Done with this show...

I never thought I will share my story in an open forum!!!!!

But Now I am.

Few years back I was kidnapped. There I was torture like hell just like jhanvi. Get hit from belt was something normal for me. For Seven Months, i was treated worst than animals! I try to escape but I fail and that day was worst for me. I got married forcefully. After long sevent months, I was out of the hell and those people who kidnap me were sent to jail. I lost many love onces. That phase of my life was worst for me but then I came back to america. When I came back, i was not same as before. i was scared of everyone and for some time I didnt utter a word out of my mouth! But then after some time I got hold of myself and came out of that phase.

And as a women and as a victim of abuser I feel that this show is disrespecting womens who go through this. By glorifying viraj they are gaving those people who does this all in real world to keep doing this more.

I am disgust with this show! And if Viraj married Jhanvi again and If they continue to show Viraj winning and jhanvi getting torture and raghav getting punishment then I am DONE WITH THIS SHOW!!!!

And I feel even more ridiculous when people defend viraj actions and people like his acts. Because it feels even more hurtful when people of real world defend such characters just because they are handsome and smart.

It truly hurts when you go through all this!

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I never thought that I will share my past here on social networking sites but I cannot control myself when i saw the episode. I felt disgust with it and I will quit if they keep showing the crap because it hurted my badly.

I felt worst by writing each of these words here. it was not easy for me. So i request you all to forget your love for HC SJ KVB when you reply on this post. And plzz dont bash each other.

Originally posted by: Desi_Girl1991

OMG Sara! I'm so sorry for what you had to go through! I am so glad that you came out of it.

My mom suffered from DV as well. I remember that whenever I see my dad hitting my mom, I end up screaming at the top of my lungs without even realizing it. I would realize that I have been screaming whenever I run out of breath or when I feel I'm about to pass out. It was like this all the time and I basically grew up watching dad hitting mom, but I never got used to it. Finally we came to America and now we are all free.

Mom doesn't watch this show as she doesn't like Indian drama (I can actually see why), but I can say that I do not understand what a woman goes through as I never went through DV as a wife, but I went through it as a daughter. From my POV, I HATE IT whenever I see Viraj winning, or being smart, or being glorified, or Sia being scared or tortured, and Raghav being punished. For me, and for Sia obviously, Raghav is her saviour and he doesn't deserve to be in JAIL!! Or punished!

For my mom, her saviour was her brother. My uncle stood by us and I CANNOT imagine him going to Jail...I cannot!! That's why for me, Raghav resembles my uncle who stood up against my dad for my mom. That doesn't mean I see Raghav as my uncle or that Raghav shouldn't marry Sia. Raghav should definitely marry Sia. My mom met a guy a year ago and she told him what she went through and that she still doesn't have divorce from our country because she has to go back but she's too afraid as my dad has all the resources he needs in there. My step dad said he wants to stand with her and protect her and protect us; her children! He helped her get divorce here in the USA from my dad and now she's happily married to him and my step dad is AWESOME!! For those who think that Raghav is a fair-tale and whatnot, he is NOT! He is reality, and so is Viraj and Sia. These people DO exist! But the amount of glorification that Viraj is getting is unrealistic. Only the people who REALLY understand what Sia is going through are the people who actually experienced it, and those who experienced it believe that Viraj is being glorified, so in that essence, Viraj is being glorified.

Yes you are right Raghav and Sia are not fairytale. its reality. I am so glad that your mom got remarried and shes happy. she truly deserve to be happy :)

That time for me was ridiculous. My worst phase of my life. If I write more about that phase then I will end up crying. I will only say one thing today episode totally made me shock and I am still shocked and if this goes on then i will stop watching this show because its making me feel disgusting

I cannot even imagine what you had to go through, I mean kidnap? Forced marriage?!?! I'm so glad those animals who did this to you are in jail! If it was up to me, I'd let them have a taste of what you went through, only then it'll get into their low life brains!

Originally posted by: Desi_Girl1991

I cannot even imagine what you had to go through, I mean kidnap? Forced marriage?!?! I'm so glad those animals who did this to you are in jail! If it was up to me, I'd let them have a taste of what you went through, only then it'll get into their low life brains!

If you stopped watching this show, I totally understand. Too many emotions are linked with this story. It's not just any story where if the bad guys wins it's okay, the viewers will wait for the next chance, NO! This story is reality and it happens not in one home or two, it happens in NUMEROUS homes and the women who leave their abuser do it with so much courage that by the time they are invisible to their abusers, the courage start to waver and fear starts to take over. But what makes them go on is the little hope that they carry with them.

If the CVs keep glorifying evil, then what would these poor women feel?! Like they'll never win? They'll never have a life?! That their abuser will always follow them and WIN?!?! CVs better get their act together or they'll lose every female viewer who went through a similar ordeal as Jhanvi, and every male viewer who had one of his female family member go through DV.

Today episode made me feel worst and if Tom Viraj will marry Jhanvi then I quit this show. I love HC and SJ but I hate to say this that if they keep glorifying viraj then I will not even watch this show for them!

I was loving cvs from last three weeks but today epi made me disgust.

Originally posted by: Desi_Girl1991

Great topic Sara. I salute you for doing such a brave thing by sharing your life's most grusome phase 👏. I'll pray for you. May God bless you with all the possible happiness this life has to offer. You are a role model dear. ⭐️

Dont make me such big. I just open my feelings thats all. Thank you I consider my self really lucky that I am out of hell but there are many womens who go through this their whole life.

I hope that tom they dont show Sia and Viraj marry.

Originally posted by: carisma2

Sara ... I'm speechless... 🤗🤗 U are a brave young woman.

So sorry abt your past. You are an inspiration for other women out there.

Like I said I am done commenting on this forum. Entertainment and all has a limit. CV's have crossed that limit. Everyone is upset with this knews .. apart from the few psychos on cybernet - who wud support this marriage.

Jahnvi didn't get raped just once. Every time V put his hands on her - when she didn't want him to .. that was rape aswell.

No one shud go thru what she went thru. Even at first if ppl did have a hope that maybe once He's treated and Okay they can start afresh. BUT V can and never will change. OCPD or no OCPD. Or whatever craze he has.

His abuse in his childhood doesn't excuse him to inflict pain on others. There are 5- year old children in India walking miles to festch water.. doing child labour - living in slums...

I'm sure emotionally they will all have 'lost childhood' like issues.. but that doesn't mean that they should all become criminals.

I now know what Viraj is... and no doubt he has style.. but that style comes fom KVB. Today they made a mockery. I wasn't going to say anything - just keep my thoughts to myself. BUT U are a friend... And friends share your pain with you.

I'm here for you always.

Cari.. xx

Hi cari thanks a lot for the reply.

The less I comment about this show, the more its better. I just hope tom Jhanvi does not married viraj and there is some plan in jhanvi mind.

You are right. Viraj disease cannot justified his actions

Originally posted by: april10

Brave girls... So happy that you both are much more happy in life again

I hope some days Sia will get her happiness back just like you guys...

Exactly that is the reason I do not like it when CVs glorify evil psycho character too much.

Do they want to pass right message to society or do they want to teach abusive husband different trick to abuse their wives.