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Megha

@universe_megha

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

looking at the recent topic which was locked by a mod..

https://india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=1085704

i jus wanna say that i really dont think it was started with an intention to create conflict.. or unrest.. i think it was only a concerned fan speaking.. maybe she dint choose her words carefully.. but considereing the fact that shez new, is she expected to know everything as to how to post and what to post?

all of you seemed so eager to take her to task... frankly, it wasnt her opinion which created trouble.. it was the interpretations which were given to her post! just the same which happened with me some weeks back.

i am not defending anyone.. just want to ask a simple question "Are we not allowed to post an opinion which does not confirm to the popular desire or understanding of people here?" why should we post only good things about a show, about an actor's performances, about awards' nominations???" dont we have the right to criticise anything?? every criticism is not bashing!! i really think its time for I-F to define very clearly the word "bashing".. coz wenever i went ahead to criticise any actor's performance it was interpreted as "bashing of the actor" and wen, again, this new member has posted her observation or opinion.. then also it is being called "bashing"!!

now could anyone please explain what is bashing?

i think if the right to speak consists of the right not to speak.. then the freedom to express good opinion also consists of freedom to express bad opinion, which wud be bad only in the interpretations of the people who think otherwise.

we really used to have a good time on I-F in PRC days.. but all these tiffs of whose better and who does not matter have made this place unattractive! every somewhat 'different' topic generates controversy! gosh! when will different opinion be accepted.. if not accepted.. at least accept the fact that we also have a right to share what we feel, whether or not you agree!!

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Jyoti

@Silver_Lining

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Dear Megha.. I have read your previous threads.. but u got it all wrong this time.. 😕 I can really reply to each and every line of yours in this post and that locked post also.. but seriously this is not needed right now.. we were really happy after last episode.. and wish to spend good time till forum is open... as already told to us that DV forum will be archieved soon.. 😭

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sonu

@sonur15

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

its not new............disgusting...its futile to say anything to some members...anyways..........all i want to say is if some members feel that their actor is better then other actor then they should keep their opinion to themselves....everyone knows who is talented so there should not be an argument over this..................................

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Megha

@universe_megha

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Silver_Lining
Dear Megha.. I have read your previous threads.. but u got it all wrong this time.. 😕 I can really reply to each and every line of yours in this post and that locked post also.. but seriously this is not needed right now.. we were really happy after last episode.. and wish to spend good time till forum is open... as already told to us that DV forum will be archieved soon.. 😭

of course this is needed Jyoti!! that member was unnecessarily bashed up by all! everyone was asking for "proofs"!! my god! if you all really wanted peace.. u shud hv been good to her as well! and what do u mean by u wish to spend some good time? 😲 ppl dint let her spend some good time! and not even me! but i aint complaining.. i jus want to ask the meaning of bashing.. thatz it!

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Megha

@universe_megha

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: sonur15
its not new............disgusting...its futile to say anything to some members...anyways..........all i want to say is if some members feel that their actor is better then other actor then they should keep their opinion to themselves....everyone knows who is talented so there should not be an argument over this..................................

thatz what my point is!! why do you want all opinions that do not match yours to be kept in locked rooms?!! if u hv the right to express what is good for u.. then others also hv to right to express wat they feel is bad!! jus coz YOU dont want to read it., then ppl shud stop writing it!! wat a bizarre expectation!

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sonu

@sonur15

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

nahhh megha its not that.......NOONE is stopping any member to hide his or her feelings but .....im pointing fingers at all the members who think their actor is better then other.......if they really feel that their actor is more talented then what is the use of discussing it here.......................kya kare lade yaha.....im NOT talking about other ISSUE'S or topics here...we all are free to xpress our feelings here but we want decent conversation that too in a limits NOT a FIGHT.............rajat was bashed by some members .....and they really enjoy doing this...................................................................

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Jyoti

@Silver_Lining

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: universe_megha

of course this is needed Jyoti!! that member was unnecessarily bashed up by all! everyone was asking for "proofs"!! my god! if you all really wanted peace.. u shud hv been good to her as well! and what do u mean by u wish to spend some good time? 😲 ppl dint let her spend some good time! and not even me! but i aint complaining.. i jus want to ask the meaning of bashing.. thatz it!

that memmber was bashed up?? 😲 Megha what r u saying?? 😕 If u yourself said that she or anyone on this forum has right to express her opinons.. then don't u think on this open forum .. others whom she was refering to directly also have same right to express their response to her post... ?? and if members are responding to her post that means she is being bashed up?? 😕 she opened that thread so that ppl can express their own feelings about it... right?? so just because it was not on the line of her opinion.. or different from her view point.. that means she was bashed up?? 😲

talking about proofs... don't you think she made some baseless alligations.. based on her own assumptions.. so if those members asked her on what basis she is saying this.. then what's wrong in that??

and what i mean by we want to spend some good time.. means.. DV is ended and forum will be locked soon... very few members visit this forum now.. and we want to have good time discussing about last episodes, chatting about video-mixes, talking about fan-fic etc. .. that's all.. 😊

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lakshmi

@lakshmim_84

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

megha,

lets go thru this matter step by step......

first, the user posted comment here that... vikrant fans did not vote for rajat, and that rajat fans voted for vikrant... now here she was directly accusing us........all right me, cos i am vikrant's fan. Even though it is my wish whom i shld vote for, still how can she accuse me of not voting for rajat....... thats the reason, i asked her for proofs......

now tell me can't i defend myself when someone accuses me. People had earlier too accused vikrant's fans by telling that we asked Imagine people to end DV and thatst he reason why DV was taken off air. This too was again said,without any proof.......

yes, i agree everyone has freedom of opinion, n everyone has freedom to accuse anyone.......as long as they have proofs

if u read our posts, none of us were bashing her.......we only asked for proofs cos she was accusing us.........thats why we asked, why shld the fans of vikrant be blamed if rajat did not get the award.

second, she has said that some injustice was done to vikrant, nt hat rajat is not responsible........are, who said that rajat is responsible....u r a member of this forum from long time...... have u seen any one of us, accusing rajat for the way sagars treated dharam's character. during khazana ke khoj, we felt dharam's character was made week, we protested it, we sent petitions.........everything, but all were directed to sagars........ no where we dragged rajat into it.

third, lets look into this sentence "yes i totally agree ppl shuld vote 4 rajat itz gr8 dat ur voting 4 vickz but u shld also vote 4 our rajjat
" i mean, what does she mean by this sentence.........pls explain. why is it that people "shld" vote for rajat......

fourth, pls checkt his sentence

Rajat won the best actor award last year so don't worry be happy.
Vikky and gurmeet is not nominate in this category. "

i wld like to quote sonu's post here

Originally posted by: sonur15
".....im pointing fingers at all the
members who think their actor is better then other.......if they really feel that their

actor is more talented then what is the use of discussing it here......................

.kya kare lade ya"

fifth, this quote "

they want to give chance to other actors that is why they havent nominated Rajjy this year .. agar Rajjy nominate hota to award use hi milta...no doubt at all..!!!....
"

don't u think,t his is not only defaming vikrant, but all the actors who r nominated for the awards. again i can quote sonu's post for this comment

so dear megha, out of all the replies, pls tell me, who were criticising, who were defending, n who were bashing, and accusing others

Edited by lakshmim_84 - 16 years ago

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sonu

@sonur15

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

very smart laks.....well done what an analysis laks👏.....great...kya baat hai....dont u want to quote that member who said vikrant is like eklavya and rajat is like arjun ........well dont u know that member sweety...or should i tell u her name through PM..we all know eklavya was more talented then arjun...tabhi drona ko eklavya ka angutha lena pada tha.....if that member feels that this is the same case and vikrant is more talented then sorry sweety im not interested in discussing it here............................

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Rashi

@Rash2cool

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

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first of all megha..thanks for bringing this topic..
this is d reason why have become silent member of forum...
I really hate all this
one giving reason n defending the actor..
b it rajat or vikkky..
actually as a rajat fan... i believe he is d best....
n thats it..no more....things to say from my side.
i actually had stopped commenting on such topics.. coz shuch topics were closed or rt n his fans has really got hurt lots many times..
bas........

one more thing..
RT does not innteration with his fan's personally.
so i think that must b d reason for this...bas......

sonu dear no need to defend rt...bas......🤗

i just came to post my comment....here since i saw this thread 😕😭

now a days i just come to... chk my pm... n comment on ff's. 😕 coz i hate this atmosphere
n even if i get warning for what i said i don't mind 😆😆
coz i have left comenting much n being acitive member since long 😕😆

Edited by Rash2cool - 16 years ago

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