Okay so I just wanted to say that this time I don't want to do a DEK bhashan, LOL ALthough I would like to add in that don't give up, remember if SA changed her creative director to one from April, she IS fighting for this show and that means we as fans need to be supportive of that because this track is JUST SUPERB!!!! What is written below is actually a letter written by a company that sends out positive e-mails everyday and I wanted to share this one with everyone because I felt that it related to our forum's crazy atmosphere OR if you are just having a bad day because life is getting too stressful. =) PLEASE do read it because it's TRULY insightful and makes one take a step back and put things into perspective. =)
(START of letter) It used to be that you needed to go to the fair to see amusingly distorted images of yourself, but now many personal computers allow you to produce them right on your desktop. In simpler times the Hall of Mirrors presented you with curved reflecting surfaces which squeezed or stretched your features generally with hilarious consequences (if you like that sort of thing).
As I say however, you can now do a similar thing with your webcam-although this may not entirely advisable if you're of a nervous disposition.
If you're familiar with the principle of optical distortions, it's perhaps not surprising that the same kind of thing can apply to thoughts. David Burns, who wrote the well-regarded book 'The Feeling Good Handbook' after studying under Aaron Beck, one of the fathers of cognitive therapy, listed a number of 'cognitive distortions'- what could in simpler terms be labeled faulty thinking.
One of these is 'catastrophising'- the tendency to assume that the very worse is always going to happen, no matter how unlikely this in fact may be. I'm afraid it's an easy habit to slip in to, especially when you're already viewing the world through morose-tinted glasses.
'My whole life is a total mess' is the kind of thing you could catch yourself thinking, but it's the words 'whole' and 'total' that need challenging. Whilst it's of course possible that 'some' of your life might indeed be 'a bit of' a mess, it would take some doing for absolutely everything to be completely falling apart.
If you catch yourself catastrophising, it's worth asking yourself if you're holding up a mirror to your mind that's providing a true view, or one which it producing an image equivalent to the reflection that makes you look like you've got hamster cheeks.
I've got quite enough of that going on without the whacky mirror, thank you very much. (End of letter)
SOO I hope that this insightful letter allows you to keep things in perspective and perhaps take a deep breath because crazy things are happening on our favorite show and also if you are just having a bad day. It definitely kept me in line, LOL. It is very easy to fall into negativity, but to take a step back and reflect saves you from that fatal fall. =) And as your Shama (light) LOL, I refuse to let you fall into the depths of darkness whether the reason be this show or personal issues in life!!! Otherwise I would have to change my name =( and I kinda like my name! ;)
ALSO VERY SORRY FOR NOT REPLYING, I have read your comments, but I find myself with limited time mostly because I am trying to not stress out too much in life and with DEK drama =)
AND NOW back the analysis LOL =)
OMG THIS EPISODE. NO ONE SHOULD MISS THIS EPISODE. IT IS EPIC. Mostly because of Manyata's confrontation with Akash. Actually ONLY because of that, LOL. And well the precap is whoa too...and perhaps Uday unveiling the bride to find that it's JN. WOW. SO INTENSE.
M's ROom
JN is wearing bridal outfit. VB barges into M"s room and yells M Bhai in worried tone. JN puts the veil over head. He heaves a sigh of relief when he sees "M". He says Thank God you are here, I was thinking that J didn't play some poisonous plot. BTW have you seen that J anywhere? JN shakes her head. VB says oh I see, now that you have become a bride, you are going to give attitude, huh? Meaning you won't even talk to me properly? JN shakes her head. VB says okay eat it up, people eat pav bhaji you can eat bhau bhaji, it's your right today. JN rolls her eyes. VB says but I must say in this veil you are looking like a doll. JN smiles. VB says everyone is waiting at the mandap, lets go. JN follows VB out, pauses and then goes on.
I am just irritated with JN, have nothing to say but loads of disappointment. And even VB's attempt at comic relief couldn't deter me from my annoyance with JN.
M-A
A walks up to A. A is smiling cockily and takes M's hand and puts his hand over her hand. He says you are with me Moniya, and now everything will be okay. Now you will see Moniya how I teach those Royals a lesson. M is taken aback.. A says This time we won't lose Moniya, but this time I am going to yell out very loudly to them how my Moniya destroyed their riyasaat and came to me. This time we won't be separated, because I am not weak like I was last time, but now I am very strong like them. They were so proud of being a royal and today all their ego and honor shall be ruined. M looks at A with narrowed eyes. A says that their nose will be cut off when the world finds outs that their daughter ran away from her home to marry someone else. M looks to side. A says you will see Moniya, I will take revenge for every wound given to me, from not your family, but from Udaybeer too. M looks at A.
For a girl who came here to meet Akash and supposedly run away with him, she looked like a girl who was disappointed with Akash and how low he has gone. That was my thought while watching the show before I saw this entire episode play out. And indeed my initial hope/thoughts on what was going to happen was actually more spot on and I AM SO HAPPY (as I am sure others are too who also felt the same way ;) !!! But yes more to the point on this scene, it just shows how A has really lost his humanity and M is just taken aback by how low he has gone.
Mandap
UV waiting. VB and JN coming downstairs and go to mandap. RP says now bride and groom must do the sthan. UV says thanks princess, today you kept my honor. JN smiles. UV says I didn't know why I was scared that you might not come today. JN and Unnati smile. UV says thank you. RP says now we must do and UV says yes. Unnati ties the knot for JN and UV. Komal and VB smile. JN smiles.
UGH, I despised watching the Mandap scenes mostly because JN. UGH. And UV...sigh I feel for him...
M-A
A takes M along to the mandap. A smiles at M and A says panditji start now. M takes the garland and realizes the man who is holding the thaali is C smiling. She fb to the moment when she sees C coming down the stairs and saying that A is Aryan Rai Chaudhary, my only son. She looks shocked to see him. C says are you shocked? Even I was shocked to see you here. M looks at A. C says I never thought that Royals had hearts, but you were right to say this Akash, your Moniya left her wedding to come here for you. M shocked. Those royals had no effect on this girl. M shocked. C says here you go son and A picks up the garland. C says those royals will now understand who Chaudhary is. Now just once you two get married, now the Devgarh family will be finished. M shocked. Today is the last day of the Devgarh Royals. Congrats on you two's wedding and Devgarh's ruination. A smirks and M shocked. M looks at A and A looks at M cockily. Tense eyelock goes on.
CVs try to mislead us into thinking that M is really shocked by A's truth at the mandir, but nope that is not the case, they did a REALLY good job in misleading by thinking that M is the one who is getting shocked A's reality when its more like M getting increasingly shocked by low A has fallen in her eyes. He has found new depths of low in M's eyes.
Mandap
RP says today its not just two big families joining, but two riyasats coming together. BR smiles. RP says after today Jaigarh and Devgarh will be united in this marriage's bond. UV smiles at JN. Jn smiles.
UGH...I don't wish to comment more on this...🤢---> That emoticon is enough is commentary.
M-A
M holds up her mala and is about to put it on A and stops and puts it down. M steps back. M says since forever in my eyes it was my dream that I would be like a dulhan with this garland standing in front of you. ANd I thought it will be our love's victory. A says and that day is here Moniya. M says when you met me I was just some common cleaning maid, you made me realize that I am something too, that someone could love me too, you taught me to see dreams. And now that I am in this bridal avatar, it seems like to me now that it's a good thing for some dreams to break because if dreams don't break, we won't wake up from our sleeping state. M says yes this is the truth Akash, you were my first love, you gave me a reason to live, but you are not that man that I once loved. A says what are you saying Moniya? M says yes, now you are not that Akash that one day had loved some common cleaning made and used up your entire month's pay to buy her favorite sandals. Now you are that Akash who for your new life, sacrificed your love. M turns around and says you are now a man whose life's purpose is not love but only hatred. A walks up to M and turns her around and says Moniya--M interrupts and says you know Akash, ever since I took step into this mandir you have not said a word about our life together after marriage. A pissed. M says all you say is i want to teach those royals a lesson. For you, it's become more important to condescend to Uday than marrying me. You wouldn't be making plots to condescend to my family, Akash. And if you were my Akash, than you would try to win me with love from my family, not with hatred. A says enough Moniya, Moniya! M says not Moniya, Her Highness Yuvrani Manyata Kumari. A says angrily tell me the truth, all these things that you are saying who taught you all this, that Udaybeer right? How did you succumb to those no-good, coward's words? M mad. A says for him you are fighting with me! M turns around and says talk to me with respect Akash, Uday is my future husband. M says he isn't the no-good, you are! A pissed off. A crinkles the garland in his hands in anger. M says he is not the coward you are Akash! A walks up in anger to M. M says a betrayer is not worthy of trust. You never understood Uday. He is not only my fiance, he is also my very good friend. When no one was with me, and I was outside the house, he was the only one sitting outside with me, only for me. Uday has always kept my family's honor, always gave honor to my family's vows. What did you think that, that family which made heaven and earth one to find me for the past 16 years, you think I will leave them for you by coming here? You never understood me Akash. You never understood my love and you will never understood me. If you didn't want to marry me, then why did you come here? M says I wanted to permanently say good bye to you. Good bye Akash. I am going to marry Uday. What love is, you taught me. But how love is done, Uday taught me. He took a stubborn, crazy-headed girl to becoming Yuvrani Manyata, only and only UV did this. For you I will always have room for you in my heart Akash, but my heart is Udaybeers. My Familys. My riyasaats. M smiles. A is pissed as hell.
OMG. LIKE BEST SCENE IN THE ENTIRE EPISODE!! THE FREAKING BEST!!! I mean CVs were DOING A GREAT job misleading us all by us thinking that M is still willing to marry Akash even after him badmouthing her family, and even with C going on about the Devgarh family she still takes the varmala and is about to put it on A and BG music of marriage vows, I mean THEY REALLY HAD US GOING THERE and I was like OMG M STOP M STOP and SHE DID!! THANK GOD!!! I am so happy!!! Original thoughts about why M was going to mandir to say her final good bye to Akash was RIGHT!!!! YAY so HAPPY!!!! Thank god it wasn't M finding out A's truth at the mandir, it seems that M has actually become smart and didn't have to be hit in the head with the Akash's truth!!! THREE CHEERS JUST FOR THAT!!! LOL Hallelujah its a miracle guys!!!! LOL. OMG OMG OMG!!!! SO LOVED THIS SCENE!!!! I mean EVERYTHING M SAID WAS JUST PURE AWESOME IN THIS SCENE!!! I LOVED HOW SHE tells Akash, not Moniya, Her Highness Yuvrani Manyata Kumari!!!! SO FREAKING AWESOME!!!! LOVED IT!!! ANd how she defends Uday!!!! OMG love her comparison of Uday and Akash!!! Loved how she says you are the terrible guy Akash not Uday!! LOVED HOW she said that Akash NEVER understood her, never loved her!! ALSO loved how she said that sometimes its good for some dreams to be broken because then it wakens you up from your sleeping state! LOVED IT!!! Basically I loved her ENTIRE monologue!!! Such growth Yuvrani Manyata Kumari deserves some definite applause!!! 👏👏👏
Mandap
RP says please stand up now. The garlands are brought. Unnati gives it both M and JN. RP says bride and groom will put on the varmala on each other. JN goes on to put the garland on JN's hand when UV then stops JN from putting the varmala on him. He puts her hand down. he looks at the bride in suspicion. JN is worried. UV takes off the veil and JN is revealed. UV shocked. Everyone else is shocked. JN looks down in shame. UV pissed. UV shakes his head. BR says JN you? Komal says in the place of M, J? How is this possible? BR says where is M JN? JN looks down in shame. VB says now what, who knows where M is, where will we bring her from where! UV says I know where M has went at this time. JN looks shocked. UV and JN look at each other.
Well we all knew UV is not stupid and figures out its JN. So for those worried that JN would manage to fool UV or that CVs were messing with how smart UV's character is and not that he won't catch this lie...he did. And things are NOT looking good for M. I actually feel bad for her, yes she treated UV badly, but in that entire monologue, she made me believe in her wholesome goodness all over again. But M you are going to have to suffer for your love, to win back his trust, because perhaps then will you guys have an EPIC love story!!! And its time for it to not be so one-sided ANYMORE, although it might be considering Uday is not going to be happy with you, but well the things worth having in life are worth fighting for and tag you're IT, Manyata Kumari, it's your turn! LOL I kind of like this situation anyway, it makes their love story so interesting, I mean M was the one who proposed and now M will have to win her love back, love this GIRL POWER business in the field of love since usually on TV you see the guy doing all the work and the girl just sort of taking it all in. Well on this show you see the guy doing all the work AND you will get to see the girl do the SAME in respect 😆 I LOVE THIS SHOW!! SO AWESOME!!!
M-A
M says I have to go now Akash. My whole family is waiting for me. M goes off to leave but A grabs M's hand. M says please Akash, whatever happened between us, please give respect to it! Don't fall in my eyes so much. I don't want to remember you like this. A pulls M and says you will only remember when I let you go from here!!! M shocked.
A is a jerk and obviously we all knew he was going to pull this forcing business. I think it's the precap that is more worrying than anything else. EEKS!!! 😕
Precap: M is shown leaving. But M sees the press taking pictures of her. M is hiding her face. She drops the garland. The press is asking millions of questions. M tries to cover her face with her veil. M is shocked. C smiles and puts his hand on A. M is shocked.
OH GOD...This is not going to GO DOWN well AT ALL. I am hoping for M to turn the situation around, but she looks too shocked beyond belief at the press, well honestly was expecting the press to be there, figured that C-A would have them out there waiting for them once the marriage happened. But OH DEAR...there IS GOING TO BE A LOT OF DRAMA...EEKS!!! I can't wait for tomorrow's episode!!! AHHH!!! I can't believe this ALL happened on Tuesday...WOW...Wednesday and Thursday are going to be INTENSE...PHEW!!! I FREAKING LOVE THIS SHOW!!! IT's SO AWESOME!!!! 😃 Seriously CVs are on a freaking roll!!! 👏⭐️
