mother weakness or strength?

Ok.. I am really unhappy about today's Janvi 's part...
Do mothers really are a person 's weakness.. I too love my mother a lot but I think my mother is my strength not my weakness..
Many still consider Janvi to be a better mother than Pinky..
But I really don't think so.
Earlier I thought both are equal.. Where on one side Pinki ruined his son 's thoughts.. Where on the other Hand Janvi ruined their childhood...
But now I feel Janvi to be worse than even Pinki..
At least Shivaay had a mom.. Whatever be her thought system at least he felt that motherly love..
But Omru never have parents.. Earlier their mother never had time for them as she always drenched in alcohol...
And now she have killed them.. Killed her own sons..
Yes you read right..
She have killed the previous Om.. She have changed him so much..
She have destroyed his thought process everything..
The sachayi ka boyfriend Om.. Who never used to lie.. Who even didn't lied to save his brother Shivaay whom he love so much during the Gayatri death incident...
Is lying to trap Svetlana.. To get her mom 's happiness..
She have killed that om..
That om who never wanted to do business but is doing for her mother..
I don't think the real villain of the show are Kali, Trj or Svetlana but I think it is Janvi instead..
The one who have killed the male protagonist...
Many were unhappy when gauri treating Om as Devta thing come..
Some tried to justify it as her being uneducated stuff..
Some also said why uneducated leads..etc..
But I don't think if Gul can show educated person 's like Janvi then there is any problem in lead being uneducated..
Janvi being so much educated to is doing the same..
If hypothetically I have to pray somebody and have to choose between Om and Tej.. I will choose Om.. Anytime..
I don't understand what J will get keeping tej away from Svet..
He will never love her..
Then what she need..
I may sound rude but I was so wishing that she die ..
Nothing against the actress playing Janvi...

Sorry for the long rant..
But I was very upset with mom being called as weakness...
I don't think any mom will want to become weakness of his child

The way I see it...there was no other way Omkara's character could've shaped up other than the way it did. Yes, Omkara's character has been changed a LOT for DBO. We don't get to see anything from his self in IB. But the only consistent thing that has remained is the fact that Omkara feels STRONGLY for his mother. I remember how Omkara was introduced in IB. He was shown defending his mother, demanding that his father apologize for being rude to his mother. I agree that Omkara never got the parents' love and him having the sensitive soul of an artist, it affected him more severely than it affected Rudra. Rudra could at least get along with Tej owing to his bindaas and i-dont-care-about-family-politics attitude (whether its his actual personality or not is another debate) But Omkara can't be hypocritical about it because, well, Sach Ka Boyfriend.

The Omkara-Jhanvi relationship is SO dysfunctional because the roles are reversed. In our desi culture, it's the mother who is the one protecting her children by sacrificing herself. And when the children grow old and become capable, she gets to take a rest ke "mera bacha hai na..." But Oberois mein aisa koi scene nahin hai. I could be wrong cuz I don't have extensive IB knowledge but has Jhanvi ever stepped up for her son? Has Omkara ever witnessed his mother being the shield between himself and his father's unkind behavior? I don't think he has. He has been a spectator of seeing his mother being a victim and slowly dying inside because of how Tej Oberoi treated her. So the love that a child has for his mother got twisted in Omkara and took the shape of being a protective shield. Like I said, the roles reversed. Omkara's protectiveness for Jhanvi isn't because "this woman spent her devoted her entire life into bringing me up and protecting me from the world's cruelties...it's my turn now to do the same for her". His protectiveness is more like "I was too young to save my mother then...but now no one can stop me from doing it". I'm not saying a mother-child relationship is based on give&take but there's a reason they say a child can never even pay back to his mother for a single night that she spent awake and caring for him...and it's because a mother always, always sacrifices more.

Another thing to be noted...it was Bua Maa who had more hand in raising the child Omkara. Not Jhanvi.

So yeah...in Omkara's case, a mother can be a weakness. Because the nature of the people involved in this mother-child relationship is not normal. Jhanvi isn't selfish but her actions are. They are borderline masochist. Idk why but she is SO used to being verbally and mentally abused that instead of wanting an out from it, she is finding reasons to stay in that cycle of abuse. See the way Rudra and Shivaay see Jhanvi's situation compared to Omkara. If Omkara wasn't the sensitive soul that he is, his reaction to the situation wouldn't be the same as it is now. But because he IS who he is, it makes sense for him to view Jhanvi as his weakness.

In contrast, Gauri's mother isn't Gauri's weakness the way Jhanvi is Omkara's. Because her version of protectiveness, devotion, and love comes from the typical, "This woman raised me up when the world abandoned me...ab isski khatir apni jaan bhi jaye to parwah nahin" Both Omkara and Gauri have been shown doing extreme things for their mothers but the WHYS of it differ owing to different circumstances and nature of the people involved.

Pinky obsessed with her son...Jhanvi obsessed with her hubby. Both of them selfish but from different way. It is funny how Jhanvi from one side saying she is not care about what Tej will do and from another side she is crying and want commit suicide. She is BAD EXAMPLE for any woman. She should have been give him divorece when he asked about this first time and thats it. Later Tej himself would have been come to her and begged forgiveness. And her line to God about "I dont care about herself...But please care about my kids" was so stupid and funny! TejVi both can die...But I just feel bad for OmRu.

Fighting for one's right is nothing to do with education.highly educated jhanvi didn't have the capability to fight against tej' s evil doings and our 5th passed gauri didn't want her hubby's support to live her life..

It's person own choice 2 fight for ur rights, my mom always says if u want others to respect u, then first respect ur own self. Jhanvi never respected her own self, slowly she lost her self confidence, now she finds support in others, omkara , buama to fight her problems. Education has no role in it. Koi apko education de Sakta hai, us education ko apne use mai kaise Lana hai ye aap par hai.

No self respecting woman would take all the nonsense Tej has thrown. She has been the reason her kids are so affected, even after the betrayal she says I will give my life and did not even consider what will happen to her sons or what kind of impact they will face after seeing their mother dying before them.

Tej wants divorce and he has given her alimony, why is she still trying to cling to him. This is not love ...
Shivaay is a better parent figure for tejvi kids atleast they have him

jhanvi is selfish...she doesn't love anyone other than herself...she don't love tej also if she had she would have let him free long back, just for some reason she wants him to be her husband thats all...who knows om may not be not her son as well whom jhanvi always used to stand against tej and was even letting him to marry svet so that she can be with tej ,which mother can do it 🤢 ...she may turn to be a worse villain than tej kt or svet or anyone...

^^^ Bang on since the beginning I had wanted this

I agree that Tejvi are bad example of parents. Nothing said about Tej is better. He is man who was ready to see his son being food for crocodile and was enjoying his wedding such a father he is. Tej only knows to blame everyone be it Janvi or Om or Rudra for anything wrong happens without finding the actual reason why it all happening. Tej should be thankful to God that he is father of OmRu who still give him little respect due to relation otherwise his condition would have been worse than Kali and his men.


Janvi too crossed limits in her selfishness. She was ready to die missing those moments when Tej insulted her. Never did she thought about OmRu. She forgot her elder son was going to fed to crocodile and younger was also in captivation of Kaali who could kill them. Instead of trying to fight for her kids she was heading for suicide. Agar Marna hi tha to she should have tried to snatch gun or remote from kali Instead of going near Acid. Now no one can blame OmRu when they try to force this relation on Tej as now even if they want Janvi to take divorce they won't dare to ask her to take divorce. Even today when Janvi was asking about Om and Bua Ma it felt more like she wants her protective shields against Tej. In the end when she was praying to god please take care of her kids I was like till now God is only taking care of them. She is so lucky to have kids like OmRu who love and respect her and can give their life for her even after seeing her drowning in alcohol for so many years and not hating her for spoiling their childhood. Instead she is running after Tej.


Due to Tejvi this attitude Shivaye had to become parent to OmRuPri. Shivaye had become the major decision maker in their life and they handed their life in hands of Shivaye and trust him the most with any decision for them. Even Though Om fought with Shivaye for right or wrong still he trust only Shivaye for major or Vital decisions in their life. Om had become their integral part


Even Om assumed the parental role for RuPri. Om had always been protective about his mother and his brother and sisters. Om had become their basic need be it Rudra who always clinged to him for security or person he can go to anytime, blame him for his mischiefs knowing very well that Om will protect him. Even Pri she could demand driving in night of her birthday. Everyone looked towards Om to handle naughty Rudra and to teach him something. His contributions in their life were never acknowledged maybe because they doesn't seems as big steps or maybe he was their real elder brother so it was considered as his responsibilities. Only one mistake of taking drug made him look like weak person in his family which they sugarcoated as his sensitivity. They never came to know what actually made him to take drugs and no one could assess his strength. This is the reason I feel whereas he exerted his rights as brother with Shivaye freely scolding him whenever he feels shivaye is wrong but Shivaye is always hesitant to scold Om. Shivaye had only slapped him when Om went to extremes like drug overdose. He always took his relations very seriously and that is the reason he is going bareilly to save his best friend Chulbul. Uff now Gauri will understand another level of his devotion and loyalty as friend hopefully even Om would understand at least goodness of Gauri if not her pure love himself. To tell the truth I was really disappointed when Janvi and Bua Ma came to know about Gauri because I thought now they will prove Gauri's innocence in front of Om but today when Om is going to Bareilly to save Chulbul my hope again raised that Om might understand himself without proofs that Gauri is really nice person. It will be my rare dream come true if Om himself will understand goodness of Gauri in this track without anyone advocating her or proving her innocence.


I felt bad for Rudra too as yesterday he lost his hero. Even after everything he knew his father is bad but still had little faith in his dad that he is not that bad and will redeem sooner or later but when he saw he was happily letting his O to die and slapped his mother his last straw of faith died and suddenly the man in front of him become Mr. Oberoi. It must be very painful for him to finally acknowledging that his dad is not deserving to be called as dad. As person who always tried to defuse fights between his family member had to raise his voice against his father for his mother imagine how tough it would be for him. I so wished they had given good scene to show his pain and dilemma about the same. Like Om's strength and his contributions had been underestimated in a same way Rudra's intelligence and maturity has been underestimated. Rudra the person even if he shout out on silly issues and blame Om for his stupid pranks but always hide his major issues so that no one is tensed. He hid Romi devi problem, even his wedding secret. Till now he has not tried to handle his problems rather pushed them under carpet but he really try to manage his issues himself. Tej was disappointed in him because he might be academically weak and as we can see he doesn't take anything seriously but Tej never understood Ru is not academically weak due to lack of intelligence but because he doesn't want to do. Otherwise in my opinion he is the best suitable person for business as he is capable of making good plans and has a skill of handling people. I feel Shivae exert his brain too much and make really a very complicated plans which involve family bearing all the tortures before exposure of villains (Ya I agree this is important factor for trp), Om to we know forget making good plans he can't even execute plans properly as of now. He is really straightforward person who has direct enmity or love with people around him whereas Rudra can give good and simple plans which he had given once or twice. His logical questions has point like he asked why exposing svet in front of teej is important even I feel that Tej couldn't see her real face till now then what will he see after complete exposure and even if he throw svet there is no guarantee that he will love Janvi in fact he will find someone else. It's Janvi who should understand this and leave Tej all her kids will happily follow her and keep her happy.

I still remember how Ru handled those girls showed how well he can manage people. He had always diffused ShivOm fight even if we think it's their love which made them stop fighting in front of him but he could also manage to shut tej NOT ONCE BUT TWICE.