Friendship / love without condition

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Two things--

1. This guy Abhay had traumatic childhood but still he is a much better person than his God complex Father. Couldn't believe a father can be so insensitive to his own child. Why he need to suffocate Abhay childhood with so much pressure of being surgeon. Parents should love their kids without any condition.


2. Not done Piroz...............total let down👎🏼

Today I really feel bad for Abhay. I feel he is left alone by his own friends. Whatever happened b/w Sia and Abhay let it between both of them. Why sia need to ask Piroz to choose , he can be friend with both without hurting anyone. Friendship me koi condition nahi hoti....... You can not make decisions for others. First she made one sided decision by pronouncing both BF-GF without even asking the guy, then pushing him for engagement and now forcing Piroz. Its wrong from Sia's part.

At the moment Sia is hurt, only time will ease her pain and only then she realize their relation was never meant to be. Sathe ki life me koi dusri ladki hoti ya na hoti, if not today then tomorrow their relation was bound to break. Jo kal hota wo ajj ho gaya....

In this chaos Sia, Abhay, Piroz moving into different direction. Its good for their career but everyone needs friends at their side.


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Posted: 3 years ago
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Reposting my comment from another post:


I don't think Sia is wrong either. She is processing this like any other sane person her age would. She is just giving Abhay the cold shoulder which he frankly deserves.....I am just aghast with Piroz's behavior. He catalyzed this whole engagement drama though knowing Abhay had feelings for someone else. He is also aware that Abhay now has to work with his dad which is super traumatic for him. This is the time he really needs a friend and he takes the easy way out - picks a side and lets the other friend suffer alone....

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Only good thing Vinayak has done is leaving Abhay...I know he had to face a lot of things because of this and his mother has suffered and is suffering a lot...


But see how Abhay has turned out to be ..he is a good human being, a better son and soon will be the best doctor...if Vinayak was with him he would have definitely got some mental health issues because of the traumatic childhood....its better to live alone than living with a father who is so heartless...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I wish piroz said to sia- socha to maine bhi nahi tha tu mujhe choose karne ko kahegi.



Beings friends with both side when a couple went through break up is hard. Sia is clearly not thinking rationally- shes right in her way. P chosing side isnt right, hes giving into her demand. maybe with time the two can come to an agreement.


In all these abhay is losing out. one moment of weakness and he lost his 'relationship', friends, stability, mental peace. If he dont want to pursue D ever, its understandable. The feelings led him to more destruction.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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asking Piroz to choose was really childish of Sia but her character is such that it was kinda expected of her

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanjanas

Reposting my comment from another post:


I don't think Sia is wrong either. She is processing this like any other sane person her age would. She is just giving Abhay the cold shoulder which he frankly deserves.....I am just aghast with Piroz's behavior. He catalyzed this whole engagement drama though knowing Abhay had feelings for someone else. He is also aware that Abhay now has to work with his dad which is super traumatic for him. This is the time he really needs a friend and he takes the easy way out - picks a side and lets the other friend suffer alone....

Sia's indifference behavior is still justifiable. she can shout, slap , ignore Abhay for the obvious reasons and people can resonate with her. But the problem is her asking piroz to choose....and Piroz....like you said he takes the easy way out.. and let the other friend suffer.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: viji2111

Only good thing Vinayak has done is leaving Abhay...I know he had to face a lot of things because of this and his mother has suffered and is suffering a lot...


But see how Abhay has turned out to be ..he is a good human being, a better son and soon will be the best doctor...if Vinayak was with him he would have definitely got some mental health issues because of the traumatic childhood....its better to live alone than living with a father who is so heartless...

@ red- so true. Totally agree with you , Vinayak leaving Abhay is blessing in disguise.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanjanas

Reposting my comment from another post:


I don't think Sia is wrong either. She is processing this like any other sane person her age would. She is just giving Abhay the cold shoulder which he frankly deserves.....I am just aghast with Piroz's behavior. He catalyzed this whole engagement drama though knowing Abhay had feelings for someone else. He is also aware that Abhay now has to work with his dad which is super traumatic for him. This is the time he really needs a friend and he takes the easy way out - picks a side and lets the other friend suffer alone....

not to forget phiroz just came and asked Abhay to leave an imp surgery and go to sia. what an idiot he is & so irresponsible. Sia will not quit immediately she could have been talked to later also>

secondly for normal sexual people getting attracted to other people happens. what matters is how they deal with that attraction. Abhay dint really act on his attraction to be called a cheater

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