy with that person and he's not keeping you happy, then that's it…leave…and if you have a kid, then that's a double sign for you to leave because trust me, that kid would want to live in peace rather than seeing fights everyday more than wanting a father. I know I wanted mom to leave dad because I couldn't take it anymore….