I will only say about the disliking/hate vs attraction theory..
Omkara is attracted to Gouri from very beginning but his mind has been shadowed by the false story happened infront of his eyes..
Unknowingly but he always missed Gouri..Thats the reason when he was near to death he didn't think about his family or his Bros but about Gouri..she has been digged deep down in his heart without his knowledge..
Now his judgement about Gouri is created by his mind not his heart..if he is drugged or testing Gouri he is attracted to her,and in that process if he kissed her there is nothing wrong,as attractions sometimes becomes soo strong that it makes people forgot their own characteristics,principles knowing the other person is not deserving they cant stay away or act normally in front of the significant others..They will be always in the extreme mode like sometime very cold or sometime hot..Its a human nature...Omkara is going through the same phase.When he got intoxicated his inner feelings comes out..
I am feeling bad for you as you have invested soo much of your time to see Omkaras love story and it couldn't leave up to your expectation.May be lot of people's expectation here including me..
But dear practically kissing part is fine if he drugged or testing her..other scenario I don't know..
But if you don't feel comfortable take your call but come back and continue watching the episodes for future story..dont restrain yourself 😊