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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

People who dont hv the guts to face the truth and accept facts in life ,never actually succeeds in any relationship 👎🏼...and this is what was shown in today's episode 😊..

I m talking about the Uday-Akash confrontation scene 😎...Uday was actually telling the truth to Akash regarding Moniya ...its true that Uday neither forced Moniya for a coffee-date nor he had tied her up to the chair 😆..It was Moniya herself who went with Uday and was hving good time with him 😃...

Even Akash knew this fact since he himself saw ManVeer hving good time together with his own eyes ...But still if he is in denial ,then it means he is deliberately turning a blind eye towards the reality because of his own insecurities regarding Moniya ...

Akash is fine when Moniya smiles and enjoys in his company but all of a sudden Akash just cannot accept the fact that Moniya can enjoy in someone else's company as well ...

Akash can accuse Uday of playing politics between him and Moniya but he cannot deny the fact that Manyata is enjoying Uday's company more in the present 😉😛..Reality hurts and thats what is happening with Akash ..Mayb he trusts Moniya but he is not ready to accept the harsh reality that Moniya can start liking someone else as the time passes by 😊

Coming to Komal ,I feel before taking any decision ,she should try and see the ManVeer relationship first and talk to DS about her issues before taking the big decision of telling anything to DS ,...😳...

Coming to Moniya ,she is quite confused at present ..In her subconscious mind ,mayb she does not need Akash anymore and beginning to enjoy Uday's company but her conscious mind is not ready to accept this fact and so she is still continuing with her Akash saga ...

All in all noone is ready to face the reality ..neither Akash nor Moniya ...both knows very well that a certain Uday is starting to affect them 😉😛 ...but like I said reality hurts becuase its harsh

Edited by jyoti06 - 13 years ago

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chitra_rao

@chitra_rao

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Posted: 13 years ago

Awesome post, u always show and write things that make u even more believe that Manveer is not far away, ur post made my day, haven't seen the episode will watch it now 😊

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Mansi

@skanda12

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jyoti, very well analysed!👏

I too have noticed today two distinct clues to the personality of Akash and Manyata.

Let's take Akash first. His whole being is eaten up with undescribable jealousy. Did you see the way he initially told Chikki "Manyata was laughing and enjoying herself with Udayveer as if she was with ONE OF US!" What bloody cheek for this chap to think that Manyata should have no enjoyment with anybody else in life except the three chawl friends? I mean, is there no end to such petty meanminded jealousy?

And then instead of clearing the air with Manyata (which is what a normal person would try to do) he marches off straight to Udayveer to give dhamki's like "Don't you dare come near Moniya" as if she is some prize in a cock-fight! When Uday said coolly that he never frced Manyata or tied her to the chair and that she was beginning to genuinely like her royal life more these days, did you see the expression of distaste on Akash's face.

What can I say ... Akash is one jealous guy, who knows no limits to his ego when he is crossed by someone else. He cannot even bear the thought that Manyata can have other friendhsips ... after all she was not kissing Uday in the coffee parlour or sitting on his lap. She was merely in friendly conversation!

Now coming to Manyata, she is unwilling to acknowledge that she has started to depend more and more on Uday. When he tries to console her she is only too willing to use the shoulder he gives her to lean on. Look how she openly discusses Akash's betrayal with Uday as if he is her friend, confidante and mentor.

She is changing, and even if she resists hearing this from Akash and Chikki and all that, she soon will not be able to deny that she not only needs Uday in her life but likes being around him.

Akash is making the relationship heavy and complicated while Uday is making her life easy and simple. Which girl will choose to live in continuous emotional roller-coaster and agony when someone else is offering her a life full of gentle and simple fun and laughter?

Edited by skanda12 - 13 years ago

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nizza

@lakshyasss

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Posted: 13 years ago

True about ure post 👏

about akaash one thing to say he today himself made a fool by going to ask udayveer...if he was not going to believe him...my mom even said is he mad if he knows what's gonna happen why he is going...if he knows udayveer will say him...lie what he is doing there and i laughed...

About chicky isn't she always there with akaash in bad times...i am having good feeling of chickash now😳

nizza

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prachurya

@prachurya

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Posted: 13 years ago

Totally agree with u, Jyoti! As UV said its time to wake up from dreams and face the reality.

Akash told UV dat he can never doubt M and when M called to speak to him, he denied to speak to her sending some silly excuse via the PCO kid. I dnt understand Akash's thought-process, here. Does that mean all that words abt his faith on M in front of UV were just mere dialogues to win the confrontation, whereas his insecurities can be felt strongly, when he said to Chikki dat he has to find out whether his eyes were decieved or his heart! That is the reason why UV was still smiling as Akash left after delivering his speech on the gr8 trust factor b/w him and M

@bold: He thinks that M might be deceiving him, so where is all this great trust and love that he speaks of.

M is really trapped b/w her own wish of becoming a princess and then convincing herself daily by repeating that she is doing this for Akash only!

As for Komal, she needs to think right! Does she really want Akash to marry M? How much does she knw Akash and compare it with for how long and how much she has known UV! I am repeating my Mom's words - Giving into a child's demands, which are nt good for her is like running away from your own responsibilities. As DS said, M is nt mature enough to take correct decisions so its their duty to guide her and make her understand what is right and what is wrong!

Brilliant post as usual Jyoti!

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: chitra_rao
Awesome post, u always show and write things that make u even more believe that Manveer is not far away, ur post made my day, haven't seen the episode will watch it now 😊

It was a good episode from ManVeer POV ..do watch it 😳

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Jarin04

@Jarin04

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Posted: 13 years ago

Jyo, totally agree with u. Akash needs to wake up nd face the truth. Btw today i really hated brijraj . No matter how bad your daughter is u can't talk with her in this way. It looks like BR doesn't know how to behave with his own daughter.

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: skanda12
Jyoti, very well analysed!👏

I too have noticed today two distinct clues to the personality of Akash and Manyata.

Let's take Akash first. His whole being is eaten up with undescribable jealousy. Did you see the way he initially told Chikki "Manyata was laughing and enjoying herself with Udayveer as if she was with ONE OF US!" What bloody cheek for this chap to think that Manyata should have no enjoyment with anybody else in life except the three chawl friends? I mean, is there no end to such petty meanminded jealousy?

And then instead of clearing the air with Manyata (which is what a normal person would try to do) he marches off straight to Udayveer to give dhamki's like "Don't you dare come near Moniya" as if she is some prize in a cock-fight! When Uday said coolly that he never frced Manyata or tied her to the chair and that she was beginning to genuinely like her royal life more these days, did you see the expression of distaste on Akash's face.

What can I say ... Akash is one jealous guy, who knows no limits to his ego when he is crossed by someone else. He cannot even bear the thought that Manyata can have other friendhsips ... after all she was not kissing Uday in the coffee parlour or sitting on his lap. She was merely in friendly conversation!

Now coming to Manyata, she is unwilling to acknowledge that she has started to depend more and more on Uday. When he tries to console her she is only too willing to use the shoulder he gives her to lean on. Look how she openly discusses Akash's betrayal with Uday as if he is her friend, confidante and mentor.

She is changing, and even if she resists hearing this from Akash and Chikki and all that, she soon will not be able to deny that she not only needs Uday in her life but likes being around him.

Akash is making the relationship heavy and complicated while Uday is making her life easy and simple. Which girl will choose to live in continuous emotional roller-coaster and agony when someone else is offering her a life full of gentle and simple fun and laughter?

As usual very well written Mansi 👏👏...

Akash is insecure because he is realising that Manyata is moving on in her life but still he wants to prove a point to Uday by showing him that how he trusts Manyata and so he came to meet Uday to question him ... ...Basically he does not trust Manyata which was clear in that scene with Chikki where he complains about how she was hving fun with Uday

About Akash not liking Manyata-Uday friendship here .,,,this I feel is because Manyata herself told Akash how Uday is a mean and bad guy ,,so she has painted a negative picture of Uday in front of Akash and mayb thats why he is even more shocked thinking how can Manyata become friends with Uday ...

So here Manyata too is shown a bit fickle minded because of her young age and mayb she is falling for Uday in real now whereas her relationship with Akash was just a common attraction because of her young age which she wants to deny ...😛

Akash does not want to communicate with Moniya now which is his stupidity

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: lakshyasss

True about ure post 👏

about akaash one thing to say he today himself made a fool by going to ask udayveer...if he was not going to believe him...my mom even said is he mad if he knows what's gonna happen why he is going...if he knows udayveer will say him...lie what he is doing there and i laughed...

About chicky isn't she always there with akaash in bad times...i am having good feeling of chickash now😳

nizza

I dont understand why Akash is scared to talk to Moniya and clear it all when Moniya herself called him up ?? 😕...This is where his insecurity is showing because he is scared as he knows he cannot accept the truth in case Moniya admits that she is indeed enjoying Uday's company these days 😉

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Mansi

@skanda12

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@Jyoti, I agree that Manyata has initially told Akash that she disliked Uday, but can Akash take on the right to insist that forever she should remain at enemy terms with Uday? By going to the palace to live she has only gone to her true home and family, na? So eventually he should know that even if she has bad vibes with people there initially, she would have to mend fences soon as they are her real family with their friends. How can he expect that she must continue to hate those people who are her flesh and blood or family friends forever?

For that matter suppose even that Manyata is allowed to marry Akash. Does that mean he will keep her in a cage or in bad relationships with her own kith and kin just because she had initial problems in integrating with her own people?

The truth is that Akash desperately wants to keep Manyata in bad vibes with her own people. I think he is living in a fool's paradise

Edited by skanda12 - 13 years ago