Devon Ke Dev Mahadev Written Update - 23/04/2014 - Page 2

Originally posted by: kaatayani

usha was the medicine for banasur's malady of alter ego.. if you keep the cure away frm the patient he can never get out of his ailment..!

watever BS is doing now (incl taking away his daughter widout informing anyone) has been induced by Vani's paranoia. Thr was a scene whr Banasur was successful in fighting wid his alter ego wen usha was in his arms..!!

Originally posted by: kaatayani

medicine shud not be taken in its literal meaning per se. here..!!

Usha as a remedy meant tht Banasur's negative energies wud be converted to a positive approach because of the responsibilities of a father..!!

this equation applies to general life too whr parants often insist on progeny so that a stability is achieved in an individual's personality..!! Banasur and Vani were given the baby with the intention tht both husband and wife shall understand the responsiblities towrds their progeny and divert their energies (especially Banasur) for her better upbringing.

but with the baby at hand right frm the beginning and inspite od Mahadev's advise to Vani to stand by her hubby, Vani became paranoid.. when she shud have shared her fears and made her husband undrstand the new responsibilities of a father. She acted under her paranoia thereby fuelling Banasur's ego in response..!

its human psyche tht wen you are going thru a rough patch in your indiviadual life, small small things tend to affect your mind thereby creating a communication gap. Banasur's alter ego was fuelled by Vani's rough attitude..!!

All she was to do was to have a lil chat with her husband and make him realise Usha's value in THEIR life, Instead she took all the control of the baby and ignored the natural filial feelings of Banasur

Originally posted by: Akash005

Yes..it was very well understood that Usha is not 'a bottle of syrup' to b given to banasur to cure him of his 'ailment'...😆.. that definitely wasn't the intention..n as for Vani's 'rough attitude', she is a new mother..n being a new parent could b overwhelming for both the father n the mother.. at such times, what is required is a 'mutual' support.. it is unreasonable to expect vani to give priority to her husband's plight when she herself is struggling with her new found responsibility.. n this is what happens with most new parents.. expecting vani to just sit down with her husband n try to make him understand things is expecting her to b mother to Usha as well as to Banasur..I understand that most of the times wives r expected to take on the role of mother for their husbands too from time to time bcoz men can b like grown up babies most of the times..this is an intrinsic part of a husband-wife relationship.. but expecting a wife to play a mother to her husband when she herself is a new mother is taking things too far..such a husband needs a proper telling off from someone senior to make him c the error of his ways..blaming the wife in this context borders on injustice..

@ Bold, there !!!.. that sums up the problem in a nut shell!!.. in India this kind of mentality is very very common.. people treat marriage n babies as some sort of experiment without properly understanding the depth of the consequences...its a casual attitude of 'yeah if a couple is having a problem , a baby is the solution '... people dont even bother to think of the fact that if someone is already having a problem in his life then a baby at such a time could worsen the situation for the couple instead of improving the situation.. n as a result a poor innocent baby's life is put at stake for no fault of the baby but all the fault of "the experimental" mentality.. n that's exactly what happened with Vani n Banasur..they were given a baby thinking that the added responsibility will take away the negativity from their life but since they weren't prepared to b parents, it ended up worsening the situation..I firmly belive that marriage n parenthood should b entertained only when the concerned couple is financially, mentally,physically n emotionally well prepared n capable for the new journey of life n it shouldn't b undertaken for 'experimental' reasons..or else, 'the experiment' could end up ruining more than one or two lives!

Originally posted by: kaatayani

tht's a REAL GOOD analysis of the general situations..! now balme Parvati fr "gifting" babies evry now and then😆😆

but on a serious side.. bringing in the progeny does work wonders.. and of course the considerations that you mentioned shud be there..

with this in mind I feel tht Parvati shud have given them time to bond after a tumultuous encounter before gifinting Usha to Banasur.. may be that way even Bani's paranoia could have been countered

Originally posted by: Akash005

Well, I haven't watched the episodes in a long time, so whatever I know about happenings in dkdm is purely based on WU updates here..n it seems to me that banasur's alter ego seems to get out of control a lot, so isn't the protection of his minor daughter against his harmful nature be made a priority rather than his parental rights?.. just an opinion though..

N as for mahadev's excitement for ram avatar n lack of it for krishna avatar, I think it has something to do with the fact that Shiva was a ram bhakt himself ( hanuman) but I dont think he had any such affiliation towards krishna.. ironically both ram n krishna r the incarnations of the same god ..

Originally posted by: viper83

Well in reality that quite the opposite remmeber the show is about Mahadev not about Lord Narayan - But in the Purana and Book its stated that Lord Shiva had the alot affection with all Lord Narayan Avatars - But in relations to Lord Ram and Lord Krishna they were more. In Vaishnavism a Sect was started by again Mahadev himself.

Originally posted by: Akash005

Hmm..Shiva-Vishnu have always had a very deep and strong relationship based on mutual respect..so I suppose Krishna should not be an exception there.. speaking of which , how many Vishnu avatars did they cover dkdm?(m not a regular follower of the show n neither do i know much about Vaishnavism,however,I do know a little about Shaktism).. did they show Narsimha avatar ?.. bcoz it would make sense for dkdm to feature Narsimha in the series coz there is a very interesting legend concerning Shiv-Parvati and Narsimha..although it would require a lot of impressive CGI work to show that story..the legend goes something like this..when narsimha got out of control in his anger, Shiva took a very intriguing avatar known as Sarabhaveshwara ( a mixture eagle n human.. with two enormous wings).. he took this form to pacify narsimha but was failing at it..then he asked for parvati's help..it is said that Devi's two forms Shoolini Devi and Pratyangira Devi resided in the two wings of Sarabhaveshwara respectively.. at the first request Shoolini Devi appeared to help Shiva in pacifying narsimha..but this only infuriated narsimha further n out of his wrath a demon like huge creature appeared.. Shiva again asked for Devi's help as the combined efforts of Shoolini Devi n Sarabhaveshwara were failing.. at this request, Pratyangira Devi appeared.. this incarnation of Devi is said to b the most terrifying incarnation of all (even more terrifying than Kali,Tara or Chamundi).. she looked more like female version of narsimha (not to b confused with one of the ashta matrikas Narsimhi).. anyways her anger reached its zenith when she saw the demon like creature ... she attacked n ate the creature with such wild ferocity that Narsimha was pacified just by witnessing the terrifying incident..Pratyangira Devi is said to b a powerful repellent for black magic..however her worship is to b undertaken under utmost care bcoz in this avatar the supreme goddess is only bothered with destruction n punishment of evil n blessing the good..as humans we all have evil weakness no matter how hard we try..anyways, I always thought that this legend could make up for a rocking track in dkdm..which dkdm needs badly to ensure continuing audience interest of course..😆