I Quit- A Final Goodbye

I quit DBO as well as IB forum. This time I am serious. It will be hard for me to resist posting in this forum again but I have to do it for my own good and for my own self-respect. I am tired of biasedness, politics and plotting in the forums. Whenever I spoke or fought for something right in IB forum, out of nowhere I got warning level of 20% from IB forum. Is speaking the right thing leading to negative consequences in this forum? I was accused of instigating fights and so on when it was always some others who started it. I let it go after 20% warning level hoping that it will be better in DBO forum. DBO forum was usually peaceful as here hardly any person is a blind fan. I see the biggest fans of Om and Gauri here who will point out their wrong if they are wrong. So I felt safe here. But day before yesterday, one post from an unfamiliar random member started everything. That person posted something unrelated to the forum. We all corrected her but one newbie supported that person and started being disrespectful to others along with that poster. Then I made a genuine post on Saumya but this newbie person came and started fighting with me on different things irrelevant of Saumya's post that I made. She/he repeatedly blamed me of creating threads and instigating wars when nowadays I hardly comment or make any post. I said few things in my defense which anyone would have done. Now, I get up from sleep in the morning and see that my warning level is increased to 40% from DBO forum. I will get only 15 posts in 24 hours to post which is very unfair. I am active in other forums too like Chandrakanta, Zindagi Channel and Qubool Hai where I write stories on AsYa. How I am supposed to update my stories regularly now and reply to my readers' comments and also comment on my friends' stories? I am not even able to concentrate on writing my stories and other things of my life schedule. I am not some random person to just come and create wars in any forum disrupting but I belong to various forums. I have been happy and peaceful from nearly 6 years in India Forums but due to some random members and newbies I get warning levels and 15 posts limits which is too much for me to tolerate. Do I deserve to be accused and treated like this after being in IF for several years? This time I can't let it go like earlier when I am not at fault. Can't we defend ourselves and retort at anyone without getting any warning levels? I am in IF from 16^th Sep 2011and have been part of various forums but I never saw such injustice, politics and plotting in any other forums. I have never been treated so badly in any other forums all these years. I am a 24 year old woman who has rights to speak on what is shown right or wrong or defend herself when someone accuses me of something nasty. I am not here to get bullied, accused and blamed for something I have not done. I don't know who reported me yesterday. All I have to say to people who hates me that you all have won and I have lost. Congratulations because you have won in getting me warning levels which I never got all these years and finally getting me out of both the forums. Thanks for making me realize that only politics rules here and thanks for making me near to tears as I will not be able to post in other forums or update my stories regularly. Goodbye to everyone to all my friends and even to those who wanted me out of both the forums. I got few friends here with whom I was safe and could discuss everything. But after what all happened, I can't stay in both the forums anymore only to be banned from the forum one day after my warning levels are full. I can't stay in the forums where a wrong person and even a criminal is excused even if the criminal physically hurts and kidnaps a woman. I can't stay in a forum where some new random member out of nowhere creates fights in the forum and I end up getting a warning level with 15 posts limits. I don't blame Mods as they are doing what they are shown and what they feel is right but its because of some stalkers and intolerant people I am targeted as if saying our opinions is a crime. Next time, even if person kidnaps and tortures a girl, I will praise him and blame only on his miserable life. Next time, someone puts me down, I will say that only they are right and I am dumb. Next time, a female lead is manhandled by a male lead, I will praise the male lead by calling him hot and passionate. This is my last post in this forum which I wrote from my heart. Sorry for my big rant but I am too much upset with what happened with me. I wish it does not happens to anyone else. Some only come here to create fights by making instigating posts. Also, be careful as all our ATs are being stalked and then any comment posted by us is targetted and reported by these interfering people. First in IB, I was targetted for everything even for normal and logical posts. And now, the same thing started in DBO too. Aisa lagta hai ki inn dono forum me saans bhi darr darr ke lena padega kyunki main kuch bhi likhu vo target ho jaata hai. We don't have any freedom of speech. Goodbye my dear friends, I never thought in my 5 years in India Forums that I will leave any forum like this. But there was not option left for me than this.

PS: This is not an instigating or whatever post. This is only final goodbye and my inner talk post. I hope I don't get another warning level for writing what I felt. Haters and people with only intention to fight kindly stay away from this post. One more thing, if someone really finds this post instigating then they have enough wisdom to not even see this post twice.

juhi...we all have d right to express our views. if dat person said something u dont have to leave d forum if u feel wat u said was genuine and right. let dem say wat dey want & u say wat u feel right.
dont leave d forum.i love ur posts.

I like all your post . Plz do not leave this forum. Be active

Juhi u will not do nothing like that. Every one have right to post their views on this forum. You didn't do anything wrong we all know that. Some newbies come and fight with you suddenly you will cut all the friendship bond with rest of us. just ignore them. Such people doesn't have any job. I also saw that she is purposefully fighting with you and this is her motive. You will be sad and quit these forums forever. I know you from qubool hai days. Iam a big fan of your stories. You are strong girl and don't let anyone to spoil your mood. They are jealous of you that's why using all these cheap tricks. Just avoid their comments. Don't reply them and slowly they will understand that they can't instigate you more and will stop doing all these cheap tactics. You should remember one thing whatever happens we all are with you. Be happy and don't stressed out 😊

I m also a newbie in the forum. But if anyone hurts u then why are u leaving the forum, that person will feel of being winner. Why you are letting this? U shld stay here and give back to them which u r feeling wrong. U have full rights. I don't know the issue but if the things are wrong then I won't support that.

Juhi whatever points you have made are all very apt and to the point

Why dont we tell all such newbies or whoever: Get a life!

I think some newbies are stalker from PH.they are using fake name and roaming here for reading our posts. They didn't like our logical posts. That's why they are creating issues here.

Originally posted by: lakshmi32

I think some newbies are stalker from PH.they are using fake name and roaming here for reading our posts. They didn't like our logical posts. That's why they are creating issues here.

Please don't do it dii...you know I love your posts and you can't let the wrong one win at any cost , I understand your feelings but still please don't do it... its a sincere request from my side , please...rest is upon you...
PS:- Isn't there anything that can be done with your warning level or post limit? contact the mod's , maybe they'll help...