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lakshmi

@Ephemera

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Posted: 13 years ago

and that too over fictious charechters?

opinions are opinions y are they used as stimulants and provoke each other?

what are we getting by fighting? this forum is to promote friendship and bonding which all goes to drain...is it really helping us in any way?

freedom of speech is one right which is grossly misunderstood,misused...

come on guys we all have our priorities in life..y are we giving some form of entertainment more importance and belittling/bad mouthing each other?

y are we bashing each other? dooriyan badrahi hey so alag

THIS IS NOT FORUM SPECIFIC>>>THIS IS A GENERAL TOPIC...i dunno where to post general topic..am so sorry

what you feel friends am i correct? feel free to say...bash me if you want too

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lakshmi

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Posted: 13 years ago

i know either people will turn blind eye..or will ignore...but do think guys...please... once again this is rampant in whole IF not restricted to any forum so this topic is also in general..

Edited by lakshmi_3004 - 13 years ago

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KhatamKahani

@KhatamKahani

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Posted: 13 years ago

Don't worry. This is nothing compared to how it was before, and nothing compared to what might be later.

So... this is nothing. This is not the worst. 😆

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stephenie

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ofcourse you are perfectly right di..but you know what..frankly speaking..

Main haar gayi..I've lost it..and I hold my ears and apologise to evreyone, EVERYONE in this forum for any nuisance ever created..and will never ever post anything on this forum except my OSs, and commenting on RaghaVi posts..

Thanks a ton for creating this post and trying to replace peace & harmony on the forum.😊

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flutterby

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Posted: 13 years ago

hey... u r right...😊 but it becomes natural for people to start fighting, forming fan groups, liking a paticular actor more than the others... u have fights and arguments in almost every social networking media... be it on fb, twitter, and other fields like politics where people badmouth politicians...🤢 sports where again people have fav athletes who r worshipped as gods... and treated worse than dirt when they lose... the media instigates fights by comparing one party against the other... showbiz is no different...where paticular actors rise to fame very quickly, peak and then r on the downslide... they gain a lot of fans during this journey... i make like a paticular actor for certain qualities which maybe overlooked by others... others too have their preferences...

yes... u r absolutely right when u say that we shdnt let it become our priorities... but discussions, debates,arguments r the base for us to learn different points of view which we may normally overlook.. 😳 these forums have been started for us to put forth our views, feelings, suggestions etc... a fight here and there will happen... its normal as each of us have different points of view which we share with others and wud like to get to know theirs... it will be unnatural for people to always have good things to say abt everything... hence fights occur...

i wud love to have ur point of view regarding my response to ur feedback

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lakshmi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: likarsh
Don't worry. This is nothing compared to how it was before, and nothing compared to what might be later.

So... this is nothing. This is not the worst. 😆

so tho hey dear..

.how can i not worry cos people involved in it are so talented in many different ways..but wasting there talent in petty mindless fights!!...

.but don't u think it would be nice if it was NOT worse? i mean is all of it even worth?

can you help me in lessening this chasm and disharmony a bit please hon.

.i dont know how,,but i wanna replace disharmony with harmony atleast to certain extent if not fully

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lakshmi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: stephenie
Ofcourse you are perfectly right di..but you know what..frankly speaking..
Main haar gayi..I've lost it..and I hold my ears and apologise to evreyone, EVERYONE in this forum for any nuisance ever created..and will never ever post anything on this forum except my OSs, and commenting on RaghaVi posts..

Thanks a ton for creating this post and trying to replace peace & harmony on the forum.😊

well it seems i am not at all sucessful in catching everyone's attention to this matter

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lakshmi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: flutterby
hey... u r right...😊 but it becomes natural for people to start fighting, forming fan groups, liking a paticular actor more than the others... u have fights and arguments in almost every social networking media... be it on fb, twitter, and other fields like politics where people badmouth politicians...🤢 sports where again people have fav athletes who r worshipped as gods... and treated worse than dirt when they lose... the media instigates fights by comparing one party against the other... showbiz is no different...where paticular actors rise to fame very quickly, peak and then r on the downslide... they gain a lot of fans during this journey... i make like a paticular actor for certain qualities which maybe overlooked by others... others too have their preferences...

yes... u r absolutely right when u say that we shdnt let it become our priorities... but discussions, debates,arguments r the base for us to learn different points of view which we may normally overlook.. 😳 these forums have been started for us to put forth our views, feelings, suggestions etc... a fight here and there will happen... its normal as each of us have different points of view which we share with others and wud like to get to know theirs... it will be unnatural for people to always have good things to say abt everything... hence fights occur...

i wud love to have ur point of view regarding my response to ur feedback

i completely agree with you hon...but i dont think airing your views should be tagged with unecessary chasm and disharmony created on purpose here!!...i mean just to make a scene or show there support no body should cross the untold limits of humanity dear! when it comes to opinions each should respect other

a fight here and there is ok until only when its just here and there and NOT every where...

and exactly its what happening the negativity quotient of IF has increased a lot these years hon..

no one has the rights to hurt another human for a reason as silly as this dear

i know indian fans have lot of fanatism..i dont say i am clean chit either but when conscietous is asking question no one can run from it dear...

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survi035

@survi035

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Posted: 13 years ago

I understand your point of you and do agree that there is alot of bashing and I am not pointing out a particular forum...this happens on almost every forum on IF. Some Forums are worse than others.

However, despite some of us wanting this IF to be a place of peace and harmony the reality is that some people will always turn this into a battle zone. And I suppose its natural when all comments and suggestions are communicated online.

People misunderstand eachother and others get offended. As much as wanting IF to an ideal place to share your views, it will sadly may never reach that standard.

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lakshmi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: survi035
I understand your point of you and do agree that there is alot of bashing and I am not pointing out a particular forum...this happens on almost every forum on IF. Some Forums are worse than others.

However, despite some of us wanting this IF to be a place of peace and harmony the reality is that some people will always turn this into a battle zone. And I suppose its natural when all comments and suggestions are communicated online.

People misunderstand eachother and others get offended. As much as wanting IF to an ideal place to share your views, it will sadly may never reach that standard.

well first of all actors act do there job...we fight over them...what is the use?simple...allready to escape daily rat race many come here know dear? even here if its battle ravaged then what is the use...

exactly any place having opposite views is there any rule that bashing should happen?

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